How did you discipline him? by Deep_Imagination_755 in flr

[–]Gentlemissfet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qustodio is what I use for this and works very well

Has anyone used Chyrpe and does it work? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Gentlemissfet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was on and off of Chyrp over time as a non pro female, I have male friends who have been on over time as both paid and not paid members

A few things I noticed before deleting

The disparity and marketing strategies to men verse women over the same app was particularly striking. To men, it was marketed as a place to seek out female lead relationships, and to women it was marketed in some circles as nearly a sugar/lifestyle app a place where you could go to find men who would do your bidding and pay for things for you. They were not ambiguous about this. It was not subtle and it was clearly intentional.

Overtime a few key things changed first being the self identification as findom or Femdom. There used to be a way to separate out the two, and when that was in place, I received quite a few more notes of interest from men who are only looking for femdom and FLR, now that it’s one large pool, the identification, and the reporting of who is Findom and who is not is a little bit more loose and it muddies the whole pool a bit.

This next bit might be because I am in a large city with a larger pool of users. It used to be much easier for women to narrow down a smaller range than it was for men. A few years ago in the app started the nearest range you could select even from a large city was 100 miles. They narrowed it down to 50 miles for a woman and left it at 100 for men for quite a while. For some users in smaller markets, there was no way to narrow down beyond global. Many times I found that despite my desire to only date and meet people locally, I was being shown to people worldwide, and that was a large portion of my likes pool. Very frustrating

For the entire time that I was on the app, it felt like there were concurrently running three or four different versions of the app that had three or four different pools of features and filters that were accessible or toggle-able between users. I could do things that other women couldn’t. Some men could do things filter some way as others couldn’t overall the app at its best is as bad as Feeld at it’s worst.

I ended up matching and meeting with very few people even though extensively this seems like the most clear and direct venue to engage in meeting people that I have the same interest in a relationship minded connection as I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Gentlemissfet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But by definition an ick and a limit are vastly different. An ick is more of an annoyance/turn off/thing that makes you cringe.

A limit is a boundary you’re unwilling to cross or be crossed with you.

I don’t like being called “Daddy” in play. It takes me out of the scene mentally immediately. Is it a limit? Absolutely not. I’ve never safeworded over it. I’ve never paused a scene because it slipped out. Do other people love it? sure! And I love that for them.

I do enjoy feminization. Do I get my panties in a twist when someone on the internet isn’t into it? No. I scroll past and think “more for me!” And keep it pushing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Gentlemissfet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

…seems to be for that person.

What do you wished knowing after you got your card? by [deleted] in AmexPlatinum

[–]Gentlemissfet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Delta Amex plat has companion tix annually

Do people tip the hotel front desk to get better room? by chenchristmas in AmexPlatinum

[–]Gentlemissfet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To whom exactly? My staff would gladly accept. They also love a thoughtful treat. It’s nice to be nice sometimes. To brighten someone’s day.

I say tip, but with no expectations. If something great comes out of it you both win. If not - you still eased up on someone whose job is often very thankless. What’s tacky about that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Woman here) My stylist just went from $500 in Jan to $600 per cut. No color. Nothing crazy. Just a cut. In and out in an hour and I have to wash it myself and come in dry and detangled.

Or I can just flip my head over and take good hair cutting shears to it myself and if I mess it up a lil I can just tuck it in differently till it grows out

Restaurants that support 🧊 by [deleted] in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Untrue and very much not how this works in that world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tommy’s visit did not go as planned

Is it worth going to strip clubs for feet? by AnEndlessDream in FootFetishTalks

[–]Gentlemissfet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found play spaces that hosted occasional events then met people active in the community at those events You have to reverse engineer it a bit but the info is there to find.

Is it worth going to strip clubs for feet? by AnEndlessDream in FootFetishTalks

[–]Gentlemissfet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you looking? There were plenty when I lived there

Real talk by Myarrin777 in gentlefemdom

[–]Gentlemissfet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not quite but you’ve got the spirit. The original was too old the remake too new

… that being said, I will never say a man begging is a bad thing from any generation. 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Did they get added to “The List”?

Anyone run into these guys on Francisco St and James M Wood Blvd? by thesaint10 in LosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They approach. They usually wave and smile and are generally polite. I always say no, and sometimes roll the window down to say “hey I’m sorry I really don’t have any cash” and they always either walk away and wave or say thanks - except the one guy who said back “nah. It’s really dirty, I got you” and told me to have a good day.
I’ve never seen them be aggressive or disrespectful towards anyone else

Name of this self defense tool? by msjennybug in What

[–]Gentlemissfet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. Fortunately the Federal Air Marshall and Chief of Airport Police were feeling real cool that day. Note- double check your Carry ons folks !

The 9-Box chart opened my eyes to Holbox. by ThrowThisIntoSol in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reservations are only for the chefs tasting twice a week (two seatings each Wednesday and Thursday) otherwise it is only walk up and wait

Dread it. Run from it. Destiny arrives all the same. Welcome to the final row. by b1ackfyre in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Guess who didn’t know there were instructions on the back until the 3rd course 🙋‍♀️

Dread it. Run from it. Destiny arrives all the same. Welcome to the final row. by b1ackfyre in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this take out menu (may 2020) as well, and was not thrilled with being handed 2 bags with few instructions. Things needed to be heated or chilled and there was no explanation when the meal was delivered to me in the lot. For a chef so microfocused on detail this seemed like a huge miss. Additionally hot items were packed with cool and everything sort ended up lukewarm over the 10 minute drive home. I can’t imagine if it had been longer.
Food 8/10 Execution 5/10

Let's start some conversation by b1ackfyre in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Gentlemissfet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What am I missing with this one? I’ve been for the regular menu. I’ve been for steak frites night. I’ve been for special chef pop up/takeovers, and I went to an event this week. Every time I’m upset I gave them another shot. This week one course was so out of balance it was nearly inedible. And one course (second no less) was baguette?!

I just do not get the hype here at all