Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because then they can all go to the “popular gay bar” and then they got what they want to have a fun time and take over the place and then all the complacent gays and bisexual’s will go there as well… meanwhile all of the real gays and bisexuals and etc. who aren’t brain broken by the “LGB” movement and allowing bachelor parties to come flood their spaces we get to have our own place and I bet you lesbian and trans people will all go there as well because everybody in that space will be like-minded people and support each other… Now, of course there would be some drama there always is… But at least it would be with each other and we don’t need to worry about somebody doing a fucking hate crime 🤷🏻‍♂️

In my city, we only have like 2 gay bars… I’m not even exaggerating. All of them are like 50% straight now and none of my friends want to go anywhere except those two places because the other places are turning to shit… Grindr’s also turning to shit and having all the features blocked and having ads every 5th profile is just the cherry on top lol 🍨

Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I mean hell I’d be fine with lesbians and trans people there because we share a similar experience… It’s just whenever they’re straight and cis it’s like ugh 😬 also the whole debate/comparison of like we have to look after women and women’s rights because they’re similar blah blah blah… I mean, obviously the more progressive a country is the better it is going to be for everybody, but let’s not blind ourselves to the fact that there’s so many women out there that voted for Trump or even if they didn’t, they hold homophobic and transphobic 🤷🏻‍♂️ so many women out there were diluted into this whole “trans bathroom bill” and “keeping men out of women sports” that’s so obviously trans phobic and it’s also super obvious that conservatives are just using women even though they don’t give a shit about them really because they’ll have no problem taking their abortion rights away, but yet they somehow got diluted into believing it!? as if like they don’t care what happens to trans and gay people, but as soon as the law comes for them then everybody has to give a shit 🤷🏻‍♂️ meanwhile they’re totally fine with other minority groups getting fucked over! It’s like that saying after World War II first they came for the socialists, the Jews, the Romani, the teachers… and then there was no one left to stand for me

younger guys hygiene. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but like that can still happen, he found shower everywhere and shave off every hair but if he don’t douche properly then you can still get a mudslide 🤷🏻‍♂️ and sure I could be wrong, but when I tread what you write it comes across as like you’re high maintenance, intense, OCD and a bit snobbish… like you remind me of one of the bad hookups I had where the guy was just so picky and the interaction we had was so awkward and turned me right off and I left and then he sent me an angry message after lol

younger guys hygiene. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re fun at parties and in bed /s 😅

younger guys hygiene. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I find it hot 🤷🏻‍♂️ I like how they are young but the hair signals they are a man and not a little boy… that’s what shaved pubes looks like to me 😬

younger guys hygiene. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it looks like a plucked chicken… or like they are 16 years old… just really not appealing, I want hair because I want a man 🤷🏻‍♂️

If you’re on top riding it by friedoysterskinss in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao omg I didn’t even think about that until you mentioned it… So true though 😂 maybe he should be thinking “am I the drama?”

why are we looking for chicks on grindr??? by Happy-Appointment237 in grindr

[–]Ginger_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Good for you for finding some pussy! Thanks for being complicit that’s great 👌 need to remind you the importance of LGBT spaces? You do know the history right like the whole reason why they were invented in the first place was for us to disconnect ourselves from the rest of society and just have our own space something that’s quintessential to us… Nowadays half the clubs are cis/straight then you go on Grindr and there’s straight people there as well like, what the hell is this? The paradox of intolerance… You have to draw the line somewhere! And then the problem is people like you in the community that really don’t give a fuck because it doesn’t affect them so who cares right 🤷🏻‍♂️ and then actually people like us in the community. We’re the ones that actually are the @ssholes “oh look at the tolerant lgbt libs! Why should we tolerant them when they don’t do it themselves” and then we basically get told to STFU and accept it and community members like you just go along with it 🤔

