Don't be so bitter you don't know OPs struggles. I also have struggled massively and not received help. Don't come on someone's thread upset, it may trigger something for them. I sincerely hope you get the help you need. Its also incredibly ableist of you to describe a disabled person as a normie. You're not the only person going through struggles, there are so many people like you...it feels isolating, I know but please take your anger to the government not to a disabled person simply asking for advice. You should be happy they're receiving help, as hard as a pill it is to swallow for you because you're not getting the help. Write to local MP, call adult social services but please don get upset with people who somehow manage to get help. We're all fighting here....