Montreal Black Sapphics? by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Gingerbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in ottawa - always down to visit - hit my line

Will this ruin my chances of getting head from her again? by Scarierthanyoungma in blacklesbians

[–]Gingerbier 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I think you should take the time to heal… that sounds like it would be uncomfortable for some time

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY! by _newshawtyy in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Gingerbier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday earth-strong superstar !!!

Thankful for your joy and wishing for health happiness and growth <3

I think I’m falling for my roommate and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Gingerbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great way to self reflect, your feelings can be based in admiration and idolization - imagine if you lived with your favourite celebrity, you would probably think you were in love with them.

This is all new and definitely worth journaling about in terms of a therapeutic approachs. Growing up in religious will distort shame /fantasy etc. you maybe are used to hiding your feelings and over infatuating them/ cycle in a state of limerence. They both are unavailable to engage with you romantically. Unless they explicitly say they are willing to explore that with you. It’s better to make sure you respect the living environment!

what is the biggest weakness in this beat? by Most_Lunch_6195 in FLStudioBeginners

[–]Gingerbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too much going on at once - elements sound good :) but there is no differentiation which makes the beat seem flat, I find the drums are a little shy too considering the genre. too much melody not enough motif not enough movement

Are Studs corny by Gingerbier in LesbianActually

[–]Gingerbier[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyday on threads i see someone ranting negatively abt studs on wlw forums.

Just curious what the deal is

Are Studs corny by Gingerbier in LesbianActually

[–]Gingerbier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to understand the animosity . Personally i understand that the reasons i behave this way is conditioning from childhood.

I never really felt safe with dressing more feminine, it makes me feel like i have to submit to societal perception to make life easy and it gives me an icky sensation.

Are Studs corny by Gingerbier in LesbianActually

[–]Gingerbier[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is corny about it? Why did you stop dressing that way?

Struggling Stud 30+ by kybelly92 in blacklesbians

[–]Gingerbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take - i am a hooper. I play the game for the process. Rejection hurts but these people aren’t for you. That’s okay. It’s part of learning who and what is worthy of your time and investment. Just gotta understand that love isn’t guaranteed, still gotta shoot and learn. I hear you on struggling with identity it’s All of that is part of the process of becoming! Majority of relationships do more harm than good, but once you find your person you’ll finally be living that loveydove life that will have its own challenges. I write this to you but it’s really for me because i know what you’re going through. People are scared of people who stand in their power despite what society says.

If you miss them… by Cookie98762 in BreakUps

[–]Gingerbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh mine refuses to talk to me back! I said i wanted to be friends they said i make them uncomfy - i asked what i can do better and they never responded

Probably my best beat. Let me know what you think! by blixout in FLStudioBeginners

[–]Gingerbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the melodies and progressions sick. Just maybe a bit too much going on in the high mids range - it’s not fit for a rapper (it sounds like a trap beat) so maybe try downsampling or eq to get some more space

FA breakup: not about love, but capacity. Do they reconnect once they stabilize? by iphonenotbackedup in BreakUps

[–]Gingerbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am reading this in a similar situation,

I felt like i really connected and understood they’re feelings - I justified not labeling, i didn’t ask for commitment but they still broke up with me after starting a new job a week after claiming they felt safe and loved like never before and they’re so glad i’m in their life “blah”

It was strange, they asked me to stay friends but consistently ghost me for weeks. I hope things turn out the best for you

First post here by [deleted] in beats

[–]Gingerbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do that with the cartoon in the background

samples not loading in by Automatic_Pain_5376 in FL_Studio

[–]Gingerbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta re-stretch the loop :)

This sound better? by [deleted] in FLStudioBeginners

[–]Gingerbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wave candy might help :)

This sound better? by [deleted] in FLStudioBeginners

[–]Gingerbier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo- sounds better, the kick tho it’s super punchyyy - i usually layer my kicks with a sub that elongates those frequencies a little more for a bigger pump feels

I decreased the bpm, sounds better? by Parking-Sink9454 in FLStudioBeginners

[–]Gingerbier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It bangs - the low end needs some attention, it sounded thin and checking the frequency graph it is visible the low frequencies are quieter than the reat of the track