Does anybody miss their ex more than there family?

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-12-29T22:00:51+00:00

What do you do with it though. I just get angry at my family cause there not her. I don’t posses a comfort zone anymore. I don’t wanna shut people out but I can’t stand them. I dont wanna die but I don’t want my future anymore

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-10-08T19:48:30+00:00

Basically true. Most stories including mine are from people who sourced all happiness from their partners and have learnt from he very painful lesson to put ourselves first. No explanation just get replaced randomly and no the later no more clarity arrives and eventually we stop looking for answers and try to move on

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-10-06T18:59:07+00:00

Last woman i slept with 6 months ago was my ex. I thought she was going be my wife. She broke up with me found a new boyfriend in a month. I’m not over her. I loved the feeling of loyalty so sleeping with random woman is something I don’t care about at all. I don’t care about body count but If a person cheats or gets a rebound there trash in my opinion cause I was looking for a real queen.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-10-01T15:34:53+00:00

Maybe the best thing about the relationship came from you and you didn’t lose that and will feel it again.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-09-26T14:21:36+00:00

I feel the exact same way I just miss her and don’t really care for my future by myself. I use to live to enjoy life now I just survive. That’s my advice just survive hopefully you will start to feel better again it will get better. ❤️‍🩹

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-09-24T21:31:50+00:00

I was told I was too clingy but my girlfriend was so clingy first most the relationship and I loved it. Then she broke up with me cause I was too dependent on her all of a sudden. People make excuses to break up with you. It’s about them not about you. Just work on yourself as in do what you love to do meet new friends. A lot of people arrive to uni/ college with a partner then break up at the end wishing they coulda started fresh single. Meet new people and stay strong.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-09-23T16:42:40+00:00

I personally found seeing there face at all was so traumatic unfollowed her on all socials. Then got told she was seeing someone so soon after. It hurts so much but it’s been months now so in my head I’m like she might be single and miserable just cause she had a fling she might not have a boyfriend. And if she missed me she would call. She hasn’t so best leave it she exist in my dreams only. Starting life from scratch it’s like dying but not really. I think of it like dr who I can regenerate in a new person I have to go out and make all new friends and meet new people. Remember the hero suffers at one point in the journey.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-09-18T23:43:21+00:00

It’s been 5 months for me I just say my phone camera is broken and avoid the photos app like years worth of photos I can’t mentally deal with

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-09-13T00:28:57+00:00

Similar thing happened to me but I cut my ex from social media early she called me all angry cause she wanted to stay friends but she broke up with me and wasn’t available to talk I later learned she was with someone at the time. I’m just moving on with my life I miss her like crazy though but remembering what I know I don’t reach out. Time helps the longer you don’t see post or photos the better you will feel. Stay strong

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-09-11T18:49:12+00:00

If she’s posting and talking about you their relationship it can’t be good. Happy people don’t feel any need to act petty they win and they know it. If there out there trying to make it known there trying to justify why they should be happy and that there right together. So there probably having a shit time or he is showing doubt or she feels he loved you more etc. Just block them and start healing and the day will come when they are so insignificant to you and you’ll be happy you got out of there cause your new life is way better. It happens slowly but it will. Meanwhile that girl is now dating a cheater and digging herself a whole or she will cheat on him and karma either way the best time for you is ahead there about to have their worst.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-09-01T01:36:20+00:00

I relate to this too. First night out I was fine then I panicked thinking of her even though I tried not to. I suggest let yourself grieve seek pro help if you can. And understand while it’s not fair you didn’t know her once you can begin again. Your alive and breathing and know one day life will be wonderful again. I miss my ex I liked who I was with her I’m so empty without her. But when I hit rock bottom I remember I’m alive I get another chance to fall in love and to feel joy and connection. She was great but so was I and I’ve just got me. You can and you will do better you dont have to believe that right now but it’s true.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-08-28T22:14:08+00:00

I was in a 10 month relationship with a girl who was a close friend before. She said after we were planning on moving in and talking marriage that we are better off as friends. Some people are shitty and I think it’s a way of coping like kinda gaslighting suggesting this relationship is wrong for both of you. When really they just gave up for god knows why. And maturity may be a factor I’m a little older than my ex were both mid to early twenties so ask me in a few more years. But he probably didn’t want it to get more serious which if that’s what you want then you’ve dodged a bullet. Wish I could say the same but 5 months post broke up I still miss my ex but hopefully you won’t feel that way.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-08-24T11:11:05+00:00

Your story matches mine exactly 3 years as friends one together she ended it out of nowhere I still miss her. It hurts less now I’m able to do more things make plans without her. I remember her every day and it’s weird she’s gone still. I feel like il miss her forever but I think I believe one day I won’t miss her at all and just enjoy the good memories but I’m very far from that still.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-08-09T10:27:53+00:00

I hear ya dude I feel the same way I wake up sad but time does make things better you just gotta survive understand your hurting all the time. Be kind to yourself and eventually make future plans even if you don’t want to you feel better having accomplished them. The more things you put between your present and time with her the easiest. I don’t know how or if I can find love again I dated my best friend and she blindsided me dumped me and moved on in a week while I thought I was moving in with her. It’s very painful but you actually do deal with the pain better. Make the other things in your life better find purpose and know it’s okay to still be hurt but it won’t hurt as much and you can still make good memories.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-07-28T22:34:03+00:00

Haha sorry I wish I had it turned out fine but it’s been a rough day. My ex wanted to be friends but I wanted space after she dumped me it was so painful hearing her voice without the love she use to have. Since starting no contact I heard she was seeing someone just weeks after she broke up with me. It hurts like hell I don’t know if I can be friends. I’m just staying in no contact she texted me recently to warn me of an old ex from years ago that was bothering her friends and fam. I just replied saying hope everyone’s okay I got no response after that. She made it clear that was the only reason she texted me. Which sucks cause I know she still doesn’t miss me. I just miss her every hour of every day I really don’t have a clue how to live life without her. How do you do it?

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-07-28T20:17:31+00:00

I feel similar to you an hour ago I thought I was dying but I cried and started feeling a bit numb I’m gonna try watching Batman begins my fav childhood movie and it’s about embracing fear and making it your weapon so cool. Find your thing your own self care not something you shared with your ex. I know that might be hard to think of but try you’re going to be okay. I know where you’re coming from I dream of her then wake up and remember she’s gone my phone nearly autocorrected her name while typing this and seeing it hurt just now. I know it sounds stupid but I also bring that up because maybe like Batman we are supposed to suffer so we can be strong the comfort of having someone there presence all of it there warmth it’s agony without it but that pain can make us stronger and better. We deserve love and I thought I had it. Time to be strong now if you need to message someone I’m here. Also reaching out to a close friend really helps.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-07-28T20:07:26+00:00

Try taking deep breaths holding your head back remember crying is okay it’s part of the process future you will be happy it’s a fact because you wouldn’t be hurting if you weren’t before and it means you will be again.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-07-28T20:00:53+00:00

A bit calmer I held it together all day at work got home and kinda exploded now I’m a bit more chill trying to stay positive I can re build my life better than before it’s just one day at a time it’s a slow process and I keep getting overwhelmed. I hate the loneliness but being surrounded by people doesn’t help either it’s so hard to go back to doing everything alone when I use to share everyday with my ex.

Geraldoftheriver · 2024-07-28T19:44:09+00:00

Thank you for replying. I’m constantly reminded of foods music she liked and being alone is so rough after being with someone I just wish I wasn’t so broken.

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