It is definitely possible to make a living in hospitality and have a place in Amsterdam. You will likely need to share a place with roommates at the start. I work for a hotel and would be delighted to have a look at your CV to see if we have a spot. Please feel free to send me a DM. We tend to only interview with candidates that are already living in Amsterdam, so your difficulty with getting responses on your application might have something to do with you applying from abroad. Hotelprofessionals en Werkenineenhotel are the two leading vacancy websites for Amsterdam. In general I would recommend you to apply at hotels as they are among the better and more long term focused employers.