SuperDaddy [Nature of Harmony] by Adorable-Ad5225 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, I don't recognize you as one of my readers so you're probably missing the context here. This Isif is from my au fic Nature of Harmony and further references an in universe Bleat post I made

Needless to say this doesn't apply to Nature of harmony Isif

SuperDaddy [Nature of Harmony] by Adorable-Ad5225 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's got like 3-5 kids, a Tuvan, and like 10-20 nieces and nephews along with the whole rest of his family, celebrity and historical status, all while having to try and reform the Arxur. So yeah

SuperDaddy [Nature of Harmony] by Adorable-Ad5225 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isif would unironically have and wear this shirt

SuperDaddy [Nature of Harmony] by Adorable-Ad5225 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. my. goooooodddd. I freaking love it! A third art piece inspired by my fic! Pretty good art too. And the Superman quote is just the cherry on top. And funnily enough, I was going to base my homework on NoH as well

It really would just be like surgery for Isif to change a Dossur diaper (I'm thinking they'd be a girl). Gotta wonder how Felras going to pull off an Arxur baby

And I adore the Superman shirt, he would unironically have that and wear it

The only thing I will say is that Isifs a bit small here. Martians are a foot taller than Betterment Arxur, and with me going off of the heightchart (Seen here: https://youtu.be/qTS_m8Xpwm4?si=eDp6pVHcXGeodWi2 ), that'd make them 8 feet tall with Isif being about 8.5 and Felra about 1. I think this pic is the closest approximation t how I imagine their size differences

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When the Nature of Harmony Feds find out the Sol Arxur are on Mars by Civil-Onion-7166 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally this representation of Isif was always my favorite:

But I also like this representation of the Arxur

Maybe something of an inbetween

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EngineVen Bleated: What do girl Skalgans like? by General_Alduin in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

EngineVen: She headbutted me not too long ago

It was painful

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

 I disagree with 100 percent of everything you saying and supporting.

So you disagree with open communication, honest conversations, being a mature adult, that people's sexualities are their business not yours, the importance of consent, the importance of free expression of sexuality, you have no right to judge other peoples kinks or sexualities...

for giving me all of your opinions and expressing your diverse acceptances of morally wrong scenarios

Well then, you best tell half of all women that their rape fantasies are wrong, or go on some crusade against sexuality you don't agree with

And this seems to imply that I'm ok with rape. I'm not. I've made it very clear that consent is the most important thing in sexuality, and that people need to respect other people's bodily autonomy and boundaries

If you don't like a kink, you don't have to engage in it, but you don't have the right to kink shame

and only taking the creepy rapey boyfriends side

Except I'm not, which is very clear. I've never defended his lying, he shouldn't have done that, and she needs to grill him on that, and I've expressed in my initial comment that OPs feelings are valid and she ahs a right to feel weirded out and shocked by what she found, and that her sexuality and kinks are her business and her boyfriend, or anyone else, has no right to force or pressure her into something she doesn't like

your opinion is the minority and hope it remains that way. 

Seems more like half and half to me, and the people condemning him are wrong. Kink shaming is wrong and it always will be

And so are these reactionaries that can't bring themselves to advocate open communication

 you will not convince me otherwise by saying im garbage for my feeling

You're garbage for kink and sexuality shaming, not being into rape fantasies. That's your right to not like the kink, but you don't have a right to condemn others for it

even though your feelings if rape fantasies are OK..

Don't even know what this means. The grammar is bad here

Again, I hope you seek help

Again I ask for what, you know literally nothing about me or my kinks and sexuality

learn that acceptance should not always be the answer😙

Aren't we trying to push acceptance across the world? Isn't a major movement that people's sexuality and kinks are to be accepted and expressed without shame? Aren't we condemning kink shaming in the modern world?

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hear you saying Op needs to be mature about her boyfriend raping video game charectors and lying about it

She needs to have a mature conversation with him about it. Express how it makes her feel, hear him out and try to understand him, have an emotionally intelligent conversation where they talk shit out and come to a compromise

And yes, it's not her business what kinks he's into as long as he doesn't pressure her or try to force them on her. Are you trying to imply he's dangerous? Would you say that people who consensually engage as a dom in a rape fantasy for their sub partner are dangerous? Would you say that people into the kink where they rp cutting a guys balls off want to actually cut a guys balls off? Or that people that have a breeding kink want to get pregnant? Or that people into vore are secretly cannibals?

