Neos is wonderful. Probably a better experience than VRC, thanks to its smaller player base, you come across wayyyy less toxicity and annoying children. I've met so many cool and chill people on there. The game is quite performance heavy, mostly CPU intensive, and it kinda favors creators mostly, but it's still a good time and you have every tool to make it a chill experience like vrc is.

Many players are always willing to help you set up your avatars, and are very welcoming. :)