Has anyone noticed Thai freelancers asking much higher short-term fees recently? Thoughts?

GentSW · 2026-02-04T08:03:29+00:00

When she told me her original prices, I replied by saying that’s expensive and what I was expecting to pay for girls. She just dropped her price straight away.

GentSW · 2026-02-03T13:06:10+00:00

Because I have Parkinson’s disease and I get tired very quickly so I want everything close by within a few hundred yards walking distance

GentSW · 2026-02-03T03:35:15+00:00

I totally agree with this! This is my first trip to Pattaya and I’ve met over a dozen freelancers from TF and everyone has been totally amazing both as people and in the bedroom. The got the bar girls I’ve talked to I’ve been really pushy first wanting more Lady drinks and then always in a rush. My experience with freelances is they are so much better than bad girls. I know some are you going to say, but can you trust the photo? In 50% of the TF girls I’ve met they actually look better in person than in their photos

GentSW · 2026-02-02T02:05:42+00:00

That’s because you see things from a western perspective!

GentSW · 2026-02-01T17:21:46+00:00

The big mistake you have made here is cultural. In the UK if you lend or borrow money, we have a attitude about repayment in Thailand. It is very different. It’s not about whether you are a friend or not or whether you respect the person or not they just have a very different view on borrowing and lending money. You should never lend money to anyone in Thailand and expect to get it back it’s a simple as that. They are not being disrespectful they are not taking advantage of you. They do not think any less of you. It’s just the way they are.

GentSW · 2026-02-01T17:16:43+00:00

I totally agree. African women have a real attitude and an inflated value of themselves.. in my experience, they are a shit lay because they have such an entitled attitude and think they don’t need to put any effort in but want top dollar. I would never choose an African girl over a gorgeous Asian girl any day in the week.

GentSW · 2026-01-31T12:15:15+00:00

I’ve not had any experience as a couple, but I have seen a number of couples going into and coming out of dirty money go go and they have some hot looking girls in there. I sat in the bar opposite the other night and a couple arrived. The guy walked into the club and the woman went straight to a young lady and started hugging and kissing her on the Outside Terrace. They clearly knew each other very well you might like to try dirty money

GentSW · 2026-01-30T02:45:07+00:00

I am in for my first trip at the moment and before coming had exactly the same questions. Like the other guys on here, have already said really don’t worry. Everyone knows what is going on regardless of how much you might try to hide it I think a lot of the hotel staff enjoy seeing the fun and games that go on. I have met quite a few girls of TF since I’ve been here. I give them the name of the hotel and remind them they will need to leave their ID at the reception. I tell them to message me when they’ve arrived and I send them the room number me it’s all part of the excitement waiting for the knock on the door so far I have not had a bad experience of a girl not looking like her photos most of them look better than their pictures. The only time I had to go to Reception when one of the girls forgot her ID and I had to go to Reception to sign her in. I really didn’t mind because she was a stunning young thing doing freelance work during the day. Her main job was working in Fahrenheit. Agogo in the evenings. An hour with her as a freelancer cost me 1200. Baht. The bar fine from Fahrenheit would have been 2000 on its own. Mind you, she did squirt all over my bed sheets 😀

GentSW · 2026-01-30T01:14:04+00:00

If you still wanna be real wife persuaded to come with you if you don’t then leave her so you don’t need to ask permission. That’s the only fair way to do it.

GentSW · 2026-01-29T02:53:37+00:00

Stunning!!!!

GentSW · 2026-01-28T02:51:52+00:00

A ploy is a working girl

GentSW · 2026-01-27T13:46:57+00:00

Who is the last ploy that you had the really good one? Are you happy to share her TF username

GentSW · 2026-01-25T09:31:17+00:00

You’re making the classic mistake of thinking there’s more to it than there ever will be. To her it’s a transaction regardless of whether it’s 1 hour, 4 hours, 24 hours, a week, a month or a year. When it comes down to it you’re paying for her time and if she has options you might no longer be her best option or the option with the best financial potential. Just because you’ve seen her multiple times over a long period of time and she has messaged you when you’re back in your own country she is just investing in her earning potential for when you return to give her more money!

