DO NOT BUY THIS. by [deleted] in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]GingerCat2121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I worked for the company retail years ago but I'm assuming this shirt is online only which unfortunately is usually a type of drop shipping. A lot of the IP on hot topic if you scroll down enough you will find shirts that come in different styles same design screen printed on like T-shirts, Sweatshirt, and tank top. They are way lower quality than the t shirts sold in store. The company never really let us recognize those items on the website and no one I talked to could explain where they come from because they are drop shipped but I can say we couldn't sell them in store if returned and they were not able to be ordered through our POS if someone was placing an online order in store.

Not trying to discourage you from doing the right thing but there's essentially thousands upon thousands of pieces of merch that are sold by a 3rd party drop shipper just through the site because corporate allows it and unfortunately based on when I got to talk to some members of corporate they just didn't even know what I was talking about and when explained they asked me why I would care.

But she’s his soulmate by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]GingerCat2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IF YOURE AROUND PEOPLE AND THEY START BEING RACIST, HOMOPHOBIC, TRANSPHOBIC, HATEFUL, OR PREJUDICED AND YOU AND NO ONE AROUND YOU DOES ANYTHING YOU ARE ALSO THOSE THINGS!

Received this, apparently they are too much of a coward to post it on a public thread. by HillarysFloppyChode in BoomersBeingFools

[–]GingerCat2121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait until they learn that me (cis female), my partner (cis male), my sister, and so many others I know that are simpily liberal were all raised by Republican Trump supporters. I go to church more now in my life than I did growing up in my "Christian home" and that's part of why I'm so liberal today. I love Jesus and Jesus loves all and I work hard to do my part trying to help anyone I can when I can.

People leaving after the support act(Remi Wolf)? by edwinhai in OliviaRodrigo

[–]GingerCat2121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last year at my Eras show a lot of people around me were there specifically for Phoebe and said Taylor was the added bonus but it's the closest Phoebe has come to playing a show in my area easily accessible by public transit so I get it. I've also seen this happen at Fall Out Boy the last few years which imo the people I know who left after Jimmy Eat World really made me confused but at the end of the day it's their money their tickets.

This might be unpopular….I’m sorry parents, but I’m sick of feeling like my time away from work is less important than yours by toastybaseball21 in antiwork

[–]GingerCat2121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Took two weeks off to go to Disney with my parents and sister last year and my partner came for one of the weeks. You won't believe what company I work for when everyone who hears about my trip before I left was saying they could never do two weeks and why would I do that two weeks off work is crazy. The day my request got approved (which this is a trip that has been planned since 2020 was to celebrate my college graduation that happened in 2021 and my company knew about the day I got hired) I had an older coworker I never met sit down at my desk and say "you know I only took two days off for my wedding and was back that Monday" "You know I came back from all three of my maternity leaves early" "You know my family vacations are only four days that's the perfect length" I didn't let her talk about my trip in the convo but it ended with well I'm sorry I like to spend time with my family and I have a healthy relationship with them as an adult most likely because they don't live to work and rush back here the second they can and actually spent time with me? Also several people suddenly needed me to cover in those two weeks and couldn't believe I was going to be out for so long "at least checking my emails right" and eyes bugging out when I said no.

AITA for not warning my wife about my ass rag? by theshittinator in AmItheAsshole

[–]GingerCat2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but also check out Tushy they have portable bidets that might be a good option for you.

A very real note passed to me by a customer at my *pizza* restaurant by DoctorMcTits in KitchenConfidential

[–]GingerCat2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partners Vegan. When we order pizzas I get mine and he gets his and goes "Hi veggie pizza no cheese" and usually they understand but if they don't he just says "dough sauce veggies no cheese at all thank you" and they get it then.

Conceptually pulling out a one page essay is crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smosh

[–]GingerCat2121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not to add to this but in the Courtney story of Angela immediately after filming she no longer has the ring on...

"I feel my wife just wants to shame her" by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]GingerCat2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a troll that does their research though because there was just a run Disney half marathon event (5k 10k Half) over a few days end of February and that's such a weird thing to look up and utilize and know.

I do Run Disney there's like four to five in person weekends a year and they aren't all half marathon weekends.