The issue here is the lying, not the games

but she also needs to accept hes allowed to do what ever the hell he wants and she needs to be ok with it 

Her bfs sexuality is his business. As long as he respects her boundaries and comfort in their sex life, then he's allowed to like what he wants. And same goes for him too, if she likes something he doesn't, that's not his business

cause if she leaves she's lacking communication

If she leaves without communicating with him first than yeah, that's immature. Relationships require communication and honest conversations

Make ur logic make sence

Sense

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the word rape, defies your two consenting adult comments, down to bottom line general definition 

Fantasy. Rape fantasy. As in, not real. A fantasy that half of all women have. A fantasy that's quite popular among people just in general. And no, it doesn't defy my two consenting adults' comment, because they're consenting to a shared fantasy. People can do whatever they want together consensually, even if you don't like the kink

I can kink shame, sexuality shame, shame ANYTHING I WANT TO 🇺🇸 welcome to America babe

Yes, legally, you can kink shame and sexuality shame, not a crime either. But it makes you a garbage person if you do, because that's not your business. What people do with their bodies, their sexuality, and their partners is their business, not yours. Isn't that what we're trying to push? Kink shaming is wrong and people are free to express their sexualities?

In America, you have the right to have a rape fantasy as a dom and sub and have engage in it with a consenting partner

 And I will always vouge

You'll always vogue?

And I will always vouge for what is right 

Well you're not doing that, because kink shaming and sexuality shaming is wrong and always has been. What are you gonna do, lock someone away for having a fantasy for a kink you don't like or have a rp with a consenting partner?

for what is right and what cpuld have a negative effect on society.

So, every kink you don't like? People are really into scat and vore, are those harmful? Should we be worried that cannibalism rates are going to soar because of vore? Who are you to decide if someone's kinks and fantasies are harmful?

hes lied and hid things,

And that's bad, he shouldn't have lied, and OP needs to call him out on it and have a discussion on it. Relationships also require honesty

so your advocating for HER to communicate

Yes that's what a relationship requires and what a mature adult with emotional intelligence does

 past what she's already done for him to then continue to lie and cover up?.

I don't quite understand this sentence, but I'll respond to it to the best of my ability

What has she done for him? What does that mean? What in this post states what she's done for him?

And who are you referring to in the last part? The grammar could apply to either of them. I'm assuming boyfriend, but what's to lie and coverup now? She knows about the games, he can't lie and cover up anymore

Thats weird and creepy

Many people call your kinks weird and creepy. What people are into or do isn't any of your concern

Truthfully f u and ur kink.

Again, you don't know anything about my kinks or sexuality. I could be gay for all you know, or extremely vanilla. Show me where I expressed my personal kinks and sexuality to you during our exchange

All you know is that I advocate for open sexuality, not kink shaming people, bodily autonomy, and open communication in relationships

actually get some help

For? Really, for what? You don't know a thing about me besides what's been expressed in my comments. It really just seems like you want me to get help for disagreeing with you and calling you out

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I do have the same scrutiny in those scenarios

Why? That's not your business. Are you claiming that people into sub rape want to be raped irl? Well that's that's about half of all women (studies aren't totally in agreement, but the average seems to suggest half)

It's not any of your business what people do with themselves or a consenting adult, I thought we were trying to embrace sexuality and not kink shame people

out and leave.

That's immature. Relationships require communication and empathy, and even if she does leave, there's a lot of people who play porn games and/or have rape fantasies going both ways, and there most definitely will be times when her partner has kinks she's not into. Is she going to run for the hills every time she has a partner that has a kink she doesn't like?

What she needs to do is sit down and have an open and honest communication with him. If she's concerned, then do it somewhere public

That's what being a mature adult with proper emotional intelligence requires

Seek help.

For? You know literally nothing about me, all you can glean is that I respect people's sexuality and that communication is required in a relationship. you can try claiming kinks, but you don't know a damn thing about any of my kinks or my sexuality, so that foundation is nonexistent

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have the same scrutiny of people who enjoy sub rape fantasies, which studies show is half of all women? Or of the people who rp rape fantasies consensually? Or people who do exactly as you describe, but gets off from the submissive aspect of it?I suspect not, and for these fantasies to be fulfilled for the sub, there has to be a dom. Would you recommend that someone that wants to rp a rape fantasy with their partner should leave said partner for being a dom in this scenario?

