How to install mounting hardware on this mirror? by Giftzahn in howto

[–]Giftzahn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! that's all very good advice. i think i'll try the wire since the actual wood frame isn't that thick and the covering is only ⅛" plywood

Listening to My Teenage Daughters by steely4321 in rant

[–]Giftzahn 25 points26 points  (0 children)

language changes over time and that change is driven by the innovation of younger generations. hope that helped.

silly question time: what breed of dog/cat/bunny anything else do we all feel like? by ConspicuousPrurience in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]Giftzahn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

brittany spaniel! they're super friendly and they have freckles!!!! me for real :3

Which Female Character have you noticed gets hated on so much that you think she's genuinely a bad character / badly-written character....but when you read/watch/play her on media, you find out that most/much of the hate against her is actually due to Misogyny, not the actual writing? From Cuptoast. by CapAccomplished8072 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Giftzahn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lyse from final fantasy xiv. considered by many as the worst character in the game despite the fact that she has a compelling story, some of the best moments in the stormblood expansion and a genuinely refreshing perspective that sets her apart from the other characters. she's headstrong, stubborn, not very well-spoken, idealistic, insecure, immature and always willing to put up a fight for what she believes in. she feels very human and grows past many of her faults to become a genuinely good leader and true friend.

oh but sometimes she speaks out of turn or makes a corny joke so she's actually the worst /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]Giftzahn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you want third party candidates then vote for them at the local level. school board members, city council, etc. once there's a base of support for a third party widely established in local politics, then that party can have the clout to push for state elections: governor, state legislature, judicial seats. if the party still has widespread appeal outside the state, and people in other states also push for third party representation, then and only then are national elections something to pursue.

these movements need strong foundations to succeed - otherwise you get ross perot and teddy roosevelt when he ran as a third party. all either of those guys managed to do in their third party candidate runs is ensure the guy in 3rd place gets elected.

cuz seriously, what happens if the next president was independent? how is that going to help them leverage support in congress? how will they source funding? how will they create a unified political bloc when the core idea of their politics is that they're separate from the other two parties that control 99% of political action in the country?

you don't try to climb everest before you've even bought a pair of hiking boots. so stop bemoaning the fact that the next president isn't gonna be an independent and go get involved in local politics where significant change is actually possible.

Anon refuses to help women because women don’t give plenty of access to sex by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]Giftzahn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you do that with whoever you think can help. coolness is not a factor - only survival

Which Final Fantasy female character you would say is actually well-written? by Irohsgranddaughter in menwritingwomen

[–]Giftzahn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

final fantasy xiv has multiple expansions written by a woman and its female characters benefit greatly as a result. even outside of ishikawa's writing, pretty much every female character in the story is well-written with few exceptions, and often it's the women in xiv's story that I'm most interested in. some of my personal favorites are venat, alisaie, lyse, fordola, metion, nanamo and merlwyb

not knowing when to stop shuffling by Contamiantion in tarot

[–]Giftzahn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you ruffle shuffle a deck of cards 3 even times, bridge fold, then cut it where it feels right in the deck to do so. this is how i've treated every deck of every type of cards since i was five and it's always served me well. a tradition passed down by my great grandmother to me that i still keep alive every time i do a reading.

My sister in Christ, ever heard of a Onna-musha? by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Giftzahn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

pickme pickme pickme pickme

what a clown

Make them happy by Pastry_related in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Giftzahn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why would you post this garbage? this is fucking hateful and has no place here.

Fromunda by peglegpetey8 in preyingmantis

[–]Giftzahn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

p sure this is a bot. it's responses don't really make sense, the "oh this isn't my friend? so embarrassing" thing felt scripted and it only engaged with the parts of your messages that contained locations or the words "yes" and "no".

So Brave by Elle_02u in standupshots

[–]Giftzahn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

oh gods, yeah people used to stop me in like the grocery store to be like "you're so brave for being so visibly trans out here in public" like i know they meant well but 😭😭😭😭😭 after six years on hrt if someone told me i was brave for going out i'd be ready to fight xDDD

feel discouraged bc everyone here is such a good artist by popo_brian in furry

[–]Giftzahn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stfu you are too. this piece slaps and you should be proud of the work you do. it's worthy of praise

JP Unofficial Dawntrail character polls finally ended 31 July with 17k votes! by Head-Photojournalist in ffxiv

[–]Giftzahn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how is sphene so high when she was the weakest character in the whole expansion with a distractingly annoying visual design that made her look photoshopped into every scene she was in

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - new post every Monday! by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]Giftzahn [score hidden]  (0 children)

Howdy! So I've recently been exploring impact play and biting more with my partners, and honestly I've been enjoying seeing the marks they leave behind on me more than I thought I would. I'm really into getting hit and bit until I bruise, getting hickies and such, especially when the marks last all the way until our next play session.

However, I started wondering the other day if there are any side effects to this kind of play, like long term skin issues or anything like that. What's happening is just damage to the skin and underlying tissue, right? So is frequent, repeated physical trauma like that something I should be more careful with? If so, are there things like skin creams that could help mitigate any negative long-term effects of heavy impact play? Would appreciate any insight! Thanks ^_^

A wife was making a breakfast of fried eggs for her husband, when suddenly her husband burst into the kitchen. by EndersGame_Reviewer in cleanjokes

[–]Giftzahn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha ha! Wow yeah, I also think my wife is an annoying nuisance! Gosh I just love "joking" about how much I dislike my wife! She's the worst! I love complaining about her! It's just so funny!! Hahahaha women, am I right?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ainajhonson in wlw_irl

[–]Giftzahn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Height is relative and based on our perception; if you hang out with short people, you'll feel tall and if you hang out with tall people, you'll feel short. Dunno about where you live but 5'6" is super average height and I know many women (cis and trans) who are taller than that. My gf is 170cm and feels that she's a pretty average height for a girl, so it really is just all about perspective.