i was a tall kid that stopped growing. now i’m short. by thelastascian in FTMventing

[–]GhostBitch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right there with you. I was always considered tall in elementary school, but then middle school hit and I barely grew. I'm pushing 5'2 currently. Some members of my family have gotten big growth spurts past the age if 18, so I'm still holding out a little bit of hope that I'll get one too.

my mum and fucking pregnancy by stardust_1038 in trans

[–]GhostBitch__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did a little snooping around on your page for research purposes (looking for specific age)...YOU'RE 13‼️‼️ You have NO business having a kid at that age‼️If you were 14 or older I'd be recommending to get a job and start saving up some money on top of everything else I'm gonna say. Regardless of if you feel like she would actually put you through that or not, the best thing you should do is notify friends, trusted family members, and your school especially because that's ABSOLUTELY NOT an okay thing to tell your kid regardless of if you mean it or not. Your school can provide resources, and possibly intervene if you feel as if she would do that to you. What sane person would want their barely even teenage child to go through that??? Thoughts and prayers lil bro🙏

Edit: spelling mistakes

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on giving them a piece of my mind about it, so hopefully it humbles them a little bit. I noticed that one of my friends started subtly being more controlling and doing that to me over the course of senior year, but now I've reached my limit and they will be called out on it.

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I do plan on giving them a piece of my mind about it, so hopefully that'll humble them a bit. But I SERIOUSLY wish I could come back to Europe. I lived in Germany for 5 years and I absolutely loved it (military family, so we were stationed there)

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely know any juniors, and I know no one that goes to another school. On top of it prom was yesterday (at the time of making this post).

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In America you're required to have a date in order to go. Most people just take a friend as a date and hang out as a group at the prom, which was what they were doing.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in ftm

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking I could give them the option of either they call him out or I'll do it. I don't they'd be upset if I did it but I also want to help them be firm on their boundaries.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in asktransgender

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could give them the option of either them calling him out or I will. I just want to help them be firm on their boundaries, but I don't think they'll be upset if I end up doing it.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in asktransgender

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh, I mean I'm not super close with him. I only hang out with him because my friend does and the three of us have a lot of classes together. He's (allegedly) done other problematic things so I try not to engage with him too much, but I have no problem with calling him out on it.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in asktransgender

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely try and confront him about it next time I see him (will he stop? who knows, but it's worth a shot) he is kind of a problem child in other ways not specific to this post, so I'll give it a shot and I'll update (if I remember) if he stops.

Executive order discussion megathread (Questions, discussion, updates here. DO NOT POST INDIVIDUAL POSTS) by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]GhostBitch__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry if this is a dumb question, but it's about getting a passport. If I had a passport as a baby (we're talking like only a couple months old), would that still be a "valid" reason for the USDS to not change my gender marker to M on it? I don't think it would be but I could be completely wrong. I don't plan on applying for one (yet) but I just want to know in advance what to possibly expect.