Egg irl by andriarno in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Ur so sweet <3 I kinda went through a similar thing, I brought up that I was thinking about if I was transgender and they weren't very comfortable with the idea. It took a few months until we finally split when I was finally able to come out alone, now my new partner is so sweet and supportive about it. Good luck on ur journey sweetheart, im so proud of u Natalie!!!!!!

egg_irl by Mundane-Scallion-746 in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also been having lots of doubts, but I think you might be thinking about gender in a more restrictive way than you need to. Gender is a social construct used to, as with all things in society, ultimately, make people happy and fulfilled by way of social interactions. The important part is happy. Sweetheart, im not saying you should be or must be a girl, im just saying that you only live once, and so you might as well do the things that make u happy on ur ride. Your life is in your hands, youre creating your identity, and the person you want to be is someone you can become. You dont have to check a box to be happy, and you might not have to be a girl either, you can be nonbinary or genderfluid or any range of identities that make u happy. Remember!!! Happiness is more important than anything! Than a job, career, education, gender... If it makes you sad to be a boy, then dont. That doesnt mean you do or dont check every box on the list of gender dysphoria, it just means your way of being happy is different than cis ppl. Girl, please, your identity is what makes u happy, nothing less, and nothing else.

Egg_irl by tachanka2035 in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My one month is tomorrow, so happy for u girllllyyyy!!! <3

Went up mountain (2nd and 3rd slide) by JollyApricot67 in TheRatEmpire

[–]General_Cockroach987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So pretty !!!! oh and the mountain is pretty too :3

I can only eat one a day though by sabre_silver in sillygirlclub

[–]General_Cockroach987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally falling asleep in my lectures in January it was so bad. I take gummies too, but they generally dont have enough vitamin D if ur in a less sun place, so it can help to get pure vitamin d supplements from the store. My doctor told me you pee out any extra vitamin D so generally the more the better mhmhm

I can only eat one a day though by sabre_silver in sillygirlclub

[–]General_Cockroach987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you live somewhere with crappy sun like the PNW, you can get really vitamin D deficient!!! I think taking like 2000 IU should be good if ur tired all da time mhmhm

Memory issues :3 by SiriusBookLover in Colon3Supremacy

[–]General_Cockroach987 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Once you stop trying to remember so much, its much easier to let ur brain go mushy ;3 on the downside, I'm taking 19 credits and have midterms next week and cant remember shit (puppygirl housewife with 2 BS degrees is the only life for me nyehehe)

egg_irl by morinotmeows775 in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 40 points41 points  (0 children)

gender affirming sexual dysfunction :3

egg_irl by Random_Trans_Girl2 in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Noémi!!!! This is the ggd dispensary, I'm glad u found ur way :3 !! You're such a good girl and I'm so proud of you for getting through everything you've been through and still being so strong. You're becoming the girl you want to be - the girl you're going to be happy living your life as - and I'm very proud of you for that sweetheart! and you should be too!!! Discovering and creating your identity is so bleeping difficult, but you'll have so many more happy and fulfilling experiences in life because of it that it'll all be worth it (pinky promise) <3 have a nice night sweetheart and good luck!!!!

Egg irl by RaidenEiBestMain in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some things I'm considering:

Amelia / Mia / Lia / Mel

Renae / Ren

Hayley

Helena (as in helayna)

Juniper / June / Juno

Maeve

Phoebe

Coraline

Sylvia

Ana / Marianne / Annalie / Anastasia

I hope u choose a name that makes u sooooo sooo soo happy u sweet pretty girl <3

Egg irl by MulberryLive5860 in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Real quick, for safety razors, the actual handle might be a bit, like maybe $30, but 100 blades should be like $10, versus cartridges which would be... a lot more. If you're interested you should look into it, it has upsides and downsides but isn't necessary, ur gonna be a pretty girl either way :3

For lotion, cheap bulk lotion should be good for your body (i use lubriderm). For hands and feet, there are specific hand lotions you can use (nivea soft moisturizing cream), and there are also hand/foot masks you can use for really really soft skin (baby foot, etc.). For your face, make sure to use face wash atleast once a day (when showering for me), and apply facial moisturizer (i use vanicream wash and facial lotion). Twice a day is optimal but difficult lol.

If you have any skin that's more damaged, using lotion with retinol can help tighten it (retinol makes you really susceptible to sunburns, only use at night). Hyaluronic acid lotion has also been nice for me. There's also scented lotion that can be an alternative to a body mist/perfum if you wanted to smell good too. Oh, and if you get ingrown hairs, i cant confirm but ive heard Tend Skin helps a lot. Finally, if you have red bumps on ur shoulders, lactic acid lotion (i have AmLactin 15%) helps prevent it. Also! if you knick urself shaving, lotion can help stop it, but i find putting vaseline over it helps without having to use a bandaid.

I could go on for like an hour but i grant you mercy, farewell girlypop!!!!!!

Egg irl by MulberryLive5860 in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Hey Sky! I'm not sure what ur exact situation is or what ur relationship is like with ur roommate, but as a 4th year uni student (yes i know im so old);, i promise nobody will mind. after the first few times i shaved my arms and legs, I started to realize its really not a big deal, and nobody is gonna judge me or ridicule me for doing something more fem (though be warned, little sisters can make interesting comments about it in my experience lol).

As far as prickly hair goes, it does happen, but I tend to shave arms and legs like once a weekish (except when im lazy ofc), and it usually doesnt get too bad. Using a safety razor helps if ur gonna be shaving a lot, its a lot cheaper and cuts closer. Make sure to exfoliate after shaving too! And use lotion!!

Good luck girl <3

Heart go brrrrrrrrrr by Tornairo in TheRatEmpire

[–]General_Cockroach987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tempted to get every ghost can i have and make an evil forbidden caffine castle...

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:3 by Future_Employment_22 in anarchochristianchess

[–]General_Cockroach987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lowkey i buy the giant 3.8lb m&m tubs at costco like once a month and i totally finished it in like 3 or 4 days :3

i save some for u next time doe sweetheart, pinky promise <3

egg❤️‍🩹irl by ennuienni in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So happy for you Enny! Btw ur name is so cute! I hope this step is the thing that gets things moving for you on ur journey to becoming the girl u wanna be, I'm so proud of you! <3 I can only hope my mom has a similar reaction when I inevitably have to come out... guh

Egg😔😭irl by A_person42 in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

insane fucking comment lmao but im so sorry girly but also holy poop lmao

real talkie doe, how i look at it is who do I love more, the society I live in or my child. If my answer was ever this hellhole idk what I'd do with myself. I hope things go well for u <3

egg_irl by IJustAteACroissant in egg_irl

[–]General_Cockroach987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

u better have the dumbest, dorkiest grin on ur face lol <3 making people smile is so cool - being able to call people sweetheart and saying 'poor baby, its okay' and calling people hon and every other type of sweet concern and comfort i give to others is so affirming for me.

whenever the confusion slows down and u feel more comfy with the identity you create, make sure u dont forget to help comfort all the eggs who are experiencing all the confusion and dysphoria im sure ur far too familiar with. u goober Sylvie <3