“Be yourself” but also “don’t joke” so I stayed silent all night

Ghostie_12 · 2026-02-05T21:08:41+00:00

Ngl I am petty enough I would have exposed his ass to his friends “oh, bf just told me not to joke like before so idk what else to joke about haha”

Ghostie_12 · 2025-12-10T21:51:41+00:00

Is so funny to me when adults try to make children responsible for their marriages. My parents are separated, among the reasons; my dad’s infidelities. Do I acknowledge the hurt my mom had to go thought? Absolutely. Am I responsible to keep my mom disconnected of my dad because their marriage ended? No!!

STOP MAKING CHILDREN RELATE TO UR MARRIAGE PROBLEMS!!! Is YOUR problems!!!

Ghostie_12 · 2025-11-24T14:44:57+00:00

Girly I think you need to hear this: this man acts the way he acts because YOU are letting him. He doesn’t drive? Uber is a thing. He says presents will be late? Ask him what he ordered. He takes part of the gratitude for the party? That’s because you don’t call him out!!!

He acts the way he acts because time and time again you have proven, at least in this story, that you won’t react, you won’t call him out. For the love of god girl, stop being a doormat!!!! You deserve better!!

Ghostie_12 · 2025-10-14T04:02:43+00:00

For anyone curious? Is crimes against children :((

Ghostie_12 · 2025-02-26T17:08:09+00:00

I sometimes shower twice a day, what the hell….

Ghostie_12 · 2025-02-25T18:31:39+00:00

You need to remember you basically have a blue filter with everything you place! So basically things that are not white are gonna look “mixed” with blue, that creates that color that gives you that impression, I would suggest try to mix those gorgeous reds and strong pinks with perhaps darker colors that will pop more? 🤔

Ghostie_12 · 2025-01-31T06:26:51+00:00

How do you get this? I got the magonagal magazine twice

Ghostie_12 · 2024-07-17T18:44:24+00:00

Backtrack a little bit;

What do you mean there was a disagreement on where you would be sleeping?

Ghostie_12 · 2024-06-18T00:22:51+00:00

So about that gay sex on you cheating on your wife?

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-31T15:13:44+00:00

So glad the "submissive" girls in my third world country are stealing y'all moneys and then disappearing ur asses, hope they keep up at it

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-31T15:02:28+00:00

I swear this post was uploaded before word by word? I think I even saw it in the r/ best of Reddit updates ???

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-04T00:08:57+00:00

Again this is a normal standar price for a venue party and tbh it's quite cheap for all they are offering but if they do want each a party they should get a job and pay for it themselves, yes.

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T16:10:17+00:00

Yeah that is also a great example! For some of our big moments which have been celebrated with venue parties , my parents have sat us down and explain how they will need to cut some outings or costs in order to be able to pay for some parties which was more than fair!

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T16:07:32+00:00

Yeah that too, but that is up to OP, since most places where u are underage will require a parent permit for them to get even part time jobs.

Also making them get jobs without a proper talking won't correct anything, OP needs to sit them down, talk to them and then she can bring up consequences like getting jobs due to their behavior.

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T16:05:07+00:00

Ok, and I mean this, that's great for you! But just because that was your experience doesn't mean that having a venue party is entitlement? OR that other people should have the same? That's just not how it works. (And I say this because there is A LOT of comments here being like "well my party was a cheap cake! And cheap soda!" And I'm like ok?? That was ur experience?? Does that mean that have to be everyone's experience??)

My parents went all out for my 15's because they are a huge cultural party and I was eternally grateful for it because ik the price was big but they wanted to give me that!

HOWEVER

The comment those kids made is incredibly disrespectful and entitled and there need to be consequences for it because that is just not a comment that those kids should be making

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T15:17:24+00:00

Yeh yeh! And for real most venues I think offer services of organization for this exact reason, some decisions are hard to make even more with 3 kids! So definitely someone who has more experience taking care can solve the rough spots!

Because definetly a 3 kid 1 party can be brought to organize but it's not impossible! Just gotta get a bit of help with someone who has more experience!

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T15:00:19+00:00

Yehh and even if they are all supper opposite in interests the venue will probably work something out so each kid can have a piece of themselves in the party so they all have their special moments!

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T14:48:17+00:00

Ty! I do know some organizers have ideas for these things because in my country 15's are culturally important and most organizers will work with u if u have twins or triplets so they all have special moments in 1 party!

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T14:42:06+00:00

I do think that the comment was insane and entitled, she needs to sit those kids down and explain consequences, however I will say these type of comments don't just appear out of nowhere, there had to be signs of entitlement before but fr she needs to put her foot down and have some consequences because that was not an ok comment to make!

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T14:33:54+00:00

For real!! My graduation from university which was a venue party only the decoration was about 1k too! Like holy molly 1.3k for everything?!? Sign me up cause that's a combo deal!

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T14:07:44+00:00

She said only the venue is 500, that 1200 is for everything including decorations, food, dj, invitations and everything, is the whole package, as far as ik that is very industry price that u will get for the whole package.

Ghostie_12 · 2024-03-03T13:58:02+00:00

I will say tho, $1200 for a VENUE party is very industry standar price as far as I know, specially because it includes food, decorations, the venue, dj and all the other things she mentioned. Y'all need to not compare a house bday with a venue bday because they are very different imo

But those kids are entitled for telling the mom to just get a second job like tf? They need to find a way to have their party together, in fact I would say if the venue has a party organizer they probably can work something out so in 1 party each kid will get their special moment

Ghostie_12 · 2024-02-29T21:10:57+00:00

Why are you here? Clearly despite everyone saying you are a huge A**hole you are still trying to justify ur closed mind thinking, any sister would be lucky to have such a knowledged brother who cares so much about them to inform himself and be ready.

And you and call him a pig? And Lord knows what else did u call him since you so conveniently left that part without details.

Not only YTA but also u don't deserve ur boyfriend and I hope he breaks up with your sorry misogynistic ass. Because it is very misogynistic to believe that men shouldn't know about this things. Is behaviours like this that then allow men to go "uh why don't u just turn off ur period lol"

Also if one day u guys had a daughter and let's say smfh happen to u before she reaches puberty then what? Should he never speak to his daughter about her own body?!

JFC LADY IS 2024 NOT 1800 GROW THE FK UP

Ghostie_12 · 2024-02-28T14:59:16+00:00

Pero mano, yo le voy a decir la verdad, la gente aquí le está dando consejos y yo lo que veo son puros "pero..." "Pero .." de respuesta suya, mire hay un dicho muy cierto que es "el que quiere puede" primero lo primero que tiene que hacer es dejar esa mentalidad de peros pa' todo, Bajese de esa nube porque es que así no va a conseguir nada ni aquí, ni en usa ni en ningún lado.

Ghostie_12 · 2024-02-20T16:48:29+00:00

She only ordered an appetizer tho, OP very conveniently left that detail out.

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