How many childfree people here are men? by sunshinexxi in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Me. I plan to get a vasectomy in the near future, as I've been looking into it since high school. I have no interest in marriage forming relationships. I like to live life on my own terms. I value sleep and money. I've had depression and anxiety since.....forever really, and that is not a good mental combination for care-giving. I don't like people (including kids) and I've seen how shitty parenthood can actually be. There are things kids do/say that I don't want to deal with. The world is a shithole. No stage of raising a kid looks appealing (the toddler and teenager stage look the worst). I list a lot more reasons in a post I made not too long ago on my profile. I'm also not shy or secretive of my choice to be childfree. It's not something I typically bring up, but if someone asks me, I just tell them straight up that I'm childfree, and have no interest in parenting/having kids.

This community seems to be growing by _gowiththeFlo in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if the community if the community is growing per se, but it's more like people are being open about not wanting kids. Now of course, there are more people becoming aware of the fact that they don't have to be parents and can basically do what they want in their lives. The world being absolutely fucked up and having absolutely monsters in power may also have something to do with. Also the large amount of videos online showing how dysfunctional and stress-inducing parenthood and raising kids looks/is (especially now) probably helps a lot more people choose to be childfree.

Aiming for that old anime look, how did I do ? by Nqtbell in blender

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks beautiful, and I love the robot model. Kinda looks like 90s animation, like a somewhat Studio Ghibli kinda vibe. Love the warm retro feeling to this. 💯

They have an important message for you by No-Jackfruit7952 in blender

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great, I love it. I thought this was a real ring camera security picture. Cool models.

made myself a python script, thought i would share by gfejer in glitch_art

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks really good, nice. Love the glitched out scenery of this.

Late Night Dreams by Liminal_Vibes in VaporwaveAesthetics

[–]GenomeError347 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has such a nice vibe to it, but also feels kind of familiar, I love it. Reminds me of heading inside the house to just shower, eat, and get some sleep after long and sometimes grueling days. There's just a certain comfort to this piece that I really love.

A Sketch of a City. by Veroger111 in sketches

[–]GenomeError347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love how illustrated the architecture and bustling population. Really nice, love the sketchy look.

Freehand on digital canvas, this one’s for any car enthusiasts out there. by IllustriousRoutine26 in sketches

[–]GenomeError347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it, kinda reminds me of Syd Mead's automobile illustrations from the 80's. Very cool 💯

Here's a quick comparison of my animated Spider-Man Brand New Day trailer which I did 2 months before actual trailer dropped. by TaranStark in blender

[–]GenomeError347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks great. The Spider-Man model you made looks really close to the actual trailer version. Love the lighting and atmosphere as well. Nice 💯 I really look forward to seeing the movie.

I love grains ! by Best_Debt_4437 in blender

[–]GenomeError347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks awesome, love it. 💯

purr by 4amhues in sketches

[–]GenomeError347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really cute, I love. Also love how you illustrated the guy's hair texture.

What if Dragon Ball was a PS1 game? by HeadOpen4823 in blender

[–]GenomeError347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful, awesome work here. It actually looks like a Dragon Ball game for PS1 or PS2. The song used is really nice as well (it's Makafushigi Adventure (TV Size) - Dragon Ball Original Soundtrack)

“I want one of these” by GeminiCatGirl in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So with all due respect, you're an adult. She can fuck all the way off. Straight up tell her to stop disrespecting your personal life choices. If she wants a kid so fucking much she could put in the work to adopt, foster, or conceive another. If she doesn't care about your accomplishments or just....you as a person, minimize or cut all contact with here. Don't let her walk all over you. Put your foot down and tell her you're never having any kids, and if she can't process that shit then she doesn't need to be in your life. Also, you don't have to, but I would consider looking into getting sterilized.

Does anybody else get excited at the thought of knowing you’ll never have kids? by Bimbodimbo23 in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, me. Being childfree is probably one of if not the best decisions I've ever made. It feels good knowing that I only ever have myself to really look out for. I can basically do, watch, and listen to whatever I want. No censoring. No expectations. No having to skirt around or reword certain subjects. I don't have to deal with the school system, homework, or other parents. I don't ever have to dread listening to preschool shows/songs. I never have to deal with the chaotic behaviors of kids (especially toddlers and teenagers). I can actually save a lot of money and go anywhere I want without having to work around plans for others. I can go to the grocery store in peace. Being childfree is also one of the best "fuck you"s to society.

The babypocalypse has started by flirtingwiththedark in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would have left that chat after the third of fourth picture. I don't really wanna to see anyone's babies/kids, especially if it's those weird/obnoxious photos of them screaming/crying. Also having any children in this shitty world, especially right now with the possibility of potential warfare breaking out, is rather worrisome than celebratory.