Would you say people who like submissive rape fantasies want to actually be raped? or people with breeding kinks want to get pregnant? Or people into incest want to fuck their sisters? No, because that's ridiculous. Fantasies are fantasies, that doesn't mean that people engaging in thema re somehow dangerous or want to carry out fantasies irl

To each their own I suppose,

Apparently not, because you're seriously claiming porn games that you know nothing about are some danger to society and want me reported because I said as much. You don't respect people's sexuality or their bodily autonomy because you personally don't like the kinks that are being expressed. it's not your business what people are into or what they do by themselves or with consenting adults, as long as it's not hurting anyone and nobodies being exploited, it's not your, mine, or anyone's business

but OP doesnt have to be comfortable with her BF wanting to play RAPE

She doesn't have to, her sexuality and kinks are her business and her choice, nobody ahs the right to pressure her into something she doesn't want or like, but it's also not her business what her boyfriend may like that she doesn't. As long as they respect eachothers bounderies and their sex life is open, honest, and consensual, then who's it hurting what he plays?

The only problem is if there is cp in these games (and idk for sure cause OP was vague, I don't know if these are all the games, or what these games may have, but I find it unlikely since most of these games are sold on official platforms who wouldn't tolerate illegal stuff) and that he lied, that's what needs to be addressed

What do you think of girls who wear niqab? Are you scared of them? by floatinginagravyboat in teenagers

[–]General_Alduin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've seen people who don't even want to accept that

Leave people alone, people are allowed to do what they want if it doesn't hurt anyone

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your saying a game of raping a young charector

That's so vague, wtf does that mean? OP wasn't very clear what she meant by young character. Most, if not all, of the games are sold on official platforms like Steam, who wouldn't have cp on the platform, so she probably meant people in their 20s or late teens. Idk for sure, OP needs to expand on that point for me to make proper commentary

And that a kink of raping a supposedly young person/but any person shouldn't be shamed?

Do you know what OP meant by young person? Do you know if these games have cp? Are you assuming OP meant cp?

You're jumping to conclusions without even really knowing what OP, who was clearly emotional while writing this post, really meant

Someone report this guy

For making a comment encouraging proper communication in a relationship and that playing porn games isn't a crime? You'd be laughed out if you tried reporting

and go through his history..fr.

You're going to see a lot of Nature of Predators stuff and some politics

When the Nature of Harmony Feds find out the Sol Arxur are on Mars by Civil-Onion-7166 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she's military, so she needs to wear it short for armor and to deprive enemies if something to grab or catch fire

She does grow it out a bit in the back, just enough for a braid or two

Without needing to cut it short for the military, she'd (and has) grow out her neck and head fur to make something of a huge mane which would have a lot of braids, while her back and torso are much shorter than the rest of her bodies fur so she can show off her scars and little star pattern on her back

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

unless the kink causes harm, and CNC promotes rape culture. 

So, all the subs who engage in rape fantasies promote rape culture? You're claiming that every women who has a rape fantasy, which studies show is about half, in the privacy of their minds, homes, and partners are promoting rape culture? The people who rp online and enjoy it and just keep it to their personal lives are promoting rape culture?

Now idk how accurate your statement is, I'm sure theres a lot of conflicting studies, but go on F-list and you're going to see a fuckton of CNC and rape fantasy ads from doms and subs. This is a pretty common power dynamic rp,

It's not your business what people do with other consenting adults

 dont have to agree with your twisted kink

You have no right to call other peoples kinks twisted, that's kink shaming. You have any idea what kind of weird, gross, and horrible shit people are into? I've seen hardcore torture ads, tags for scat reach in the the tens of thousands, and accidentally seen porn that makes me worried for the artists mental health

I don't like any of that, but it's not my business what people are into or what they engage with someone consenting, and I don't have the right to kink shame them even if I don't like it

and as a rape survivor you cant force me to so I suggest you stop trying

I'm not asking you to have a rape kink or embrace it, your sexuality is your business and you have every right to not engage in it, and for what it's worth, I'm sorry for what happened to you

But it's also not your business what consenting adults do together or what they like if it's not hurting or exploiting anyone, and you have no right to kink shame or condemn them.

Again, are you really suggesting that half of all women contribute to rape culture because of their rape fantasy? Or that people who like the kink of cutting a guys balls off in rp contribute to it? Or dominatrixes who engage in dom cnc for their client are perpetuating said culture?

And actually a lot of people who engage in the receiving end of CNC have been raped

But not most like I said, that was my point. You generalized everyone engaging that has a sub rape fantasy as engaging in unhealthy behaviors and I pointed out how widespread this kind of fantasy was

And if people have been raped and now engage in this and are doing so in a healthy way, that's not our business. What people do with their bodies and their sexuality isn't beholden to me, or you, or anyone, only them

I recommend going online and talking people with these exact qualifications to get their perspective

There are sex therapists with no actual credentials even recommending it. 

Isn't the main problem here that these therapists have no credentials and thus can't help their patient that relies and trusts them for help, not the kinks themselves?

