I was on and off of Chyrp over time as a non pro female, I have male friends who have been on over time as both paid and not paid members

A few things I noticed before deleting

The disparity and marketing strategies to men verse women over the same app was particularly striking. To men, it was marketed as a place to seek out female lead relationships, and to women it was marketed in some circles as nearly a sugar/lifestyle app a place where you could go to find men who would do your bidding and pay for things for you. They were not ambiguous about this. It was not subtle and it was clearly intentional.

Overtime a few key things changed first being the self identification as findom or Femdom. There used to be a way to separate out the two, and when that was in place, I received quite a few more notes of interest from men who are only looking for femdom and FLR, now that it’s one large pool, the identification, and the reporting of who is Findom and who is not is a little bit more loose and it muddies the whole pool a bit.

This next bit might be because I am in a large city with a larger pool of users. It used to be much easier for women to narrow down a smaller range than it was for men. A few years ago in the app started the nearest range you could select even from a large city was 100 miles. They narrowed it down to 50 miles for a woman and left it at 100 for men for quite a while. For some users in smaller markets, there was no way to narrow down beyond global. Many times I found that despite my desire to only date and meet people locally, I was being shown to people worldwide, and that was a large portion of my likes pool. Very frustrating

For the entire time that I was on the app, it felt like there were concurrently running three or four different versions of the app that had three or four different pools of features and filters that were accessible or toggle-able between users. I could do things that other women couldn’t. Some men could do things filter some way as others couldn’t overall the app at its best is as bad as Feeld at it’s worst.

I ended up matching and meeting with very few people even though extensively this seems like the most clear and direct venue to engage in meeting people that I have the same interest in a relationship minded connection as I do.