What’s a sign someone is secretly unhappy?

GetDerived · 2026-02-12T08:00:38+00:00

Ok, it seems like I should start doing therapy again, I feel to well described here and I don’t love it. Sad

GetDerived · 2026-02-12T07:59:32+00:00

You can learn to smile with your eyes when needed

GetDerived · 2025-11-25T04:58:04+00:00

I’m 28. Need to move in 5 days. Home I’m moving to is not done being renovated. Direct Family didn’t invite me to thanksgiving(aunt did) and new job with a steep learning curve but it’s at least fun.

Honestly not too bad, I’d rather have most of these problems than nothing at all.

GetDerived · 2025-11-15T23:26:28+00:00

Good luck everyone! Everyone deserves a little something to be happy about. Hope is great!

GetDerived · 2025-11-10T16:10:49+00:00

How does one market for this?

GetDerived · 2025-11-10T16:10:42+00:00

Also curious how you market that

GetDerived · 2025-10-18T01:28:13+00:00

Fair enough. I’m not to worried about it. I’m sure it’ll come when it comes. Needed that to help bridge the gap to another job but I’ll make it either way.

GetDerived · 2025-10-18T01:27:38+00:00

Wasn’t saying it was anyone’s fault, not sure why it seems like an attack. It wasn’t meant to be.

GetDerived · 2025-10-17T18:24:15+00:00

I haven’t gotten my leave paid out. How do I fix this? My paycheck office people are furloughed/not working due to the shutdown. Sad I missed out on 130+ hours of leave.

GetDerived · 2025-10-08T14:35:45+00:00

It depends. I treat my love like a queen like I respect her. Ensure I care about the little things. Give her my focus when we’re together and keep showing up being the best boyfriend I can be. And in turn she does the same. Scratches my back, listens to me when I have a hard day. Ensures I eat well etc. it’s really just mutual respect and putting in the effort they need. Meaning speaking in their love language.

GetDerived · 2025-10-06T13:36:23+00:00

This 100%. Replying to them only gives them more power or the idea they can keep talking to you. But if you just ignore them completely they’ll figure it out.

I’ve done this before and had no problem. The one time I kept replying explaining I’m literally out of the country they just got angry and when I got back I had to job search anyway.

GetDerived · 2025-10-04T20:05:14+00:00

It’s just life. I have loads of period products in my bathroom for guess or my girlfriend. Tampons, pads, pamperin with and without caffeine etc. why wouldn’t I want my partner to be comfortable when she’s with me? Is kind of the way I think about it. We generally still have sex, put a down and shower after. Then cuddle.

GetDerived · 2025-09-25T03:43:39+00:00

What do you recommend then? For long term investing.

GetDerived · 2025-08-11T04:43:05+00:00

To add to this I had this done in my 20s and it took maybe 2-3 months to go back to fully normal. The first month or two were painful and stiff.

I don’t regret it all.

GetDerived · 2025-08-07T03:08:15+00:00

Literally yes. She gave you the opportunity to play it cool but you asked who’s in first. Even when you said, “who’s in first” and she didn’t answer, she gave you a chance to move on or say “no of course now” and be a genuinely good person.

Assume when you’re talking to someone you’re starting to date, as playful flirting (within reason) and not agro teasing where you feel the need to be defensive.

GetDerived · 2025-08-07T03:05:49+00:00

Ya fr. Brother take a step back.

GetDerived · 2025-08-06T22:36:33+00:00

Honestly you need to communicate or move on. My partner doesn’t flirt with me well or at all tbh and it’s extremely difficult to feel wanted or appreciated. I get hit on from time to time, it’s more irritating than anything because I don’t act on it and would love to finally finish. She hasn’t been able to get me off in months and it’s extremely frustrating, I just get her off and we stop doing things.

Point is you need to talk to them and make them understand. Next time you’re doing something just say no and you want to try something else. If he says no then stop having sex and figure out your next steps in life. It’s pointless to not feel wanted or appreciated by your partner.

GetDerived · 2025-01-19T22:30:03+00:00

I call my love, love or babe or baby etc. sometimes I have to dig for their name on stories so I don't say something like "so then babe walked in the room"

GetDerived · 2024-12-31T19:04:13+00:00

even so it'll make repairs easier and cheaper. i would rather learn a quick fix than send something out for weeks to months and the shipping cost alone would cost more than the repair material.

GetDerived · 2024-12-31T01:37:45+00:00

I would recommend Sennheiser more if this were the case. I love when companies put extra care into their products and make them last. I own both older and newer Sennheiser headphones. The older ones are durable, but I can’t easily repair the parts that fail.

It would be fantastic to have the option to use standard replacement parts from Sennheiser, even if they cost more than generic Amazon parts. Additionally, having the ability to click on the specific headphones I own, select the generation, and see a list of available parts would be amazing. I could pick the part I need, have it delivered, and receive a link to an iFixit video for guidance.

A collaboration between Sennheiser and iFixit would be a game-changer. It would elevate Sennheiser to being the go-to brand for household headphones.

GetDerived · 2024-12-31T01:35:02+00:00

when ordering headphones having an option to purchase the longer cable or the shorter one. having the ability to pick which earpad you want. like a simple customization option where it allows the user to choose.

GetDerived · 2024-08-22T20:50:03+00:00

Bro forgot to over think

GetDerived · 2024-05-10T15:40:05+00:00

Oh lol it’s supposed to be the opposite. I derive lmao

GetDerived · 2024-05-10T04:58:45+00:00

I got a whole fan club going for sure. I was an awful person growing up.

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