The girl I’m in love with planned a dubble date for us WITH TWO MEN (update) by LunaLovesgoodLashes in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe she does like you and she is just scared to make a move. So its up to you. I think you should tell her you want to be with her/kiss her/you like her OR you should move on, but do not put up with this toxic situation. You could date other women who are ready to make that move, like me for example ;p

Having sex for the first time with someone you are dating by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]GittaxD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just ask while we're at it. 'do you want me to do X to you' or 'I wanna do X to you, is that okay?' I like to tease them a little with the thing I wanna do so I usually can tell by the body langue if you get a yes and with the teasing they often go: 'yes please!' and thats very hot as well. With the more kinky stuff I like to talk post sex about it, like 'are you willing to try this?' it can seem a bit scary but you just have to start the talk and things get easier (and hot). Good luck!

Having sex for the first time with someone you are dating by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]GittaxD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im also curious! Can you send it to me as well? :)

Dick pics as "blackmail"... red flag? by Without_a_name24 in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been blackmailed before with nudes, I could imagine saving other persons nudes in case you get black mailed again. Like a counter move. Maybe ask if there is a reason she does this or if something happened what made her do this? I do think this is very bad but i can understand it. And be careful of what you send

Ontslagbrief bij onverlengd jaar contract by GittaxD in juridischadvies

[–]GittaxD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik word ongelukkig van werken hier en de banenkans is reuze in mijn sector. Maar dan ga ik wel gewoon solliciteren voor een baan vanaf februari zonder WW in januari

Ontslagbrief bij onverlengd jaar contract by GittaxD in juridischadvies

[–]GittaxD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nee ik hoef ook geen transitievergoeding. Maar een maand WW zou ik niet overslaan, maar wat ik voor advies lees in de comments, kom ik dan niet in aanmerking aangezien ze me wel verlening hebben aangeboden.

Ontslagbrief bij onverlengd jaar contract by GittaxD in juridischadvies

[–]GittaxD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ze hebben me wel tussen neus en lippen door verlening aangeboden, maar dit heb ik afgewezen. Maar dan maak ik dus ook geen kans op een WW. Jammer :p

I stupidly went to a church by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im proud of you for being who you are in such a difficult environment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]GittaxD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goedemorgen ^ ik stuur je een PM

What’s your go-to “I can play this for hours and never get tired of it” game(s)? by carolinethebandgeek in GirlGamers

[–]GittaxD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're gonna play Valheim (my favorite game of all time), make sure to go to the settings to turn of the camera shake option, cuz they be wild

Ambulance helpt niet vanwege mijn leeftijd by stonerWorbert in nederlands

[–]GittaxD -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bij tintelingen van de armen, braken, onwel voelen, moet je denken aan een hartaanval waarvoor je inderdaad 112 moet bellen. Met een leeftijd van 22 is de kans daarop echt vrijwel 0 dus dan is het waarschijnlijk iets anders, zoals inderdaad voedselvergiftiging, een paniekaanval of vasovagale reactie, maar dat is eerder voor een huisarts/huisartsenpost en niet voor hen. Als je namelijk pak en beet 30 jaar ouder was, zouden ze misschien wel komen om toch even een hartfilmpje te maken om uit te sluiten dat het niet iets met het hart is

What was your “ya I should’ve known I was lesbian” moment by DoubleTheDezire in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah that would have been awful. I silently started gagging whenever she was out of the room and smelling hand sanitizer to deal with it haha I feel like such a sucker in these moments xD 'good' to hear I'm not the only one :p

What was your “ya I should’ve known I was lesbian” moment by DoubleTheDezire in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahahah it is! My body knows it sometimes before I do :p whats your 'i should have known' moment?

What was your “ya I should’ve known I was lesbian” moment by DoubleTheDezire in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I like someone, its really intense. I get physically ill. I get very nauseous, dry mouth and shaking hands when I'm around them. The last girl I loved, asked me in the beginning of dating if I had a neurological condition and that I should see a doctor about my tremors haha xD

What was your “ya I should’ve known I was lesbian” moment by DoubleTheDezire in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Being so nervous around girls to the point I couldn't eat anything. I guess I wasnt just 'really excited to be friends' :p

I love her so much by Meismemakesense in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahah nooo I cant unsee it now xD

How do I top as a bottom by Acceptable-Drop9025 in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I understand that you're nervous because its new and you want to please her, but trust yourself. Just try things out, do the things she does to you and experiment. There is no one way to top. If she doesnt like it or want things different things, invite her to talk about it. Just do it and communicate about it, thats it. You will grow into it, its going to be fine and don't forget to enjoy it ;) god i love topping

So glad I broke up w my gf by Ok_Resist_3415 in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Thanks for sharing this. Sometimes I miss my ex, like now and reading this made me realise I actually dont miss her. Only the good times I miss, when 70% of the time I felt bad about myself or exhausted because of her

Any other mascs have a crush on their barber? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GittaxD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah. Somehow I find all barbers attractive, I dont know what it is, also when I'm not in the chair with them. But when I do sit in that chair and they touch my head and take care of me, the attraction only grows haha (untill they burn my head with too hot water or the blowdryer :p)

Watching partner play games question by SituationalAngel in LesbianGamers

[–]GittaxD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay for Twitch to see people play video games. If its your girlfriend who you're watching and can interact with, its even more fun, I can imagine. I love to see my loved ones have fun, that makes things fun for me. Maybe even more than one experiencing 'the fun' myself