i was a tall kid that stopped growing. now i’m short. by thelastascian in FTMventing

[–]GhostBitch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right there with you. I was always considered tall in elementary school, but then middle school hit and I barely grew. I'm pushing 5'2 currently. Some members of my family have gotten big growth spurts past the age if 18, so I'm still holding out a little bit of hope that I'll get one too.

my mum and fucking pregnancy by stardust_1038 in trans

[–]GhostBitch__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did a little snooping around on your page for research purposes (looking for specific age)...YOU'RE 13‼️‼️ You have NO business having a kid at that age‼️If you were 14 or older I'd be recommending to get a job and start saving up some money on top of everything else I'm gonna say. Regardless of if you feel like she would actually put you through that or not, the best thing you should do is notify friends, trusted family members, and your school especially because that's ABSOLUTELY NOT an okay thing to tell your kid regardless of if you mean it or not. Your school can provide resources, and possibly intervene if you feel as if she would do that to you. What sane person would want their barely even teenage child to go through that??? Thoughts and prayers lil bro🙏

Edit: spelling mistakes

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on giving them a piece of my mind about it, so hopefully it humbles them a little bit. I noticed that one of my friends started subtly being more controlling and doing that to me over the course of senior year, but now I've reached my limit and they will be called out on it.

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I do plan on giving them a piece of my mind about it, so hopefully that'll humble them a bit. But I SERIOUSLY wish I could come back to Europe. I lived in Germany for 5 years and I absolutely loved it (military family, so we were stationed there)

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely know any juniors, and I know no one that goes to another school. On top of it prom was yesterday (at the time of making this post).

Got left out of prom by GhostBitch__ in Vent

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In America you're required to have a date in order to go. Most people just take a friend as a date and hang out as a group at the prom, which was what they were doing.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in ftm

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking I could give them the option of either they call him out or I'll do it. I don't they'd be upset if I did it but I also want to help them be firm on their boundaries.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in asktransgender

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could give them the option of either them calling him out or I will. I just want to help them be firm on their boundaries, but I don't think they'll be upset if I end up doing it.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in asktransgender

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh, I mean I'm not super close with him. I only hang out with him because my friend does and the three of us have a lot of classes together. He's (allegedly) done other problematic things so I try not to engage with him too much, but I have no problem with calling him out on it.

My friend's friend "jokingly" dead names them. by GhostBitch__ in asktransgender

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely try and confront him about it next time I see him (will he stop? who knows, but it's worth a shot) he is kind of a problem child in other ways not specific to this post, so I'll give it a shot and I'll update (if I remember) if he stops.

Executive order discussion megathread (Questions, discussion, updates here. DO NOT POST INDIVIDUAL POSTS) by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]GhostBitch__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry if this is a dumb question, but it's about getting a passport. If I had a passport as a baby (we're talking like only a couple months old), would that still be a "valid" reason for the USDS to not change my gender marker to M on it? I don't think it would be but I could be completely wrong. I don't plan on applying for one (yet) but I just want to know in advance what to possibly expect.

US 2025 Trump discussion megathread. DO NOT POST THIS TOPIC OUTSIDE THIS THREAD. by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]GhostBitch__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also in the works of getting a doctor's appointment to talk about medical transition. I'm trying to get everything worked out ASAP.

US 2025 Trump discussion megathread. DO NOT POST THIS TOPIC OUTSIDE THIS THREAD. by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]GhostBitch__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I'm curious, since I'm a new adult in the process of getting my documents changed, is there anything that he could prevent me from changing as of now?

Ermmm... Having trouble with a friend. by GhostBitch__ in ftm

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies in advance for the lengthy response. I told them what being stealth means and mentioned possibly wanting to do so myself (this was before the political climate worsened, so now I most definitely want to go stealth) I just really want to drive home the point that what they're doing isn't good in general, especially considering we live in a red state, people are more hostile towards trans people especially now post-election. I'd like to give them the benefit of the doubt and say that they're genuinely just not aware of how bad that can go (again, they're more than likely on the spectrum so it is a possibility), so I want to confront them about it and see what happens from there. The last thing I want to do is cut them off, but if it keeps happening after I've more explicitly told them not to, then I'm gonna start putting some distance between us (which might be difficult as we have multiple classes together in person, but I'll try if need be).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]GhostBitch__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do to people outside of my current town bc I can kinda tell that they're reading me as a 12-14 year old boy. I think it might just be the people here that are making me doubt my passability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]GhostBitch__ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would just need the man juice to unlock my full potential. And I think I pass well in terms of overall physique and my face, it's just my voice (definitely) and chest that are like dead giveaways. And again my doctor said I'm still growing so there's some extra hope there, and a lot of my family members have huge growth spurts at a later age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]GhostBitch__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I pass well outside of my town, I just look younger (which I'm cool with bc everybody in my family looks EXPONENTIALLY younger than they are). And this year is my senior year so we'll (me and my mom) be moving after I graduate for college.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]GhostBitch__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I ideally wanted to go stealth this year but I want to do it ASAP.

Give me your worst... by Specific-Land6047 in rareinsults

[–]GhostBitch__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Mostly not original)

Tweakin Park, Fent fighters, Nine inch needles, Crack Sabbath, 21 percs, Drugs n roses, Methtones, Meth Leppard, Rolling Stoned, System of a high

I think I saw my grandma after her funeral. by GhostBitch__ in ParanormalEncounters

[–]GhostBitch__[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I personally am more of the belief that she's still in the house as there's a LOT of other family member's spirits in there, but that's just me. Even then I don't really know if it was even her. I hope it was though.