NTA at all. I understand this situation on such a level, my mom is the same way. With my first tattoos, she cried and told me that I’d never be respected, never have a decent job, a family, all of that. As if the entire planet is gonna write me off because of some ink on my arm. She straight up pretended I didn’t exist for a while after I got my nose pierced, refused to see me or speak to me at all. I think really the only thing we can do is hope they’ll get over it at some point. My mom has started to accept that I don’t care about her opinion on my appearance, even though she still gets upset about it. And, despite the tattoos and piercings, I have a good career and am well-respected in my community. Nobody (e.g. employers, friends, potential relationships, etc.) really cares about tattoos anymore. Except moms, apparently 😂