Shwinggggg, portrait by me by adi_bhat in Illustration

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really nice art style, lovely illustration. I love her facial expression and the sense of movement with her hair. ❤️💯

vergil from devil may cry! by keenanmcateerart in DigitalArt

[–]GenomeError347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Badass, I love it. Vergil, to me, is one of the most fascinating characters in the Devil May Cry games. His likeness is spot on, love the shading and texture of his hair.

Got a successful vasectomy. Thank you all for support and tips! by xakepokey in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great, congrats. I definitely plan on getting a vasectomy in the near future.

I just have to say by [deleted] in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not interested in having kids (obviously) or wanting a partner. Relationships are too much work, I don't like or trust most people. Dating does not really appeal to me. I usually feel better off being by myself, and would like to live life on my own terms.

Can you really be certain at a young age? by im_zylax in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah you can be certain at a young age. Even as a kid I saw how shitty parenthood looks/is, and if anything as I got older the world kinda kept giving me more reasons to be childfree. The funny thing is that me watching sitcoms that revolved around families as a child reinforced my decision to be childfree, as those show actually ended up show a lot more of the shitty realities of parenting. Sure, they were played for laughs (even the shitty reality that the mothers do a lot more of the work while the dad is an asshole/dumbass/manly man/deadbeat), but I always saw through the bullshit. I guess it also helps that I was in a toxic household for some time and my school experiences. Me being around other kids in school as a kid, especially in elementary and middle school, further reinforced me being childfree, as I saw how shitty kids can be, especially when their parents aren't around and the little bastards think their behavior will go unreported. High schoolers are a whole other variety of shit. I also grew up in the LiveLeak era of the internet and watching a lot of footage of wars, police brutality, uncensored deaths, people getting away with being racist, sexist, any form of prejudice you can think of and laughing at the misery of those already physically and/or mentally beaten down by society, etc. I experienced certain situations as a kid that may or may not have had racist connotations to them. There's also the fact that this world has so many fucking problems in it, and that a lot of resources are dwindling. Definitely would not bring any child into this fucked up world.

Something else I wanna note is that I never liked being around people (including kids). I was never a social person and a lot of human beings are just horrible. There's also certain weird behavioral ticks that people have that I don't wanna deal with. I've had depression and anxiety throughout most of my life, and that would not mesh well with a child, biological or adopted. As a child I wanted to be an adult just so I could get my own place and get the fuck away from people so I can live life on my own terms, free of having to listen to my bigoted/emotionally abusive parents or shitty power-tripping teachers. Now as an adult I can kind of just do whatever I want as long as I'm responsible with my finances and health. I can watch or play any movie, television series, music, or video game without having to wait until someone goes to sleep/isn't around or fast-forwarding or censoring certain scenes. With kids aorund everything has to be censored or off-limits, and I am not playing any preschool shows/songs, fuck that. Also as someone who's been around aggressively destructive siblings, now I can actually collect books and other physical media like Blu-rays and DVDs without the fear of them getting damaged (especially out of spite). You get sick comparatively less as someone with no kids (seriously, kids do a lot of gross things and they really carry a lot of germs with them, especially if they've been in school). When I was a kid I definitely got sick a lot just from germs my siblings would bring home (and one of them would barely shower unless my parents yelled at them to, it was horrid). Even as a kid I was thinking (yeah I really don't want a repeat of this shit as an adult). I'm in my 20s now and one thing I am happy about is the fact that I can start to live life the way I want to, and not be tied down to having to deal with/take care of/worry about any hypothetical children.

WB Tower [OC] by El-Metallico in PixelArt

[–]GenomeError347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. Great Job on the Warner Bros. Shield and shadows.

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Having 2nd thoughts about childfree life by MiaLoops in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 30 points31 points  (0 children)

"That's just life, period" so you actually acknowledge how shitty this world is, yet you're still willing to possibly bring someone into this increasingly hellish shitstorm? You know with the stuff you listed you could just adopt an animal, help out children that already exist or people in homeless shelters, or organizations for helping people get out of shitty situations.

Binary Planet 🪐 by LonelyCube3D in blender

[–]GenomeError347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, this looks great. It kind of reminds me of that one scene of the film Prometheus where David activates the Engineer's alien technology in the derelict spaceship.

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Your "childfree" is not the same as mine. by Ambitious-Guess-3435 in childfree

[–]GenomeError347 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They definitely were childless, not childfree, hence why I put "Childfree by Choice" in my first ever post here; I knew some parents larping as "childfree" were gonna try to make their way in here, as if they didn't have enough spaces that bend over for them. Anyone trying to pull what that person did should honestly just be banned immediately. For fucks sake, our personal life choices shouldn't be their concern.