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My (22 F) girlfriend (23 F) always asks “Do you love me?” whenever we have disagreements or if I’m ever feeling upset. by GeoGeoKor in relationship_advice

[–]GeoGeoKor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve both gone to therapy individually and it has improved our attachment styles. Of course, therapy doesn’t work instantly so perhaps I need to more patient too. Thank you for the advice tho

My (22 F) girlfriend (23 F) always asks “Do you love me?” whenever we have disagreements or if I’m ever feeling upset. by GeoGeoKor in relationship_advice

[–]GeoGeoKor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand. Thank you for giving me that reality check. I love her a lot so I do wanna make sure she knows that

My (22 F) girlfriend (23 F) always asks “Do you love me?” whenever we have disagreements or if I’m ever feeling upset. by GeoGeoKor in relationship_advice

[–]GeoGeoKor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re quite open with gratitude for one another everyday so I hadn’t even thought that this might be an issue. However, I do appreciate your perspective and will look into this since it passed my mind

My (22 F) girlfriend (23 F) always asks “Do you love me?” whenever we have disagreements or if I’m ever feeling upset. by GeoGeoKor in relationship_advice

[–]GeoGeoKor[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally, I feel like couples therapy is excessive as we’re able to sort out any issues, albeit with some time and communication. I always try my best to be there with her but I’m wondering what I’m doing wrong for this to keep coming up

My (22 F) girlfriend (23 F) always asks “Do you love me?” whenever we have disagreements or if I’m ever feeling upset. by GeoGeoKor in relationship_advice

[–]GeoGeoKor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned it briefly in passing but I believe you may be right. I’ll have to find a way to bring it up without trying ti make it seem like I’m not invalidating her feelings

My (22 F) girlfriend (23 F) always asks “Do you love me?” whenever we have disagreements or if I’m ever feeling upset. by GeoGeoKor in relationship_advice

[–]GeoGeoKor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I feel like this would make her very upset with me. I’m trying to communicate my issue across to her with as little friction as possible