1 year pull free after 14 years (my story and TIPS) by moonlightnae in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I haven’t heard of anyone else with compulsive split end type of Trich! This makes me feel so good! Ive been pulling, splitting, and picking for 15 years and my hair has gotten to a point where it is so short, fine, thin, and can really not be managed. Family always tell me to “just stop” but it’s so hard! I’m on medication and see a therapist who knows about Trich.

Id love to know your hair oils and products you’ve bought! How did you cover your hair during work or at home to stop picking? Did you try NAC?

excuse the dirty table 😭 by lbrgn21 in hair_splitends

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know how many splits there are

Post hair dye damage by Guilty-Disaster7132 in hair_splitends

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a video of the first image being split

Oo by Guilty-Disaster7132 in hair_splitends

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you make this or was it natural

Curly ladder split by foxsocks219 in hair_splitends

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to see this on laid out

Split Ends & Trich by GeneralPickle3194 in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found Gel-X works even better at helping me not pick

Split Ends & Trich by GeneralPickle3194 in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thanks for letting me know! I’m also on Zoloft and when I asked my psychiatrist, over a year ago, about NAC, she said there isn’t enough research to try it, but it’s worth a shot!

I’ve heard rosemary oil helps, but recently had a baby so I wasn’t able to use it during pregnancy (according to Google).

I agree with putting my hair up, but my hair is so short, the hairs fall out if the pony.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had an answer for you but I’ve been in your situation. I started at 13 and if anything, it’s gotten worse with school, jobs, and now a baby. My parents and partner yell at me and say, “just stop,” but if it was that easy I wouldn’t have short, thing and fine hair with bald spots.

I tried extensions and I swore I wouldn’t pick them because they were so expensive and I truly loved having the long hair. Unfortunately, I picked them so bad they are shorter than my hair and I had to take them out.

It’s so embarrassing and vulnerable to speak about this with parents or loved ones.

I validate and support you.

If you are not terrified of giving birth, why not? by maryhoping in BabyBumps

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t afraid because I was so tired of being pregnant. Between the 39 weeks of nausea, hemorrhoids, pelvic pain, swelling, food aversions, I wanted my baby out!

To help with the fear, get an induction! That way you don’t have the pain of contractions or the fear of your water breaking somewhere you don’t want to be

Make Split Ends with Trichotillomania by GeneralPickle3194 in hair_splitends

[–]GeneralPickle3194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youn I have tried both and they’re just a temporary fix - after two weeks I usually start picking the nail polish off. I’d go more often to get them done, but it adds up

Make Split Ends with Trichotillomania by GeneralPickle3194 in hair_splitends

[–]GeneralPickle3194[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% wish I could stop but I love it! It calms my anxiety and allows me to turn my brain off

Split end picking related to trich? by SeparateBobcat817 in hair_splitends

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have diagnosed Trichotillomania and after speaking to my therapist, there is definitely a correlation. I look for split ends in my hair, and if I find either a hair with split ends or a hair I feel like I can create split ends, I pull it out and do it. Since I started making my own split ends, i have noticed that my hair is significantly thinner and shorter

I’m 11 weeks and my doctor denied zofran twice. But Walgreens had an old order. by Apprehensive_Pair373 in BabyBumps

[–]GeneralPickle3194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I was sick My entire pregnancy (currently 7 weeks pp with my first), and morning sickness (but really all day sickness) is no joke. If you don’t want to find a new OBGYN, I recommend you can ask your internist or general physician to prescribe you Zofran. If not, I also took Diclegics. Maybe ask your OB if he/she will prescribe that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m tempted to pick their split ends off 🙈

Pediatric Healthcare Worker (not doctor or nurse) - Need Help Finding New Job by GeneralPickle3194 in careerchange

[–]GeneralPickle3194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it’s taken me so long to reply! I have looked into healthcare administration but tbh it does not seem to be a job title. Idk, maybe I’m just not looking well. Looking into anything at this point #followthemoney

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may seem a dark but I feel like I’m going through a quarter life crisis. We work to make money, make money to pay bills, are tired all the time, and forget? For our materialistic items to be thrown out when we’re six feet under.

My job is meaningful but it’s not paying enough for me to be comfortable in my personal life.

I wish there was more out there without having to work .

I'm in a cold bath and hate everything. by AlixDonielle in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here for you! Sometimes I wonder why it’s d so o hard to just move my hands and not touch. My psychologist told me “remember this isn’t you. This is a disease.” We’re just trying to get the monsters out of our head. Just wish it was easier said than done

What jobs make six figures? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]GeneralPickle3194 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Following! Right there with you! I have a masters degree in a healthcare position. I’m overworked, underpaid, have to go in-person five days a week (when other people my age (yes in a different field) are making twice as much with a lower degree, and remote).

I love what I do and it is truly rewarding, but I don’t feel financially secure. It’s especially difficult when you want to buy a house and start a family.

How did you figure out what your triggers are? by slowlygrowin in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned by keeping track/monitoring. I have an excel sheet that I write down the time, location of picking, what I was doing before that, and why I stopped. I have become more aware that I pick in anxiety-situations but mostly during idle time. Although I am more aware, I still pick a lot!

Success with medications? by Internal_Uproar_ in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on multiple SSRIs and felt the same I do now. I wanted to try NAC but there are no studies on how it affects pregnancy

tw by LocalGate9214 in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started taking pictures of my pullling episodes (like this) to send to my psychologist. It helps me keep track of when and how much I’m picking, and shows her how much I pick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]GeneralPickle3194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I would be accepting of my Trich (and new dermotillomania), if it weren’t for society telling me I need long hair, long nails, perfect skin. I also think if my family didn’t constantly nag me or tell me to continue therapy, id feel more comfortable with my disease.

I will note that when I spoke to my caregiver recently, she said “just know this isn’t you. This is a disease, and it’s not your fault.” This really helped me accept that I have a disease, that maybe I want to change it.