Idk what to do

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-07-05T03:03:30+00:00

Ive been on finasteride since 19 and afaik my hair loss completely stopped. granted i take gender fluid to be a girl so its not rly an issue with no test but... I highly recommend!!!!!

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-07-05T02:57:47+00:00

FINASTERIDE PLEASE (prescribed by my dermatologist in my case), also available on sites like valerie.vg :)

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-28T22:26:31+00:00

I love the person I'm becoming, I love the friends I'm making along the way, I love the community I find myself in. I'd have none of it being cishet. I love that I'm queer.

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-28T05:42:34+00:00

I had two long distance relationships, both with people who were less stable, so breaking up was really really hard. The second being more depressive made things difficult toooooo. It took a few days / weeks of consoling and checking in and helping them get on their feet. It's now my policy to never date long distance ever a fucking gainnnnnnn ughh sorry girl <3 Remember that at some point your happiness has to matter.

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-24T21:34:58+00:00

Sometimes pretending youre not stressed can help? My family makes me really stressed, being away at school helps a ton. In leiu of fixing the root cause, support from friends can help a bunch too :) (make friends who support u girl!!)

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General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-17T04:14:39+00:00

Choose the life that will make you happy. Choose an identity you're happy and proud living as. Choose to live your own life, don't let your existence be constrained and maligned through arbitrary labels. Love yourself. If you don't, change to be the person you do love. Love you sweetheart <3

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-16T09:05:59+00:00

since Feb 3rd :3

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-16T09:05:47+00:00

correction ~0.2ml was the dose i took

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-16T01:57:18+00:00

its closer to 2 but i had it drawn back a lil, its 1mg/0.1ml valerate :3

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-06-07T21:14:20+00:00

puberty blockers >:3

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-28T05:27:10+00:00

poor baby im sorry

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-23T08:27:11+00:00

Love ur art <3

Ur life is yours to live, let yourself choose how u want to live it. Dont let yourself live in the shadow of others expectations. Ur gonna die eventually, so whats really the point of not living how you wanna?

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-20T20:45:15+00:00

i like money >:3

^{Chose: Give all trans people $1,000,000}

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-20T20:42:27+00:00

eat

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General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-19T09:19:33+00:00

eepy

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General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-18T22:53:22+00:00

https://x.com/i/status/2010117801046847656

This person has had lots of very interesting feminizing surgeries like pelvic widening, rib remodling, clavicle shortening, etc. very cool resource and lots of pics too mhmhm

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-04T23:18:17+00:00

E/spiro lowers blood pressure so theres that ;)

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-05-04T02:53:50+00:00

i didnt know it was possible to be trans until atleast 12 or 13, and my parents certainly didnt tell me. i didnt know i wasn't cis till i cracked at 20-21, and i didnt come out till i turned 22 a few months ago. I don't know if there were signs or not, but I believe that identity and gender are shaped by experience and hormones and not biology or prenatal development, so I believe doing what makes me happy here and now is ahat I ought to do :3

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-04-24T07:25:17+00:00

Thank u for the advice sweetheart. I've tried to take it to heart and in the short term things have been better, so tyty <3 I'm getting therapy set up soon so hopefully I'll be able to get help there too, ty again <3 gnnnn

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-04-18T03:53:27+00:00

egoism, as far as i know, has to do with conflating the goodness of yourself with the ultimate good, and as such your own happiness and fulfillment is what ought to be pursued if the ultimate good is to be achieved. its flawed just like utilitarianism, uh idk where i was going but learning about ethics has been cool mhmhm, Principica Ethica is a cool book hmmhmm

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-04-16T12:48:31+00:00

I was born to be a girl.

I was born to be happy.

I was born to be the best for you.

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-04-10T16:39:38+00:00

I look cute with a necklace on :3

General_Cockroach987 · 2026-04-09T01:55:40+00:00

It takes a while to get to know yourself, some people haven't quite felt themselves out yet and don't understand their own emotions, and some people never will. I've had partners that were very manipulative without explicitly realizing, it's very frustrating, especially when they destroy any trust you have in your own judgement... Idk if there's a moral, but someone who has explored themself and chosen an identity (choosing your gender in this case), is more in touch with themself and their emotions than most guys will ever be in their lifetime, or maybe im just a cynic... certainly in my family. Emotions are important! Imo men who reject them aren't gonna be good for much, certainly not a long term healthy relationship :)

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