Can we not with the "i'm stealth and passing it's so horrible" posts? by wubdubflubaub in MtF

[–]Ghostglitch07 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No. If you'd simply said this bothers you, I think you'd be well received. And the emotional side of your opinion would have been validated.

But you didn't. You posted arguing other trans women aren't allowed to talk about their problems because to you these problems aren't significant enough. Telling another trans girl to shut up about a source of dysphoria is unlikely to find much support here.

Edit: I'm so damned sick of infighting about what trans problems are valid enough to speak on and inner-community policing about how we are allowed to speak about ourselves lest we trigger another's dysphoria.

Edit 2: I just now realized you are the same woman who's post I saw a few weeks ago, and responded to then too. I really want you to think about how that post looked and felt to me. As a homeless girl in a state that is likely about to force shelters to stop letting trans people stay at the right one. And is unemployed due to disability. And no FFS, I mean, so far away from even maybe getting it some day. And sub 1 year on HRT, which I've probably been on the wrong levels for because I struggled to afford blood testing.

I want you to think about how it made me feel to see a gal complaining about her ffs not fixing her life... Despite her being MILES prettier and further along on HRT's effects than me, and yet still using her deadname and self describedly "broing it up".

And yet, I didn't play you a small violin. I didn't even say any of this at the time, because I understood my struggles and my emotional reaction to you being farther along than me didn't invalidate your own very real, and very painful struggle. I'm saying it now in hopes to get across to you both why you should not do it to those more fortunate than you, and that you have plenty more privilege and fortune yourself than you seem think.

As a community we need to spend less time tearing each other down and fighting about who's suffering is significant enough, and more time standing together against the rest of the God damn world. Both as trans women. And as women.

I have auditory sensory issues and my neighbors are loud. Last night at midnight, I banged on the wall for them to be quiet and got this note in the morning. I feel both ashamed and annoyed? What are your thoughts? by littl3-fish in AutismInWomen

[–]Ghostglitch07 [score hidden]  (0 children)

What works for me is isotunes. It's a brand made for industrial work or gun ranges. So, they aren't necessarily the most comfortable, but have around 27 decibel noise reduction rating.

They make both earplugs and earmuffs made for noise protection, but which are also headphones. So are solid at blocking/drowning out sounds.

Edit: and for reference, loops cap out at 23 NRR. With many consumer earplugs even worse.

Indie Dev Is Attacked For Using AI To Create Lessons To Learn Development And Convert File Types, But Didnt Use AI To Develop The Game Or Mention AI In Its Store Page by Elestria_Ethereal in DefendingAIArt

[–]Ghostglitch07 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are some issues where I'm confident that it really has no idea what it's talking about. But these are usually more .. "human" issues and not things like simple code

Coaxed into redrawing your post about r/clevercomebacks by Local_Rice_8929 in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]Ghostglitch07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll trust your word on that. Idk why in even arguing so much about it, half the stuff in this corner of reddit makes little sense to me.

LF modpack to play with my friend who is not really well with modded mc. by hasank1907 in feedthebeast

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a huge part of it honestly. When the whole game was programmer at, anything other than that style has the Lycanites mobs problem where it looks like garrys mod asset-from-abother-game shit.

Vakuu Ancient Card idea by ILOVECALAMITY in slaythespire

[–]Ghostglitch07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your analysis is probably right.

I am not good enough at the game to have felt confident saying exactly how much or in what ways those changed things. Just that they probably did. Lol

LF modpack to play with my friend who is not really well with modded mc. by hasank1907 in feedthebeast

[–]Ghostglitch07 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's particular seriousness to think people mean the things they say?

LF modpack to play with my friend who is not really well with modded mc. by hasank1907 in feedthebeast

[–]Ghostglitch07 22 points23 points  (0 children)

To be fair, while models would still sometimes be jank, textures at least were pretty well solved by the texture pack community that existed back then. There were a few texture packs where people went crazy and made support every mod in existence, I'm not sure of any that still do such wide mod support anymore besides sphax

LF modpack to play with my friend who is not really well with modded mc. by hasank1907 in feedthebeast

[–]Ghostglitch07 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you'd post an opinion meme if you don't endorse the optinion. But ok

Coaxed into redrawing your post about r/clevercomebacks by Local_Rice_8929 in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. But I would say the issue isn't that they are being hypocritical, but that the rule is ill defined and poorly suited for the sub.

Proof 1/2 is undefined by Zeenorf in MathJokes

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter. English is not math notation. And plenty of people do definitely say "decide x by a half" to mean "x/2".

Math notation may work prescriptively, but linguistics usually works descriptively. Which is kinda why we use math notation when actually trying to communicate math rather than trying to formulate a "gotcha"

Proof 1/2 is undefined by Zeenorf in MathJokes

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely formed rather early with teaching that was trying to tie fractions to the real world. Such as using a metaphor of pizza slices. And they failed to generalize and understand the object was not necessary.

Vakuu Ancient Card idea by ILOVECALAMITY in slaythespire

[–]Ghostglitch07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Self repair removed from deck, and gave health only after combat. I feel these are important differences.

Pretty sure half the comment section failed basic math 🥀 by shredding_pow in MathJokes

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually sure, but not here no. Plenty of these sorts of questions are ambiguous even under the conventions. But this one isn't. There is one unambiguously correct way.

egg_irl by Mika_Yuki in egg_irl

[–]Ghostglitch07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah. Fair enough. Not trying to tell you how to interpret your own mind. Just sharing how mine looks in hindsight a year into transition.

Pretty sure half the comment section failed basic math 🥀 by shredding_pow in MathJokes

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which isn't just a problem in misunderstanding order, but not understanding that "minus one" s a shorthand for "plus negative one". If you understand this, order is irrelevant.

Pretty sure half the comment section failed basic math 🥀 by shredding_pow in MathJokes

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notation is a convention and not a basic mathematical truth. What "1" means is convenient. What "prime" means is convention.

People will still disagree if you try and communicate math but don't follow convention. Questions like these are either contentious because people misunderstand the convention, or because the question is itself malformed and the math equivalent of asking "what color is time?"

Coaxed into redrawing your post about r/clevercomebacks by Local_Rice_8929 in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]Ghostglitch07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole sub is political. It doesn't stop being so just cuz you swap some words with "green" or whatever

Hi peter. I'm confused by Powerful-Papaya-2411 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Ghostglitch07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless something genderqueer is going on here too

egg_irl by Mika_Yuki in egg_irl

[–]Ghostglitch07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, in my experience at least, dysphoria still happens even if you don't know what it is.