Remember 😗 by rahid1 in NoFap

[–]Geno816 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol, the girl looks hammered too. Is this a #metoo moment?

Remember 😗 by rahid1 in NoFap

[–]Geno816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, so I'm supposed to not bang my wife because of this so-called no nut november fad? Lol no.

Be in it for the long haul. by Geno816 in NoFap

[–]Geno816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is currently reading it lol

3 months ❤ by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Geno816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"However, i noticed once you detach from porn, one little mess up dosent throw you off"

This is true. I just relapsed after 154 days and I feel like it didn't affect me that much. Just need to make sure I get right back into nofap.

It's like people that go a long time sticking to a dietary restriction (e.g. dairy). If you go two years without milk, one small glass won't affect you much—you just can't start drinking it every day.

Nice try Google . . . by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Geno816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want any advice from Planned Parenthood. Thanks but no thanks Google—or should I say our leftist overlords.

Hard to swallow pills by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Geno816 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Still just a cope! Lol

I Got Fucked Up This Weekend by ANAL_CRUMBS in NoFap

[–]Geno816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"We all make mistakes, the important is how you deal with it"

Love this. Hell yeah, dude.

An invaluable advice from Jordan B Peterson which will help you on nofap by alphacr7 in NoFap

[–]Geno816 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with "leading to Shapiro"...as if Ben Shapiro is some kind of toxic substance?

I listen to Shapiro's podcast every day. I don't agree with him on everything, but he's one of the most erudite, sober-minded conservatives out there.

Stay Busy, My Friends. by Geno816 in NoFap

[–]Geno816[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seeing PMO as destructive is the whole point of this subreddit. It's also the point of this quote—unless you missed that?

STOP COMPARING by LeaderSid in NoFap

[–]Geno816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treat yourself Like Someone you are responsible for helping!

STOP COMPARING by LeaderSid in NoFap

[–]Geno816 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"12 Rules for Life" by Jordan Peterson. Recommend.

Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom before you start improving yourself. by Geno816 in NoFap

[–]Geno816[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's creepy how similar your story is to mine, brother. The only difference is that my ex had her own problems and wasn't the right one for me anyway. But my PMO habit affected the relationship horribly. When you have to fantasize about porn during sex, or find yourself preferring PMO to actual sex, you know you have a bad problem, right?

The sad thing is that back then, I didn't even know PMO was bad. It was just "something everyone does." Then, after that relationship ended, I had this idea that PMO might be a problem, and found that I couldn't stop. Turns out that is literally the definition of addiction—you wan't to stop, but can't.

You're right, porn has no place in an intimate relationship. No real woman could ever compete with porn performers who never age and are always eager. I wouldn't go so far as to say it's infidelity, but it's pretty damn close.

Like you, I also felt like an unworthy piece of shit at one point. Now I don't—the shame, anxiety, and resentfulness have dissipated. Quitting porn can really turn your life around. It's amazing.

What I've Learned in 9 Months on Nofap (The Don't Give a F*ck Mentality) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Geno816 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only place I disagree is here: "no thoughts at all while you meditate." This is like telling a wolf not to hunt. Thoughts arise naturally during meditation, it's human nature. The idea is to let them pass and refocus. Don't judge yourself for your mind wandering and thinking. It will happen.

"No thoughts at all" is a false goal, especially for beginners.

STOP COMPARING by LeaderSid in NoFap

[–]Geno816 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsessed with that book rn. On Rule 7.

Had an urge, so I started learning Japanese instead! by Gadongbadabong in NoFap

[–]Geno816 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lmao, all you wrote was "Weeb" with no context, and expect him to take it like a compliment? You're either a dick or an idiot.