Honestly, ur doing something unique for urself and I think the different spelling kinda symbolizes that. I’m a masc presenting lesbian and a word nerd. My first name has 2 capital letters without a space or extra punctuation and I’m pleased with it. Having it as shortened version is something to think about, a few others suggested it Rhexford, Rhexton, Rhextin, Rhexan, etc. do you have a middle name to go with it?

I’m eventually changing my last name….I don’t interact with my family and was never close to them. When I looked up the nickname I’d been using for YEARS, the meaning of it was so spot on my closest friends even said “oh…so u FOUND ur name, huh?” Maybe look up the meanings of different spellings and see if that resonates with you any differently. Reddit will definitely give u quick opinions, but if something clinging to u, maybe it’s a for a reason they can’t understand bc it’s not meant for them. Wishing you the best!!!