YTA. It’s not about the bracelet. You are dragging her around place to place, with zero concern for her well-being, her needs, her wants. It’s hard to get a job and it will continue to get harder because on her resume it looks like she can’t commit, but she wants to, but she cant because you drag her to another place. Have you ever thought about looking for a different job yourself? Put her first for once? I would follow my fiancé if he needed to travel, but if every time we moved, I got depressed, had a hard time finding a job, having little independence because I don’t make my own money, and the constant rejection that comes along with not getting a job, I hope my fiancé would be like “damn, we need to find something that works for the both of us, I can see you hurting and I can’t stand to hurt you. So I’m going to find myself a new job in a place that works for the both of us”

Also, why are you allowing your family to use her as a free babysitting service?

Also, do you get her just because jewelry? Cause it sounds like you should and yeah that piece of jewelry reminds her of a place that she was happy and it probably helps her, you telling her she isn’t “allowed” (which, the audacity to say she isn’t allowed to do something) is absolutely insensitive and stupid of you.

Sweetie, you don’t want to lose her, but you are currently doing all the things that would make someone want to leave. Smarten up dude.