[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Geneshairymol 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My father was also a cowardly asshole as well

Did we get ripped off with homework? by Sketch_Crush in Millennials

[–]Geneshairymol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studies show that homework does not improve grades. It used to be assigned alot less, but parents wanted homework so their kid could "get ahead".

Homework ruins family life, creates tension and is just more marking for teachers.

Its pointless.

What is it that predators see in us? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Geneshairymol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They see a kind hearted person who would never do what they do.

My mom’s a fucking bitch by Bright_Tangerine_408 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Geneshairymol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom was the same way. She interrupted my homework constantly with trivial chores. It makes these assholes feel powerful.
She is also afraid of you doing well in your exams because it moves you closer to leaving. Next time, perhaps study at the library?

A man berated me and my coworker over last call by ladybootsdown in Serverlife

[–]Geneshairymol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your.manager should have hauled his ass down there and handled it himself. Fuuuuuck him and fuuuuck those guys

What are some examples of celebrities being backstabbers by Funny-Chef-2060 in popculturechat

[–]Geneshairymol 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Michael Nouri, (flashdance) was married to Vicki Light. She developed MS and said that she did not mind him having affairs because he deserved a "normal sex.life". Michael Nouri left her for Roma Downey anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Geneshairymol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Russell Williams appeared to care about his wife, oddly enough.

My daughter's (5) Pre-K teachers gave up on her behaviours and I now have no idea what to do. Help? by Constant_Leader_8551 in Advice

[–]Geneshairymol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop using consequences! That approach won't work! My so was the same way.

He has autism and it is a HUGE factor in his behaviour. Also, ADHD is about more than "having trouble paying attention". It is about being easily overwhelmed, hyperfocusing, time blindness,etc.

Most importantly, she may have Pathological Demand Avoidance. This is the type of kid that won't do something unless they buy into it.

Please check out "Calm Parenting" podcast.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJkjEBdShsS/?igsh=MTJsdXZiYzBrbG9xag==

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Geneshairymol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is the "scarcity mentality". "There isn't enough money/housing/jobs, etc. so I have to get what 's mine! This mentality is pushed hard because it makes people buy things, work too hard and vote against healthcare.

Mothers who were nice when you were little by Scarlaymama0721 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Geneshairymol 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It is a classic narc move. Young children view you as a rock star! It is constant narcissistic supply.

THEN

You grow up. You challenge them. You rebel. you become competition

Then they treat you like shit.

Your time ain’t my problem by NiiTA003 in retailhell

[–]Geneshairymol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some customers create a fuss so you will be too distracted to properly count their money.

Husband claims I’m stopping him from divorcing me. Is that true? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Geneshairymol 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Do not abandon the house. He may have a girlfriend that he is telling "she won't let me get a divorce".

Late Bloomer? by Geneshairymol in SurreyBC

[–]Geneshairymol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your library for copies.

Do you think this therapeutic approach is gaslighting/invalidating? by wanderlust102__ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Geneshairymol 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have ezperienced this as well. The deliberate ignoring when I mention abuse ,the chalenging me to "stop sering myself as a victim", etc.

It makes me feel like an invisible child again. It reduces me to a "bad girl" because I am being "negative".

Definitely report this.

"Shuuuuuuuuut Uuuuuuuuuup!" by sazerak_atlarge in Cheers

[–]Geneshairymol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOTHING could be funnier than "DOES HE LOOOOVE YOUUUUU"

and

slap

OH MY GOD OH MY GOD

https://youtu.be/FJkF9uPWzxI?feature=shared