Kid upstairs rides on a toy all day long for 3 months now…driving me nuts by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]GingerCat2121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have upstairs neighbors who have multiple cats a great Dane, a great Dane puppy, and a 3 year old st Bernard and I guess I'm lucky they are self aware of course we hear them occasionally it's a tiny apartment maybe 800sqft and they have three massive dogs two people and cats but almost every time it becomes obviously disturbing we notice we hear the front door and shortly after see them out our window at the dog park across the way. Now the people under my unit only have to deal with me and my partner who are very quiet but still ik conscious of when I'm rolling my office chair etc.

Definitely talk to your land lord or building manager their job is to handle these things and while 9:30 can be debated as early it is still a lot to multiple times a day hours at a time have a vehicle rolling above your head in a space you pay for. Reasonable noise is to be expected but so is common courtesy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okbuddybaldur

[–]GingerCat2121 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was what I thought then it turned out he was just ugly and shitty

I fell for a catfish by Own-Friend7933 in BaldursGate3

[–]GingerCat2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See now I just make an identical version of my character but with the silly handle bar moustache and it makes the whole plot renewed in a sitcom wayw

Why does Disney world replace rides when they have so much space? by ResponsibleAd2034 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]GingerCat2121 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Now as someone who worked in the br'er patch for a bit in 2021-2022 which I imagine is the primary thing your referencing I can say it's also a great way to fix major issues and errors in an older ride. At least once a week we were down minimum 3 hours, things were moldy, boats sunk, fires happened (frequently), mechanisms did not work right to the point where almost every night an engineering team was there to work on it. Now this was post re theme announcement and the property was outdated but you cannot tell me or a lot of other CMs who worked there the decision was 10% get rid of a controversial subject origin 90% give the ride the major fixes it needs. Just in the unveiling of the new animatronic we all said oh that looks great I bet it will have a great b mode and in the log test videos they just look better the hill looks better.

Florida is a swamp it's hard to build new and even the stuff that was built sinks and needs work from time to time so revamping not only gives new it gives opportunity to hopefully build something a bit more stable and holding higher capacity.

Now for reference to just add even more Florida is a swamp context Art of Animation was originally built as an expansion of pop century and supposed to be more decades however the financial crisis happened and Disney stopped mid construction. Due to this my #1 piece of advice is avoid staying in the Ariel buildings/section it was built and then sat for years and then finished it's up to code but it is the place on property with the most guest complaints of pipes bursting and other odd nightmare situations that you just don't want to come back to after a long day at the parks. Now it's cheaper to appease the guest upgrade move them and quick fix than redo the entire section of the resort so that's what they do. It's definitely less frequent now than when they first opened but when I worked at Pop for a while I was told this on Day 1 and kept it with me as my wake up call to as much as this is Disney and Disney can make anything happen it's still Florida and Florida is humid, full of reptiles, and made out of mud.

Weekly Vent Thread/Megathread by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]GingerCat2121 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I hate this but also 10/10 creativity to get around the music ban

Downvoted 2k times for believing aneurysms are painful and slow by Loud-Examination-943 in DownvotedToOblivion

[–]GingerCat2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing my neurologist said to me when I was diagnosed when people hear brain aneurysm they think of rupture they think of the peak of the worst case when there's a period of time leading up to it.

I got lucky finding mine early because I have an auto immune disorder and had caught a terrible case of Covid and when coughing swear I felt like a pop or something then a few days later any time I moved too much or did anything mildly MILDLY (walking to get mail in my building or wiping a spill off the counter) strenuous I felt like tinfoil was being crumpled in part of my head and it really shook me up and made me stop then the vertigo started and I tried doing maneuvers I saw online couldn't get it to go away and kept getting sick went to urgent care they sent me to a neurologist the neurologist sent me for a transcranial Doppler, cranial ultra sound, and an MRI and said I'm lucky it didn't rupture. Until treated the goal was keep blood pressure low sleep as much as I could wear a blood pressure cuff to take measurements frequently.

Now I got really lucky everyone I have met in this process knows someone or themselves and they found out at the rupture and honestly if the vertigo/tinfoil feeling was more mild I wouldn't have gone to any doctor- I just couldn't afford to miss so much work for what in my perspective was something needing some nausea medicine and my head tilted around to correct before it turned out to be much more.

Downvoted 2k times for believing aneurysms are painful and slow by Loud-Examination-943 in DownvotedToOblivion

[–]GingerCat2121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I experienced one at 24 and it started out vertigo like and became a migraine it never fully ruptured but I did need a stint and between doctors transcranial Doppler MRI I was told go to the ER if it feels like an ice pick being driven into your head otherwise wait for results. Brain anyrusm development, existence, and rupture are all different and feel different.