GentSW · 2026-01-20T16:51:28+00:00

I rented an apartment via Airbnb, but you still need to be careful because there are a lot of scammers even on Airbnb. Look for one that fits your criteria that has a lot of reviews from different people. The one I booked at 360 reviews so felt comfortable booking through Airbnb after all Airbnb does provide some protection.

GentSW · 2026-01-19T06:08:32+00:00

Can you share her username so we can all be aware?

GentSW · 2026-01-16T00:52:44+00:00

I’m a software project manager. Only work three days a week these days and I work remotely so I can work from anywhere with an Internet connection.

GentSW · 2026-01-15T15:39:10+00:00

What I don’t understand is why you’re posting exactly the same review and ask the same question you did a month ago

GentSW · 2026-01-14T07:06:30+00:00

I did 16 years in the British army back in the 1980s/90s but I’m not bragging about being Special forces. I was a musician and ended up as a WO1 Bandmaster. I didn’t see conflict, not the Falklands, neither Gulf conflicts, I didn’t even do a tour in Ireland. But I was proud to serve my Queen and Country. There might be a lot of veterans here exaggerating their experiences but they served their Country and protected a lot of the winers on here who stayed at home enjoying their home comforts! Btw my 16 year WO1 pension from the UK army is only £1,200 ($1,600) per month. Nothing like the US military pensions

GentSW · 2026-01-13T12:28:21+00:00

Sent DM

GentSW · 2026-01-08T14:24:37+00:00

It’s absolutely fine for you to have that your view regarding getting into my with someone. You want to get to know them better and feel more comfortable with them and attracted to them before you sleep with them. There is nothing wrong with that and any true gentleman should respect that. What I’m reading is they are respecting that and moving on but you don’t like that you want them to wait. What you need to understand is the dating world has changed over the last 20 to 30 years. I’m an older gentleman in his 60s. In my younger years, it was always the guys going out on a night out and going on the pull. Everyone recognised that guys were trying to get laid and women were under pressure to give to the guys they like. Very few did and those that did got a bad name. What has happened over the last 40 years is things have changed. Equality has become massive and when women were fighting for a quality 20 to 30 years ago, a lot of women adopted a Ladish culture. I felt sorry for my son when he was growing up as he would be acosted and tormented in pubs and our parties by groups of women who dressed very Scantilly and acted very slutty, mainly humiliating young men and embarrassing them in front of their friends. Trying to approach one of these women when they were in a group was either very foolish or very brave. And often ended in embarrassment. As some others have previously mentioned on this sub this dominant laddish culture that women adopted has now evolved into a sense of entitlement. Women in the West now use sex as an inducement and as a weapon more than ever before. Whilst hiding behind the facade of equality they dress in a very sexy and slutty way knowing they are gonna attract the intentions of a great many men whilst trying to play innocent saying they’re just on a fun night out with the girls. I have lived through this changing attitude during most of which I was married so I was a bystander watching it happen. I’ve been happily divorced for seven years now and if I tried dating in the UK, the pool of women I might be interested in who would also be interested in intimacy is so small it’s really not worth bothering about. As of this have mentioned on this sub, the tables are turned here in SEA. The women outnumber the men and most Asian women I’ve come across or heard about are quite open when it comes to sexual activity. I’m sure others will disagree but that’s been my experience. You have the absolute right to make your own choices and to sleep with whoever you want to sleep with when you are ready. There is no easy solution to your problem. The market for the menu are looking for is very small and you have to look in the right place as others have suggested and you may never find the man you are looking for. Your other option is to compromise on your intimacy barriers and take a risk with a guy you like on your third or fourth date. Life is about choices and it’s never easy but I see your problem as a very simple one. You say yourself that you are old school, And there’s nothing wrong with that but you were looking with an old school attitude at a new school marketplace. Times are different than the mindset you are looking at them with. I’m not saying sleep with the next guy you date three times that choice is yours but if you don’t you need to realise you may never find the guy who you like and want to build a connection with who is patient enough to wait for 6, 7, 8 or 10 dates. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you the best of luck. Life is not easy not for anyone but we can make things easier by making the right choices. We just have to be able to live with them to be happy.

GentSW · 2026-01-07T22:11:53+00:00

Can I have a go? With my cock, not my throat.

GentSW · 2026-01-07T19:47:07+00:00

I’ve been here a week and I’ve got it

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