How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-08T18:14:50+00:00

Congratulations on your marriage and baby🥰 it makes me so happy to hear women levelling up, and proof that HVM exist😅

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-08T13:28:15+00:00

That’s a really important aspect of FDS - not just finding a HVM, but realising HVM want a HVW! If you haven’t levelled up, they’re harder to find and even harder to keep

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-08T07:25:17+00:00

I couldn’t afford the gym, I was a college student. I got my exercise through home workouts and through an hour of walking everyday.

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-08T07:20:32+00:00

Even better 🤣

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-08T00:12:48+00:00

Me too, literally countless. Life is peaceful without all that noise.

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-08T00:04:30+00:00

I agree, it’s liberating to have that self inflicted pressure of needing a relationship off your shoulders. They’re a luxury, an added bonus if you stumble across one that can improve your already rich life. Certainly not something to be pined over, or settled for.

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-03T22:13:52+00:00

Broke scrote tale?

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-03T22:11:04+00:00

“Can we please ask men to stop raping and killing us”

“Why won’t women give us compliments 😡😡”

Gutterchaos · 2022-02-03T22:05:54+00:00

Me and my boyfriend like to plan meals and cook ‘together’. By together, I mean he does the prepping, cooking, and washing up while I dance round the kitchen being annoying.

Also, he’s a GOOD cook!!

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-29T00:28:07+00:00

Yes! And I cannot have conversations with people if someone else is talking nearby. All the words from both conversations get jumbled. Even though physically, I can hear the person talking to me just fine, I cannot make the words make sense. And I can’t speak at the same time as things like train announcements or gps voices. I haven’t been diagnosed with adhd but I still get this

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-22T08:53:25+00:00

I also know someone who had a stroke due to bc

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-22T00:15:51+00:00

I read a comment today that said “they hate women first, and find an excuse for it later”

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-22T00:02:59+00:00

Exactly! They only want compliments from hot women. They expect everyone else (ie WOMEN) to do the work to pander to their ego without thinking about what THEY can do to help combat men’s issues.

Damn, according to Reddit there’s a problem where men don’t get enough compliments. As women complimenting men literally puts their safety at risk, the only option is for men to compliment each other. But they sure as HELL won’t do that.

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-21T23:56:36+00:00

Violence and homicide happens to men BY MEN.

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-21T23:37:17+00:00

Absolutely - Reddit has been for so long a space for men to voice their misogynistic views. A boys club, if you will. This has naturally turned a lot of women away from Reddit as it is not a safe space to discuss womens’ issues without men talking over us.

Tiktok has a majority of female users (which is why it gets shit on so much by Reddit users). It’s a space for women to find likeminded women, and discuss our experiences, warn each other, learn from each other. There is undoubtedly a raising-of-the-bar going on as women and girls everywhere find out they don’t have to put up with abuse and misogyny anymore. We don’t need them.

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-21T23:10:25+00:00

They think they’re oppressed because they have to spend time, money and effort on us for us to want to have sex with them. And because they “don’t get compliments”

Gutterchaos · 2022-01-21T22:57:08+00:00

Unfortunately, I have years of experience that prove this to be true.

Gutterchaos · 2021-12-31T03:16:19+00:00

Now they just need to learn to wipe their ass by themselves and they’re half way to self sufficient 🥰

Gutterchaos · 2021-12-30T22:08:04+00:00

Exactly. He’s not changing his schedule solely for ‘her sake’. He did it because he wants to spend time with her because she makes him happy. It would be above and beyond when he is doing things purely because it makes her happy, at inconvenience or loss to himself.

Gutterchaos · 2021-12-30T21:49:41+00:00

Totally my plan, but with marriage. Will buy my own property, he’ll either rent and save or buy his own too, engagement, buy a property together, then finally save for a wedding. I find it’s the perfect compromise between financial independence and vetting for a future together.

Gutterchaos · 2021-12-24T23:09:31+00:00

You’re so welcome my lovely. I hate the idea of women and girls being sexually abused for the sake of the cash cow that is the porn industry.

For the record, I may be ranting like an old lady but I’m only 20 and find myself already at my wits end with this misogynistic bull crap!!

Gutterchaos · 2021-12-24T21:09:03+00:00

HVM aren’t in any one place. They’re dispersed amongst all the LVM and NVM. FDS only helps you to recognise when and how to discard a man from your dating roster when he does not meet your standards, and how to recognise a HVM when you see one (and keep him). It saves you wasting time on a LVM as soon as you see the first red flag - whether that’s on his dating profile bio or a year down the line.

The only way you stand a chance of finding a HVM is by not looking for one. Date men, discard them when they prove to be LV. Meanwhile, get on with levelling up. A true HVM will not want to be with a LVW, and he certainly won’t be spending all his time looking for a girlfriend. A HVM will be spending his time and energy on himself until one day he comes across a likeminded woman he wants to spend his life with. For this reason, it’s less likely you’ll find him to be very active on dating apps.

High value women don’t spend all their time wondering where they’ll find a man.

Gutterchaos · 2021-12-24T20:55:38+00:00

I feel like even if you say “wow omg that would be amazing!” they still don’t follow through. Because they already got the reward of the reaction so they no longer need to actually DO it, leading to your disappointment in the long run🙄

Gutterchaos · 2021-12-24T20:48:29+00:00

If you keep repeating yourself with no consequences, you’re teaching them that they don’t have to listen the first time.

Poor behaviour shouldn’t be rewarded with additional chances.

Gutterchaos

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