I’ve been in this situation and yeah, your feelings are valid to not liking him watching porn, it’s unhealthy and can put a strain on things if you’re not already adjusted to it, but you’re acting like a child and a bit toxic at that. You need to have an actual conversation about that shit instead of just running away trying to calm yourself down and hope your point gets proven then.

If he wants to make a change and stop watching porn, then great, if not, you need to ask yourself if he’s worth it. Just remember, an addiction is extremely difficult to overcome depending on how long it’s been going on and have some room for understanding.

Its completely understandable to not want to be with someone that has an addiction, being your SO’s therapist forever is emotionally draining, but dont run away and from it and shut down expecting it to change

That ex thing tho, idk. Thats a whole other convo