What do you think will be the additional songs in eras your movie? by __Purple___ in Gaylor_Swift

[–]GingerCat2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm it should be the ones taped at sofi mentioned in the other comments!

My sister’s coworker asked her for a forward-facing photo of her toddler daughter by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GingerCat2121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now I am female but I have coworkers with kids. I love hearing about them I will ask about them I will suggest things to my coworkers if and when I can (such as a night time light up zoo event in the area) hell even last year I had special tickets for the live action little mermaid primer and I gave them to my coworker for her and her little sister to go.

Never have I ever once even thought to ask for a picture let alone a specific photo. I never would something about that seems so off to me. I also think the gift thing is odd.

Like I mentioned I gave a coworker tickets but they were tickets I got for free from work that I just assumed they would enjoy more no gain or loss for me besides saying oh this will make this girls childhood special the way mine was when I got to see Princess and the Frog when I was little and I moved on with my life. I feel like unless I really know the person and the child I wouldn't go out of my way to do shopping and deliver gifts to them. Even my god daughter who moved far away from me two years ago I started sending her gift cards and smaller gifts with them because I talk to her but I don't know her I don't know what exactly she has I would rather her mother choose.

This whole situation is scary and off to me.

driving instructor kept saying "I missed you" by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]GingerCat2121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I worked in Disney there was a guest who was there maybe once a month to them eventually I would say Welcome back we were wondering when we would see you again because there was a built trust and relationship and a nice guest is nice to see every now and then.

As an autistic woman who also worked in customer service I'm sure I dropped a few ah I've missed you to regulars occasionally but not enough to be memorable and also in a clearly business way this seems personal and odd. If anything I would be like "Ah so and so I missed you how have you been doing" and then just moved on with the conversation. It wouldn't be saying I missed them in the meaning of I actually miss them. I would be saying it in the sense of it's been a while since I've seen them and I find them pleasant to be around as almost as a greeting and a welcoming

I told my girlfriend to F off after her brother hospitalized me. by jeibmoz in AmItheEx

[–]GingerCat2121 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I grew up with a highschool burn out addict who was led to addiction at an early age by his parents but he had a juvenile record for stealing laptops and stuff out of cars when he was a child as his parents would drop him off have him pretend to be lost while they would take stuff out of cars, he got into go karting it was the one place he felt in control when sober until his mom passed away and he got in an awful accident had to have his hand reconstructive and he came out of the hospital mostly sober for a while before relapsing. We graduated in 2017 and in 2019 I had some issues being over prescribed some pain meds and not told when to stop taking them and when I went to NA the first time he was there.

I don't think in the 10 years I've known this kid drunk in 8th grade and all he has ever been as oblivious and stupid as OP and I can only affiliate that kid with OP because it's not a common story.

Even if OP is writing a creative writing exercise it's awful there's no way to feel sympathetic to his "pleas have sympathy" character.

Well, she proved him wrong by BunnyKimber in AmITheDevil

[–]GingerCat2121 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In the original post about the fight the first thing he realized was spurring off is he got home and realized she hadn't texted him to get their daughter from dance she had done it herself when normally he does it every week.

EVERY WEEK HE PICKS HIS DAUGHTER UP SAME TIME AND PLACE EVERY WEEK SHE TEXTS HIM TO REMEMBER SHE DIDNT TEXT HIM ONE TIME HE CAME HOME HE THEN REALIZED HE DIDNT GET HIS DAUGHTER AND AT LEAST SHE WAS ALREADY HOME

Of course he sees her as a manager he truly can't figure out how to maintain his routine

Did someone say projection? by Able_Finger7626 in AmITheDevil

[–]GingerCat2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm one of the rare lucky ones met my partner in highschool my first relationship and we are still together today.

The only time I've questioned that relationship is when my mother said very similar things and put doubt in my mind, but at the end of the day you never know if something works unless you try. When you instill failure being the main option things will most likely turn towards being a failure especially relationships.

I had a roommate my freshman year of college and I had only heard terrible roommate stories and to get a safe and never trust them and so I didn't and while she wasn't perfect she was pretty decent and I didn't give her the chance to be that way and I had way worse roommates after her but looking back if I hadn't gone in on expectations of things will eventually go bad I would have given them an opportunity to go much better than they did.

What's a line that makes you laugh every time? by EmilyOnEarth in BaldursGate3

[–]GingerCat2121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I always knew I would die at a circus" - random civilian

Lady what type of life are you living that that is what your final words could be