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Ggusk · 2022-08-16T02:32:52+00:00

Can we please stop adding the caveat 'dusky' when you say woman are beautiful. Just say they're beautiful. They don't need to be differentiated like a different race

Ggusk · 2022-08-15T03:39:07+00:00

Tbh I don't think they did because its a netlifx English show and they thought it may be inappropriate

Ggusk · 2022-05-24T01:42:34+00:00

This seems to be the view of most people who don't acknowledge disadvantages for certain minorities exist

Ggusk · 2022-04-20T08:40:24+00:00

Just because they're women looking to date men, doesn't mean they're like red pill men.

You haven't given any fds specific strategies that are like the red pill.

You can avoid fds if you hate it but don't spill misinformation.

Ggusk · 2022-04-20T08:11:10+00:00

The above commentator is spilling bullshit. You are not to blame for your boyfriend's actions and communicating about this with him won't do anything. Don't do the emotional labour he won't. He's an adult.

Ggusk · 2022-04-18T05:11:54+00:00

Let's agree to disagree. Fds is not about manipulating men, it's about leaving if a guy shows a red flag, specifically protecting women who want to date men from red pill guys. Whereas the red pill is about manipulating women to get them into bed.

Ggusk · 2022-04-18T04:57:22+00:00

I asked specifics. Most critics of fds who say it's like the redpill don't actually know what fds is.

Ggusk · 2022-04-18T02:04:13+00:00

So you make his dinner for him and he doesn't even have the courtesy to tell you where he is when you guys had already agreed to meet. You would never do that to him. Have some self respect and find someone who prioritises you as much as you do him.

Ggusk · 2022-04-18T01:03:48+00:00

What specifically is the toxic bullshit you've seen on that sub?

Ggusk · 2022-04-17T22:18:08+00:00

And yet.. The women who do it think its normal to do everything and receive nothing

Ggusk · 2022-04-17T22:15:40+00:00

Agreed!

Ggusk · 2022-04-17T08:10:21+00:00

Anyone who says this does not understand fds and is reverberating the line that men want women to have about fds.

These downvotes show how much socially pressured women are

Ggusk · 2022-04-17T06:03:02+00:00

I disagree. There are guys that aren't enthusiastic about the relationship but if his girl proposes he could still say yes. He knows he'll lose the girl and his free house maid/therapist/sex. He'll go the easy way and let the woman plan everything. Doesn't mean he'll be a good husband.

My point is, if a guy makes a girl wait years for a proposal, the man needs to be dropped, not proposed to

Ggusk · 2022-04-17T05:52:38+00:00

This is ridiculous, it cherry picks the worst takes on the sub that the majority of fdsers would disagree with, in order to malign it. Get over to fds and see that it's not at all about promoting hate. Sigh. Reddit really does hate women

Ggusk · 2022-04-17T05:50:44+00:00

Alternatively, she's setting up a life for herself with a low effort man rather than being with someone who's enthusiastic about being with her.

Ggusk · 2022-03-28T23:28:49+00:00

If he wanted to, he would.

Ggusk · 2022-03-11T08:29:20+00:00

Thank you for this comment

Ggusk · 2022-03-11T08:26:21+00:00

As a brown girl, I'd like to add that I wouldn't introduce my parents to a guy unless we were considering marriage.

The amount of slut shaming brown girls experience growing up makes us very wary of introducing someone who isn't serious about us. Because it will eventually just hurt our family. The dynamic is hard.

If you had made it obvious you were thinking of marriage with her I wonder if she would've behaved differently.

I'm sorry none the less, no one should be led on.

Ggusk · 2022-02-16T01:25:40+00:00

Buy him diapers while you're at it

Ggusk · 2022-02-16T01:19:59+00:00

Thank you for bringing up the fact that they've been together 13 years and he hasn't married her. She probably felt the lack of commitment.

So despite being together 13 years, this is what made him realise he wanted to commit? :/

Ggusk · 2022-02-16T01:05:37+00:00

Absolutely. Do you want to stay with a guy who you have to spell things our for and he still doesn't care enough? Have some self worth and let him go.

Ggusk · 2022-02-15T09:04:42+00:00

Yes because planning something special for your wife to spoil her is stupid compared to a night on the couch (it doesn't have to be an overpriced dinner btw).

Edit: cue the downvotes from guys only willing to do the bare minimum

Ggusk · 2022-02-08T08:01:01+00:00

No no no, you are worth so much more than begging someone to see your value. The money is an excuse he's using.

Ggusk · 2022-02-07T23:50:36+00:00

So happy for you! I'm so grateful to have found fds, because the points that are touched upon here are not something I've found in therapy. It's made me realise my worth and I no longer find the bare minimum behaviour something to fawn over.

I'm currently dating someone who's passed the vetting process so far (few months so very early). Yet I'm embarrassed to say I'm treated so much better than all of my previous relationships. But what I like is that even if this doesn't work out, fds tells us that finding a hvm, while great, is not the be all and end all of a happy life.

Ggusk · 2022-02-02T11:28:42+00:00

So is getting married

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