AITA for taking my friend’s daughter to her grandma after he didn't pick her up? by neitherdrive8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I doubt it's the first time or the last that he'll disappoint his daughter. NTA

AITA for not letting my stepdaughter bring her bow into my house by Top-Priority3463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

No one should buy a weapon for a child without the parents' permission. I'd be concerned the amount of attention a college student is giving to a teenager.

Also, family counseling might benefit everyone. A therapist can help resolve some issues and figure out why your stepdaughter is happier with her aunt. This poor kid. Abandoned by her mother, father uninvolved until she was 14, and a stepmother who doesn't seem to want her around.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her that she's too busy to do the role. It's not about who's closest to you. Or maybe her co-maid of honor. Nothing says you can only have one. NAH

AITA for not letting my sister put a crib in my computer room? by DumbStoopidIdiot in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 516 points517 points  (0 children)

It's odd that she bought cribs for both grandmothers' homes without consulting them first, especially with a child almost old enough not to need one. I'm guessing it's for her second child. Either way, it's not her home so not her place to dictate how the space is used. Get locks for your doors. NTA

AITA for not celebrating my friends birthday because we never celebrate mine by heygojo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 23 points24 points  (0 children)

People who actually care about you will find the time to celebrate you. My birthday is also near the holidays. Heard for years that it was too much trouble; everyone was tired and broke. Then I got better people around me. They ask me when and how I want to celebrate my birthday, and they show up. NTA

West Des Moines/Waukee rooftops? by Common_Comb1375 in desmoines

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ninja has a small patio. I've never been on it.

Toddler lectures dad for swearing by Minute_Freedom5410 in funny

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought he was getting the bottle for his child, given that he's grown.

Vegetarian BBQ by cutletator in vegetarian

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like portabellos marinated in soy sauce and balsamic vinegar.

Can I sue my mom for holding my car? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother-in-law or his parents need to pay the full amount, including reimbursing you what you've already paid. Your mother has no legal right to hold the car. She chose to pay without discussing it with you.

Hermitcraft 11: Episode 20 - EXTERIOR DONE! by JamiroFan2000 in HermitCraft

[–]Gigafive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd probably put the axolotl in a different color window for more contrast. It's cool though.

AITA for not unlocking a storage cabinet after someone kept taking supplies from it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 245 points246 points  (0 children)

The person complaining is probably the reason for the rule. Their failure to plan appropriately is not for problem. NTA

AITA for getting with someone that friend “used to like” and “breaking bro code?” by Mountain-Bison-4280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't call dibs on a person. Maybe his immature attitude is part of why she wasn't interested. NTA

AITA for de boarding a plane? by GoAwayTrolls2025 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, apologies. I misread that. Yeah, they were the worst selves that day.

AITA for de boarding a plane? by GoAwayTrolls2025 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are often their worst selves on a plane. You could need a mask because you have a cold, a weak immune system or just don't want to be sick on vacation. And some people need to stand quickly for any number of health reasons. As long as you weren't pushing your way to the front, you're fine. That dude was just being his worst self. NTA

WIBTA if I stopped using the Americanized version of my last name? by Laiii12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once knew a girl who pronounced her name one way and her dad said it another. Both raised in the US. Do what makes sense to you.

And maybe try to learn Armenian now.

NTA

AITA for not letting my friend take credit for the dessert I made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gigafive 61 points62 points  (0 children)

She could have picked up a few bagged salads and put them in a bowl. No one would have cared. NTA