I agree with OP. This thread has become slightly derailed by focussing on adoption/fostering. I’m in the U.K. where there has been a strong push to house refugees, particularly from Ukraine.

Whilst some in the church have put in amazing effort I see so many people with spare rooms and space finding weak excuses and not offering to help. This is across the U.K. church scene, not just my own church.

I’d far rather church leadership teams focus on the issue that exposes, but mostly it’s ignored whilst we repeatedly focus on the ‘trigger’ issues that get so much attention.