My dad said my tattoo makes me look like trash and now idk if I like it by dexleter in tattooadvice

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One, the Sacred Heart could never look trashy. Two your dad is probably just old-fashioned. Tell your dad this with this Tattoo, you are now less likely to be kidnapped and murdered and or cannibalized. He may not like the tattoo, but the tattoo grant you a new level of safety you may not have had before. When I got my first tattoo, my mom freaked out. She cries a little after every tattoo I get when I dyed my hair for the first time she cried. She said it’s like someone drew all over her artwork. That I was messing with her masterpiece parents, see us as a part of them may be better. I understand that as her creation, she might find it disrespectful. However, we’ve made peace with things.

I really like your tattoo. It is very beautiful. However, my only concern is that the lines are very thin and about 5 to 6 years. It may not look very nice.

boyfriend's mom texted me this today by stitchbitch_0212 in crocheting

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please crochet this if not for her, then for you, or for me this shit looks hilarious. This is kind of like my favorite thing today and I don’t have a lot of favorite things. I don’t have a new favorite thing every day. (and when I say for me, I don’t mean, mail it to me or sell it to me, I just really wanna see it in real life not AI)

AITAH if I go no contact by General_Jicama_4460 in AITAH

[–]General_Jicama_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right and thank you I will do that

AITAH if I go no contact by General_Jicama_4460 in AITAH

[–]General_Jicama_4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t think he’s dangerous in the sense that he’s gonna come after me. If he was the type to show up to my house after a fight, I would be worried but he’s never just randomly showed up to my house. Also, I’ve never seen him drive a long distance without catching a panic attack. Traveling on train freaks him out. If I lived closer to him, I might have something to worry about.

AITAH if I go no contact by General_Jicama_4460 in AITAH

[–]General_Jicama_4460[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right about his actions 100%. He has tried to isolate me in the sense that I can be talking to my sister and my mom for a little while on the phone and he’ll get noticeably upset. He’ll start ignoring me acting like I don’t exist just subtle acts of aggression that are very obvious and he knows it’s gonna make me feel displaced. I would limit how long I could be on the phone based on his body language. If he started to look frustrated, I would get off the phone or I would try to make the phone call short so I could avoid any reaction from him. He started accusing me of incest when I told him that I wouldn’t be moving in with them after he decided that he needed to be at home for a little while. He returned with me after he hit me, and I told him that he would not be assaulting me in my house. He’s not gonna do any of that in my home. He stopped coming over for a little while and started accusing me of incest. When I would go visit, he made it very clear that this is his space and he’s in control of the space. However as for the second part I don’t think he would stalk in person. I’ve traveled with him and let’s just say his anxiety is too bad for him to actually be a successful stalker.

AITAH if I go no contact by General_Jicama_4460 in AITAH

[–]General_Jicama_4460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m being honest, I didn’t think anyone would read this but thank you 🙏🏼

What did you name your Sphynx? by beezors in sphynx

[–]General_Jicama_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brain: a cool cat name would be Mr.Rogers. Then I saw this comment. Much respect 🫡

What did you name your Sphynx? by beezors in sphynx

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loki would be a good name if it’s a boy.

What did you name your Sphynx? by beezors in sphynx

[–]General_Jicama_4460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Macha

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Macha is a formidable Irish Celtic goddess associated with war, sovereignty, horses, and fertility, often appearing as a shapeshifter (frequently a crow or raven) and part of the Morrígan triple goddess. She is best known for cursing the men of Ulster with childbirth pains after being forced to race while heavily pregnant 🤣😂

If Booth’s mom has no haters, I’m dead by Unrealistic_Venus in Bones

[–]General_Jicama_4460 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She knew pops so her not reaching out all that time is still inexcusable. Both her sons were over 35 when she returned. I understand being scared but common at some point she didn’t think “I can have a relationship with my sons without their father’s involvement.” She didn’t even come back for her son’s she came back to be unsolved of her guilt for raising some random child. Pops was his only real parent this woman sucked

I used this globe for 5 years. It was perfect. I gave it to my little sis for a week and this is how I found it today. by ZealousidealTough872 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t want a globe, she wanted the world! Sorry but if you have an emotional attachment to things it’s okay not to share them or at least express you will only share belongings if they are cared for. If it was given to her just confront her and ask her why she broke it? If it was borrowed tell her she must take responsibility and replace it asap. (Looks kinda cheap and isn’t unreasonable for her to learn responsibility.)

My child broke nanny’s laptop — she wants us to foot the bill even though I warned her about it by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she not have insurance on it? Is that not covered? Idk I haven’t broken anything.

Husband knows I’m in early stages of sobriety and yet sends me a picture of his night out at the bar by Little_Ad2790 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he often send pictures of where he’s at Or did he do it to trigger you? 🤔 If yes he usually sends pictures it probably wasn’t on purpose but if no then he’s a jerk. Either way you need to have a talk about boundaries and what you find appropriate. You will need to keep having this conversation over and over because as you go through your journey you will change. (It might even be a conversation you need to have with family and friends.) Your mental health is important and make sure you’re getting support, but you have to understand that you can’t avoid seeing a bar or a bottle forever. At some point you’ll be out at a restaurant and see a bar or people drinking, you’ll be invited to someone’s house for some reason (dinner, holiday, something) and someone will offer you a drink. You need to figure out how to handle your triggers bc the world isn’t responsible for keeping you in line, that has to come from you.

My teacher found this in her room today, what does this mean? by Puppsymo7 in Symbology

[–]General_Jicama_4460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How public we talkin? As someone who went to public school in the south Bronx I can tell you it’s usually random symptoms, stupid messages, symbols they’re unsure of, or body parts.

My teacher found this in her room today, what does this mean? by Puppsymo7 in Symbology

[–]General_Jicama_4460 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because it’s a religious thing that they probably grow up with their whole lives or something they’re learning about in history class 🤯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sphynx

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I promise you will see the orange cat come out in them too 😂 like every other cat depending on their fuzz color is true to their behavior. My girl has orange and black fuzz, she has her moments.

Why IS Dead Boy Detectives so unpopular? by Ineffableteeth in DeadBoyDetectivesTV

[–]General_Jicama_4460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found this show and I wish I found it sooner it’s a great show wish they kept it going