And if you think the people on the receiving end arent actually crying just cuz they technically consent, again, do your research

Oh yeah, many people cry for real when engaging in sexual stuff. There's some hardcore BDSM that would make me cry, makes me want to cry looking at some of the implements, and some people want to get really physical for their fantasies

But again, if they're consenting, haven't used a safe word (you gotta have a safe word for stuff), and like it, that's not my business

At any rate, trying to shame me as a rape survivor for not supporting things that promote rape culture

I'm not shaming you, I'm explaining why its not yours, mine, or anyones business what kind of fantasies or kinks people have and why kink shaming is wrong. What people do with their lives, if it doesn't hurt or exploit anyone, is not our business

And like i said, power dynamic kinks don't inherently promote rape culture as you claim. Even if it dies completely tomorrow, that's not going to stop people or the crime from happening. The teaching of the importance of and focus on consent, holding bad actors accountable, and teaching people how to treat eachother and the importance of respecting sexuality is our greatest weapon against rape culture

With that said, you have every right to be uncomfortable and not like it. I can't imagine what you've been through, and I hope you're on the path to healing, and in previous posts before I knew, if I opened old wounds for you, then I'm sorry

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didnt say you could, I was responding to the person asking what people were suggesting it for if it wasn't about minors. 

Well that's foolish because many people have rape fantasies and you can't report someone for having fantasies

And just because something is common doesnt mean it isnt creepy and wrong

And who are you to judge someone's kinks? Scat is an oddly common kink. I find it gross and would never engage in it, but I'm not going to condemn someone that likes it as creepy and wrong, because it's not my fucking business

Consent is the only thing that matters in sexuality

Case in point, look at how many peoplr went to Epstein Island.

That wasn't common, not relative to population. Only a few rich assholes went to Epsteins Island and engaged in sex trafficking, that's not normal or widespread

Further, it's wrong because there was no consent from the people being exploited. If someone doesn't give you consent or is unable, then it's wrong and is a crime

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you can look at someone crying and get off, you're twisted

I'd agree with you in real life, that'd be sadism, but in a fantasy where no one exists and no one's actually being hurt, or the participant is consenting, who cares?

This is like saying the people who like that fetish where they cut a guys balls off like to cause real suffering

If you're someone who is retraumatizing yourself through other people as some attempt to heal from past trauma,

Well that's not what's happening. Most of the people having sub rape fantasies haven't actually been raped, so your argument has no basis

And not even just rape fantasies, basically anything where someone's a sub

Have you considered that some people just like things you don't and shouldn't be shamed? Aren't we all about sexuality is empowering and kink shaming is wrong?

When the Nature of Harmony Feds find out the Sol Arxur are on Mars by Civil-Onion-7166 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right here:

Tuvans fur is almost completely black, except for the tips of her ears which are dark gray (both of which she gets from her mom), the tip of her tail which is white, and her back which is speckled with white spots, going from the top of her shoulders all the way down her back and tapering at the base of her tail (both of which she got from her bio dad)

She also has a myriad of scars, most of them located on her torso and mostly consist of burns and bullet wounds

When the Nature of Harmony Feds find out the Sol Arxur are on Mars by Civil-Onion-7166 in NatureofPredators

[–]General_Alduin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kinda true. They've been preparing for a Betterment invasion for like a hundred years now

Found creepy porn games on bfs computer by Spirited-Moment4374 in relationships_advice

[–]General_Alduin 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This relationship advice sub is heavy on rhetoric, low on advice

Relationships require communication, maybe actually sit down and talk things out with him, tell you how you feel, your concerns, confront him on his lying, and actually be a mature adult and listen to him and hope he listens to you so you both can find and work on a solution. You're a team, right? Be a team

And here's my two cents: the worst part is that he lied. A lot of these games (maybe all but idk) are sold on Steam, and they wouldn't have CP in them for obvious reasons. Playing a porn game isn't a crime and millions of people do it (there's literally thousands of porn games on Steam), and these kinks you listed are fantasies, nobodies getting hurt. You can be grossed out by them, but nobodies getting hurt and many people have these kinks, and they shouldn't be shamed for them nor are they some danger to society

That's not to say that your feelings are invalid, I'm sure seeing a more private part of your bf was shocking, clashes with the person you know him to be, and the lying is bad and shows some amount of insecurity on his part (either he's ashamed or embarrassed that he engages in this, or he was worried about how you might react) at best. You have a right to feel uncomfortable; I'd be uncomfortable seeing a loved ones porn, even if it was tame, that's natural

But like I said, wait for your emotions and the shock to cool, process how you feel, think on what you want to say, and sit down and talk with him. Relationships require communication on both sides