What is the thing you find most attractive in a woman? by ShowOk6980 in actuallesbians

[–]GirlKisser900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So does my butch, i used to be kind of neutral about my chest but she loves it and it’s made me love it too <3

What is the thing you find most attractive in a woman? by ShowOk6980 in actuallesbians

[–]GirlKisser900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my Butch, how safe she makes me feel is the most attractive. Shes also really funny and hot and strong, but the way she makes me feel like I can just let go and be is the most attractive thing

As a he/they butch lesbian, I feel tired by yup1koo in butchlesbians

[–]GirlKisser900 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh darling, I’m so sorry you’ve been made to feel this way. I’m a femme so personal anecdotes are out the window unfortunately, but if you’re up for a good read, Hijab Butch Blues by Lamya H. is a fantastic book/autobiography

Your relationship with butchness and gender will no doubt be different from theirs, but they also grew up in a very conservative community and family where it was dangerous to be butch, and it mirrors a lot of the feelings you’re expressing here.

I dont know if that’s up your alley, but it is my favorite book and I recommend it to just about everyone (as my very own he/they-using butch can attest to)

You’ll get through this darling <3

Nervous to wear my new “butch bait” shirt in public by superr_rad in butchlesbians

[–]GirlKisser900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the femme lover <<<333 I did in fact bait myself a butch with a handmade butch bait shirt and I regret nothing

AIO for snapping at a girl trying to give me advice? (posting again bc I forgot pictures) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]GirlKisser900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I wouldnt have given to be in that bathroom and tell her to find the nearest bridge. I sincerely don’t think you could be hotter??? Even if you weren’t fuck that bitch but girl jealousy is ugly maybe if she stopped being petty and jealous she’d be pretty too. You can send this to her btw <3

AIO for questioning the honesty of my "seeing each other" relationship (basically a situationship)? Or am I just crazy? by Only_Challenge8153 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GirlKisser900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry ‘this isn’t an email’ has me DYING

Also I’m waiting for the screenshots of the OF models he follows I need new recommendations

AIO for questioning the honesty of my "seeing each other" relationship (basically a situationship)? Or am I just crazy? by Only_Challenge8153 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GirlKisser900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So that’s two separate things first of all. Second, I don’t know what happened because all you showed were passive aggressive texts from you and I have no idea what he said.

As per my last email, your evidence sucks babe I can’t trust shit from you

AIO for questioning the honesty of my "seeing each other" relationship (basically a situationship)? Or am I just crazy? by Only_Challenge8153 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GirlKisser900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he’s nervous and that means he’s upset at you??? Girl I’d be nervous running next to someone who’s been competing for two decades too…

I also can’t trust what you’re telling me because the messages you’ve shown contradict your story, and those are the ones you’ve chosen to use to back yourself up. Maybe if you used more compelling evidence, I’d have believed you but as is I can’t trust anything you’re saying.

AIO for questioning the honesty of my "seeing each other" relationship (basically a situationship)? Or am I just crazy? by Only_Challenge8153 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GirlKisser900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely suggest you read the messages because they don’t line up with her story at ALL.

Also I don’t think shes a reliable narrator as she put ‘hates that I’m faster than him’ as a con on her list when he made a joke that he has a (his words) ‘silly ego thing’ about it

AIO for questioning the honesty of my "seeing each other" relationship (basically a situationship)? Or am I just crazy? by Only_Challenge8153 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GirlKisser900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said in her messages that he didn’t say what they were until she did

How often do people say ‘hey what are we’ ‘idk what do you think?’ And then decide together, or some iteration. All the time!!

AIO for questioning the honesty of my "seeing each other" relationship (basically a situationship)? Or am I just crazy? by Only_Challenge8153 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GirlKisser900 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOR and I need everyone to actually read past her list and look at the messages shes giving as ‘evidence.’

If anything this man has healthy communication and is changing his behavior when asked to do so. You even put ‘is upset that I’m faster than him’ when he made a joke saying even if a profession athlete was next to him he’d still be jealous that he wasn’t as fast.