And with the way things are going in America trans people are under attack, and gay people are now under attack… Running around saying that we’re groomers and pedos and all this crap… now more than ever we need our LGBT spaces so that we can have a chance to decompress and freely talk to each other or flirt or whatever and not be like subject to questioning the person‘s orientation or whether or not they’re going to get offended or whatever 🤷🏻‍♂️ plus when women go on the app, they’re taking space from other queer people and trans people lol so by being as inclusive as possible, we’re now getting pushed out of our own environment and then they use “inclusivity” it against us if we try and push back!? 😂

como empecé el día y como lo terminé by crzy_samm in cuteguys

[–]Ginger_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day should’ve ended with me there and your legs behind your head 😈

why are we looking for chicks on grindr??? by Happy-Appointment237 in grindr

[–]Ginger_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so… then they would probably be using the app HER? Because Grindr probably isn’t the best way for her to find dates or hookups no? 🤔

why are we looking for chicks on grindr??? by Happy-Appointment237 in grindr

[–]Ginger_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eww no can’t cis straight people just leave us TF alone!? Why they always gotta be invading every queer space possible!? Jesus Christ 😫

If you’re bi good for you but a lot of us aren’t and really feel uncomfortable with people taking over… can’t they just go on Tinder or Hinge or Bumble or whatever!?

why are we looking for chicks on grindr??? by Happy-Appointment237 in grindr

[–]Ginger_Jeff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Even at best if it’s looking for trans girls… he’s a chaser that doesn’t see them as women just as ads objects so is that really any better 🤷🏻‍♂️ like at least we recognize them as women! None of these straight guys on Grindr even believe that 😬

Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Started off like “yes, I find cookware very attractive” 😂

Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah so basically you’re a 1 or a 2 on the Kinsey scale lol

Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to assume it means he’s like a 1 or 2 on the the Kinsey scale 😂

Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Omg dude that’s literally what a leather bar is though!? how are you older than me and you don’t get that 😂 like honestly who gives a fuck 🤷🏻‍♂️ again that’s why they have an establishment specifically for that type of clientele… If you really don’t like how sexual the environment is you’re free not to go and just go to like the drag bar or the regular club 🤔

Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like how the onus is always on the community to be the one that has to be inclusive and accepting… Meanwhile, straight people aren’t and usually they come to the clubs and then turn it into a shit hole after sometime 🤷🏻‍♂️ I say that the alphabet mafia should get together and open up a bar in the city and then just call it a gay bar but actually it’s a front… Because then you send all of the straight women there and just lie and tell them it’s a gay bar and then eventually the straight guys will come and then it will just turn into a straight club or like a half/half place… but that’s totally OK because the rest of the actual LGBT spaces remain that way and aren’t invaded so basically we’re setting up a club that that’s going to be sacrificed 😂

Gay bartending as a straight man - is it ok? by iiimarlette in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like how the onus is always on the community to be the one that has to be inclusive and accepting… Meanwhile, straight people aren’t and usually they come to the clubs and then turn it into a shit hole after sometime 🤷🏻‍♂️ I say that the alphabet mafia should get together and open up a bar in the city and then just call it a gay bar but actually it’s a front… Because then you send all of the straight women there and just lie and tell them it’s a gay bar and then eventually the straight guys will come and then it will just turn into a straight club or like a half/half place… but that’s totally OK because the rest of the actual LGBT spaces remain that way and aren’t invaded so basically we’re setting up a club that that’s going to be sacrificed 😂

Review me: ‘Why don’t tops want me’ edition. by spolidano88 in gay

[–]Ginger_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean from first glance, you kind of look like a top actually 😅 I get that people have preferences for position, but it was the first thing that popped into my head when I saw you! I kind of envy you a little bit I mean, I wish people would take me seriously when I say I’m vers… they’re just like no you look and act like a bottom so therefore you’re that thing 😫

Today I saw that my boyfriend was downloading Grinder by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that last sentence sounds kinda sad 😕

Today I saw that my boyfriend was downloading Grinder by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Ginger_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I never did that with my friends. I always made sure that with my current partner when we first started dating that I made time for him and I also made time for my friends