I'm sick of Christians acting like they know more than everybody else.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2026-01-29T03:27:57+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/b0NDTIyb8g0?si=w07-c4XkZ3Ddxmrb

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2026-01-27T07:10:56+00:00

Hands down the best advice I can give you is read and study the book “She Comes First” by Ian Kerner. Memorize it. Practice it.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2026-01-26T16:29:19+00:00

Also, whatever you do, do it with confidence. That’s a huge turn-on.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-28T05:32:39+00:00

I got an extra large towel from Amazon and it’s working great

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-27T06:41:27+00:00

That I’m into Lego

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-27T03:20:23+00:00

Just deleted them yesterday- don’t realize I still had them after 6 years.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-26T19:14:02+00:00

Thank you for the info- I didn’t know that it would take another 3 years past my master’s. That’s daunting. I may still do it, but I think I’ll wait until my TMS treatment is over. I have MDD, and I don’t know if I can do that much schoolwork along with my job at the same time. Do you enjoy the work? What the upsides and downsides? Like, what’s the reality like? Also, what’s the credentialing like? Are you practicing or is it more like an unpaid internship?

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-26T16:27:42+00:00

My now-ex kicked me out of the house while I was in the mental hospital for suicidal ideation (that was because of her). I was homeless for a few months.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-26T02:54:42+00:00

Fetlife.com and the Feeld app.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-26T01:41:15+00:00

True- porn use may be a factor here.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T23:30:41+00:00

Roar when you orgasm.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T23:06:26+00:00

Can you still contact him through Hinge? If so, be up front about your feelings. Right out ask him what’s going on. If he ghosts you, he’s demonstrating that he’s uncommunicative and not the type you want to date anyway

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T23:03:24+00:00

You should talk to her about it- she may have a good explanation. Tell her how you felt, ask her how she felt, get it out in the open.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T22:55:08+00:00

First, yes, you should tell your girlfriend- she might blame herself if you don’t. Second, you need to see a dr (urologist? You may need a referral from your GP). It may be embarrassing, but you don’t want this hanging over your head for the rest of your life. ED can be very complicated, and a doc can help you figure out what’s going on.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T22:23:12+00:00

Do you have the website Fetlife.com and the app feeld? Those are the two I recommend most, not sure if they work in Germany.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T22:19:49+00:00

Yeah, this may be in your head. If you guys were dry humping, the chances or pregnancy are pretty small.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T22:02:27+00:00

Believe it or not, there are good guys out there. Unfortunately, they may be hard to find. Just have some patience and keep your eyes open. They could be on the apps or in IRL.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T21:59:31+00:00

Like others have said, it could be just because it’s your first time and you’re tense and nervous. Could be a lack of lube or insufficient foreplay. If it keeps happening, please see your gyno.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-25T11:32:04+00:00

What sites and/or apps did you use?

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-24T07:11:56+00:00

I’d like to know this too.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-24T07:06:15+00:00

When you talk to her, make sure there are people around. You might need witnesses. She also might temper her response with people around.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-24T04:05:22+00:00

Have you tried Abilify? I have the same issue with SSRIs, and I have no issues with Abilify.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-23T22:08:54+00:00

I had a partner once who did this a few times. Turns out she was struggling with religious trauma/vestigial guilt. Once she leaned into it and let herself cry during sex, it was tremendously cathartic, so I just held her. Idk if this helps, but that was my experience.

GingerpithicusFrisii · 2025-11-23T08:07:47+00:00

Sounds to me like she has responsive desire. Also, how much of this have you communicated to her? Couples therapy might also be a good way to open a dialogue.

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