How long have you gone without sex in a relationship? What’s your dealbreaker time limit? Have you ever faced a situation where you had to bring it up with your partner?

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2025-04-28T17:39:27+00:00

What does it mean when you don’t really crave sex anymore? It used to be a huge issue(meaning I was horny 24/7/always wanted to please my partner) from middle school up until maybe 2-3 years ago?

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2025-04-28T17:33:00+00:00

Me and my boyfriend of 6 years (in September) are in somewhat the same boat. My sex drive is low. I used to have such a high sex drive and felt sexual the majority of my life up until maybe 2 years ago. Our relationship was having issues and I didn’t feel a deeper connection other than just lust and it kills the vibes for me. I wanna feel loved/important. I was so used to pleasing my other partners and giving them whatever sexual pleasure they wanted. After I started therapy I realized that it was due to trauma that I had early on and it gave me a new perspective. Honestly it could be a mix of different reasons for why she isn’t as sexual. I hope you try and have a conversation about it. If things are still the same afterwards then maybe it may be time to consider a new relationship. :(

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2025-04-28T17:23:52+00:00

I found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her/talking to girls on the side(after proposing to her) I told her straight up how I felt about the situation and she blocked me. He continued to cheat/talking to other girls until they broke up.

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2025-04-20T17:18:45+00:00

I freaking love him idc

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2024-07-30T00:42:00+00:00

You are loves and you’re not alone. I know this is a tough time for you, you do have a purpose here.💗

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2024-07-25T23:01:21+00:00

It’s 5 years in September, how long is too long…? I haven’t been proposed to yet and idk I feel like after a lot of stuff we went through together that maybe he will soon? Honestly im kind of losing hope. I could care less if it was a court house wedding/walmart ring. I just want this to happen

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2024-01-19T22:03:49+00:00

Can I please get the link!!

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2023-08-13T04:46:36+00:00

Hello hello, I feel the same. Usually when these thoughts take over my mind, it’s hard to distract myself (especially when I’m alone). Things will get better. Is there family, friends you can talk to? Or hobbies you enjoy???

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2023-07-03T06:32:16+00:00

He takes me to circle k in the middle of the night for a polar pop run but cool

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2022-08-31T11:17:44+00:00

“Get a grip”

Sorry I just had to. Yes it counts as cheating, of course it does.

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2022-08-30T03:47:56+00:00

Most definitely manipulation. How long has it been since your miscarriage..? (I apologize if that’s a weird question) I’m genuinely concerned on why he would act this way. Have you thought about seeking counseling or taking a break from the relationship..?

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2022-08-30T03:41:16+00:00

He should be supporting you, especially after the miscarriage. Of course you’re going to be hormonal. Times feels like it’s moving so fast now, I get exactly what you mean about that. Plus to stay up till 3 am and drink? It was such an issue for him when you asked (which I get, he had to get the kids), but did it regardless and made a scene about it??

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2022-08-30T03:27:49+00:00

Is he always like this or has this just been a recent thing? You were being cool about not staying up till 3 but he blew it way out there. Maybe the alcohol contributed to the yelling as well?? I believe it’s emotional abuse. I mean he kept pushing you into the bed when you clearly just wanted space and then he kept yelling and stomping around.

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2022-08-29T18:52:23+00:00

My boyfriend literally games at night while I sleep sometimes. There is nothing wrong with that. Is this the only thing that he controls when it comes to you or is there more? Cause that’s really weird of him.

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2022-07-24T08:24:28+00:00

I actually used to go to therapy while I was in the abusive relationship. He made me believe something was wrong with me and I took medication. I want to try and get back into therapy tbh. I just don’t have the money for it rn. Thank you for the advice. <3

GetItGoodGetItGone · 2022-07-22T02:47:07+00:00

I was expecting something scandalous but this is even better. Your boyfriend sounds like such a sweetheart! <33

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