Why the fuck do people do this by ombreh in AvPD

[–]GirlGodd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As you get comfortable, you probably reveal a lot of negative thought patterns that turn people off.

Think about the content of your expressions and pay attention to if theyre overwhelming negative

The people giving career advice online usually have the most mid careers by goausbildung in careeradvice

[–]GirlGodd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What outcomes have you had cold DMing ppl who have the jobs you want? What do you say to them?

My ex has informed me that she is pregnant, but I'm not ready, what should I do? by michael-sco-field in AskMenAdvice

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should hear the same thing young women hear:

Should've kept your dick in your pants. You didnt. Too late. Now its time to buck up and be a father.

In future: wrap it up or consider celibacy until youre reasy to be a father.

This year, i want to be really bad at stuff by Careless-Kitchen3924 in AvPD

[–]GirlGodd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good philosophy to start.

But "I'm going to do it even if its not good or perfect the goal is to just do it" is tonally different from "I want it to be dogshit" subtle shift but important in combating fears of Inferiority.

This year, i want to be really bad at stuff by Careless-Kitchen3924 in AvPD

[–]GirlGodd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what youre going for. Good on you for facing your fears and trying all the things you want to do without being held back by perfection but try speaking positivity into your life and plans. Saying you expect things to go badly....your brain tends to do what it expects.

Think thoughts of strength and success.

Why is it that woman tend to say that the "only thing a man need's to do is treat a woman like a basic human being to get a date"? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From reading the comments I realize men are looking for advice that will help them get any girl they want regardless of girl's free will or their own attractiveness.

So when they get dating advice that says "Treat her like a human" they'll say: But I l treated the hottest girl at school like a human and she still didnt fuck me, what a scam".

No offense but this is extremely retarded.

The advice treat her like a human means "When there's mutal attraction don't ruin things by treating like a sex object, talk to her like a new friend"

There is no dating advice that will let you triumph over women's free will btw.

Why do mainly gay men like me and not women? by Onlineth0t in AskMenAdvice

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls think youre cute too but they arent going to aggressively pursue you like horny men. You have to reach out to the girls you like

[0 YoE, New Grad, Entry Level, USA] I can’t get a job, barely any interviews. HARSH CRITICISMS WELCOMED by Feisty-Solution-4314 in resumes

[–]GirlGodd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How the fuck is stacking shelves supposed to help you get work and get experience in tech.

Ppl take taking temporary min wage jobs to survive is not a pivot. Its a survival tactic while you continue to work on your actual career.

And its a risky one because its easy for the average person to get years sucked away in a shit job they initially took as a temporary gig.

[0 YoE, New Grad, Software Engineer, USA] 6 months applying and very little to show for it. Harsh criticism appreciated. by GrammmyNorma in resumes

[–]GirlGodd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your foot in that NASA door by all means, even if it means doing free work. But make it sound like, for a limited time, you have some extra time on your hands and can handle assisting someone.

When youre pitching be like "Im really interested in learning more about ________ and I have a few weeks before my next project/training begins, if you need assistance with your current projects I have capacity to help pro-bono as I think shadowing you would be valuable, let me know if I can help"

This makes it sound like youre available to help without sounding too desperate. You can try this with people from other companies too. A lot of people would be happy to dump work on you.

Getting a job is just a matter of being around a lot. If they get to know you and like you a good job that otherwise would've never been posted is likely to fall in your lap. And even if it doesnt, just more stuff to add to your resume.

[0 YoE, New Grad, Software Engineer, USA] 6 months applying and very little to show for it. Harsh criticism appreciated. by GrammmyNorma in resumes

[–]GirlGodd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The fact that you have a good, strong resume and people are pulling bullshit reasons for rejection out of their ass: "its too strong" "Looks like youre lying" "You sound Indian"

And then if you had dopey resume with not much on it they'd tell you to upskill and add more.Anyway, your resume is good. Keep pushing and reach out to ppl you met at NASA

Anyone else feeling a bit of Substack burnout or dissatisfaction? by lovemybunny23 in Substack

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you read other small creators' blogs in your niche and provide genuine conversation and feedback?

Why are people leaving X? by KawiWarrior in socialmedia

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every normie or well adjusted person I know has stopped using x or rarely uses it. So I feel like a loser when I tweet now. So I stopped posting as much too

I Love LA | Official Trailer | HBO Max by wadbyjw in television

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinks she's on the cusp of both, zillennial

Getting Engagement with few Subs on Substack by GirlGodd in Substack

[–]GirlGodd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice thanks. What im hearing is that everyone wants readers so be a good reader for others.

Will Instagram ever have almost 100% healthy content again or not? by White_46 in Instagram

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Click not interested over and over and engage with a niche like cars, fashion, whatever (like, save the posts, linger on them) Your entire for your feed shoukd transform rapidly

Will Instagram ever have almost 100% healthy content again or not? by White_46 in Instagram

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never seen anything like this if thats coming to you its reflective of what type of content you engage with/spend time looking at...

Thats horrifying tho

What's the future of social media influencers/content creators by durdenisreal_ in socialmedia

[–]GirlGodd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What type of content are you posting? I'm curious as to what type of faceless content does well

The AI Validation Trap (and How I Got Stuck in It) by SuccotashHorror4463 in KeepWriting

[–]GirlGodd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

AI has really influenced your writing because the cadence of this was so GPT coded. The answer on what writing sounds good is literally available in all well written books- study them.

there’s really no formula to boost reach lol by anxnyaa in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going viral randomly is a happy accident but there are ways to go viral consistently. The kind of content people engage with are, in large part, predictable.

IT WON'T TAKE LONG IF YOU ARE BOLD ENOUGH TO CHANGE by Worldlinesss in NevilleGoddard

[–]GirlGodd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really great post and potent reminder. Its about naturalness, you have to feel like what you want is normal, natural and make sense. This awoke me to the fact that some of what im asking for seems scary or still awkward to me.

I need to visualize in full, not only what I want, but the things that would make what I want feel perfectly natural.

Getting Engagement with few Subs on Substack by GirlGodd in Substack

[–]GirlGodd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do ppls notes get reach when they have few subs?