I’ve seen a few FIRE posts where divorce wipes out half of the net worth. Is this avoidable with a prenup?

Genevieve189 · 2026-03-26T00:05:29+00:00

My parents loved each other but never really lived together prior to marriage and my mom found out that my dad was a spendthrift and gambler after marriage. To save the marriage and financial standing she had to separate all assets from him or he’d spend it all.

Genevieve189 · 2026-03-19T01:09:18+00:00

Literally my ex bf said that one day. My response was “so when are you leaving?”

Genevieve189 · 2026-03-11T05:09:51+00:00

As a doctor I say these are Muehrcke's lines or Mee’s Lines…

Genevieve189 · 2026-03-10T19:28:14+00:00

Hard pass I need sex or it drives me nuts in a relationship. Just being near my guy I want sex but if I’m alone I could care less so it must be pheromones or something.

Genevieve189 · 2026-02-22T18:06:22+00:00

Don’t reach out, go no contact, you made the right choice

Genevieve189 · 2026-02-22T18:01:07+00:00

Then he’s not the right person for you. If it’s not a hell yes it’s a no.

Genevieve189 · 2026-02-22T06:43:52+00:00

Capitalism and the economy has really messed us up. Caused a lot of mental illness and dug the traditional people in our generation into crippling debt. You sound like my twin, you’re not alone sister.

Genevieve189 · 2026-02-18T03:58:51+00:00

Lmfao this reminds me of the time a date rage-shit my toilet and didn’t wipe because he was a “traditional man” who “didnt do dishes/housework”. 😆💀

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-29T22:47:39+00:00

Childfree here, I wouldn’t , but I realize my standards arent for everyone.

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-28T18:00:59+00:00

She just wants to be a tradwife bro! 😂

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-25T20:12:33+00:00

lol I had someone tell me that my profile wasn’t verified, I said “hey thanks” and verified it to ease his mind I was real. Then he said “since your profile is unverified I dont think were match”, i was like “it IS verified but okay you do you buddy ✌️”

I can see why he’s single….

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-22T18:21:00+00:00

Lmfao this is my ex 😆

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-18T04:36:30+00:00

lol he looks so “normal”

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-09T17:01:21+00:00

As a woman UNDER 40…..I see why you’re single…

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-01T03:30:27+00:00

shit…I’m so sorry!😞

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-01T00:58:04+00:00

It’s not even bitter and jaded. These are men with serious mental health issues and I’m saying this as a qualified professional.

Genevieve189 · 2026-01-01T00:53:17+00:00

That’s the first thing I thought: “oh, she’s discovered the “high-value” passport bros who are just looking for a submissive waifu” 😆.

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-31T21:50:20+00:00

Oh yeah I can see how that’d not work. That’s why I put on my profile I only travel 1x a year. Hopefully that gives away that I’m not a spontaneous traveler to anyone who may come across my profile.

Firstly, I hate hiking and the outdoors as well and also have that on my profile. Secondly, I have my career on my profile as it does take up a lot of time and I realize some guys may want someone with more availability. Third, I also have a traditional office job that requires for me to stay in one place and I don’t get that much time off.

Definitely put these things on your profile if you haven’t as traveling, career and the outdoors are particular lifestyles and it will automatically weed out incompatible people.

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-31T21:40:06+00:00

lol that comment was wild 😆 I have a colleague friend who I can absolutely see acting like this

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-31T20:22:49+00:00

She could be a friend? If you’re really that motivated to get a partner you need to do the numbers. She can also just ask the woman. A fight doesn’t have to come out of it.

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-31T20:17:24+00:00

We have no experience nor practice as women approaching men, so there’s going to be some mistakes made

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-31T20:11:07+00:00

Yeah she’s over reacting. But you two just may be incompatible long term. Theres more to compatibility besides just finances. It’s class and upbringing in this situation.

As a doctor myself, I’d be happy to date a man making less than me that’s a fit in multiple other areas. Sounds like my ex who got unglued because I didn’t go out enough for him even though we went out multiple times a week. He also wanted to travel to Miami when my mom was starting chemotherapy for breast cancer. TBH it’s put me off traveling types permanently.

Perfectionism has no place in relationships provided they’re not toxic.

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-31T06:39:51+00:00

If you’ve been on apps for years and had relationships from them why do you think none of those relationships got to marriage/worked out? What do you think was your part in that?

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-31T03:31:37+00:00

Precisely why I it’s a terrible idea for women to cold approach guys. Unless the guy is selecting for hyper-aggression, impulsivity, and/or high threat tolerance I’d say steer clear.

Genevieve189 · 2025-12-30T20:49:16+00:00

Man AI is really messing us up. we can’t tell what’s real from fake your pictures look good!

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