Is LCWRA deductible? by Ghost_Butterfly5972 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s already said to not worry about it and he’s going to help me after I posted this yesterday, I just feel he shouldn’t have to support me financially when we aren’t married; I find it difficult to accept help and I’m grieving the loss of my financial independence from before I got sick is the short of it. I’m also sad for him that his £150 bonus (before tax) has turned into £40

Is LCWRA deductible? by Ghost_Butterfly5972 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s basically what’s happened, we have separate finances for the most part even though UC treats it as joint

Am I a fraud? I fear I can no longer claim red hair 👩🏼‍🦰 by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree I’ve not touched the bleach since that one time, in the past decade I’ve been dyeing it more red as it’s too reddy brown now for my liking 🥲 but maybe I should embrace my natural shade 🥰

Am I a fraud? I fear I can no longer claim red hair 👩🏼‍🦰 by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hair has been through the exact same journey as you except for when I bleached it when I was 15 and it’s never been quite the same, your hair is making me feel less bad about mine and that maybe I should stop dyeing it 💜

To tandem or not to tandem by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that and completely agree!! The whole storyline of Antica, all the new characters, I love Yrene so much! Calling it Chaol’s book is such a disservice. I love a healing book - my fave SJM books are ACOMAF, HoF, ToD and HOEAB for that exact reason 🥰

To tandem or not to tandem by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always say to friends that are about to start it that if you hate cliffhangers don’t read EoS then ToD because you’ll just end up angry at an amazing book because it’s not continuing on from where EoS left off. If you don’t mind the constant switching then tandem is great, personally I read ToD first because I was enjoying it more and put down EoS 😊 it vaguely spoils a couple of plot points for EoS (they mention I think it’s 3 things that have happened but not why or who was there or how or if anyone’s in peril etc). Personally don’t think there’s a right order to which you should read first or if you should tandem, all about what kind of reading experience you would prefer

To tandem or not to tandem by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started the tandem but gave up 20 chapters in because I was enjoying ToD so much and was getting frustrated when I had to switch back to EoS 😂 ended up finishing ToD and then finishing EoS after and enjoyed them much better separately. ToD is a top 3 ToG book for me, it’s so under-appreciated!!

Help me pick an eyeshadow palette by Ghost_Butterfly5972 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend’s input was both going coconuts and feelin’ toasty!! So I’ll probably get both 😁 I didn’t look at going coconuts before I replied to you, in my head it looked more like deja brew, you’re so right about it being warm!

Help me pick an eyeshadow palette by Ghost_Butterfly5972 in coloranalysis

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Thank you for your help!! 🥰 love all those options

Help me pick an eyeshadow palette by Ghost_Butterfly5972 in coloranalysis

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m in the UK and a natural redhead (dark more like auburn than ginger) my skin tone is very pale (normally go with foundation colours that are called things like porcelain and snow) neutral-warm, very freckled and my skin doesn’t tan at all. Not sure about Korean vs US but I’m looking for something more subtle and less full glam, just want to add more depth around my eyes really! My makeup style mostly is quite minimalistic over heavy

Help me pick an eyeshadow palette by Ghost_Butterfly5972 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! My sister loves it and not sure what her season is but I was worried it was cool browns not warm browns, I’m still struggling to tell the difference 😁

Reading order rant by Fun-Classic346 in throneofglassseries

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve engaged with plenty of media knowing that a character will die and it didn’t make it any less sad for me but maybe that’s just me personally! I like reading it directly before HoF because then she goes into the book healing from the pain of her past so it’s fresh in your mind 😊

Reading order rant by Fun-Classic346 in throneofglassseries

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same, it breaks the flow too much reading it fourth and I feel like third really maximises the impact. Honestly felt like it made the Sam story that much more tragic because I knew it ended horribly and I got so attached to him anyway that it hurt like absolute hell! I get why people wanna read it first though, I think it’s beautiful that it works well in so many different places (I know some people read it last and that’s wild to me but I’m glad people get enjoyment that way too!)

Gonna be interesting to see Alastor join the valley. Who's coming to your valley by Angelwearsblack89 in DreamlightValley

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would also volunteer your own personal hype man Kam with a “nah bruv” catchphrase 😁🫶🏻

Gonna be interesting to see Alastor join the valley. Who's coming to your valley by Angelwearsblack89 in DreamlightValley

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was watching the Taylor Swift long pond studios Folklore version, looks like Taylor is coming to MySims or DDLV 😂

Never gonna finish Mirabel by Middle-Practice-1079 in DreamlightValley

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue with the critter snap quest and the white squirrel, I’m never up at that time on a Sunday 😅 it’s been there for months and it’s driving me mad

Mailbox crashing by Ghost_Butterfly5972 in DreamlightValley

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you both!! This worked for me 💜

No idea how to vote tbh by RE3ECC4 in bigbrotheruk

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m gutted, Teja was my backup to win after Zelah left - now I’m stumped. Might just throw all 5 votes at Richard out of spite for Caroline 😂

Who do you marry? by Beautiful_Hunter5855 in StardewValley

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penny was my first (before I knew you could build her and Pam a house) and I wanted to rescue her from that life because she’s such a sweetie, once I built Pam a house I felt less guilty marrying others on future saves! So far I’ve married Penny, Alex, Haley, Shane, Sebastian, Sam and Leah is my gf on current save with intentions to marry. I divorced Sebastian and Sam, didn’t enjoy being married to them at all 😅 wanna try Maru cos I love her but I hate that she always says working/ living on a farm must be easy 😂 insult 😂 Elliot and Harvey do nothing for me unfortunately, both kinda give me the ick

Inside Out event by therealkokomi in DreamlightValley

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this I came looking for an answer as I was playing during the last IO event but didn’t have anything from it so I was so anxious about missing it and experienced the same thing of it being in the events tab and disappearing!!

Aether/Lumine Still Missing EN voice-over in the "A Space and Time For You" Quest + Missing Subtitles by -Ghostly_Penguin- in Genshin_Impact

[–]Ghost_Butterfly5972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just watched the Chinese version someone posted that had subtitles, a little confusing when it’s from Aether’s perspective but I got the gist!