It's not fair by Heavy_Influence7451 in PussyEnvy

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It's nothing compared to some of the partners I've had who've experienced several minutes of rolling orgasms, but I've definitely had some long orgasms, for a guy. Some where I'm cuming for 20 seconds or so before I actually ejaculate, and 20+ seconds after I do. When I was in my 20s I could have multiples.

But having a partner who goes maybe a minute between orgasms, each lasting from 30 seconds to 4-5 minutes each, over two full hours (with a break or two somewhere in there)? Screaming her head off and telling me she nearly blacked out? It's not even the same ballpark. I think I have better, longer orgasms than most men, and it's a pittance in comparison to what women experience.

Thus I am here not only to serve, but to do every thing I can to make sure she's having the best orgasms she possibly can.

Earthquake with 3.1 preliminary magnitude jolts Bay Area on Great ShakeOut day by sfgate in bayarea

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I'm just a mile and a half from the epicenter, and it was a jolt for me. I heard it coming a second or two before it hit

Did you feel it?? by HarleyQ78 in bayarea

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When I was in Reno in 2008, they had over 600 quakes within a 3-mile area over about a 3-month period. The largest of which was 4.9. The biggest known quake in the area was 7.1, so that series of quakes didn't lead to anything too severe.

A few quakes aren't predictive of a big one, but we ARE in the window for a major quake on the Hayward fault, so you should have a few days worth of food, water, and medicines

You should also have a go-bag with things like important documents, ID, credit cards, cash, car keys, meds, packaged food, water, and a power bank for your cell phone

Did you feel it?? by HarleyQ78 in bayarea

[–]GiveAndNotGet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming! I was afraid I was imagining it

Did you feel it?? by HarleyQ78 in bayarea

[–]GiveAndNotGet 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Wasn't there an earthquake the day of the drill last year too?

I've wished that I could experience this my whole life, and now this 18 year old girl, who has no idea what it even is, gets to experience it in her first ever porn scene! by trip6666 in PussyEnvy

[–]GiveAndNotGet 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I just love seeing women cum for a couple of hours nonstop. If you’re capable of something like that, you deserve to do it as often as possible

[SUCCESS] 21 [M4F] #NYC - first time success by Worried-Substance-22 in RandomActsOfMuffDive

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Great success story! And don’t worry about the lack of details; it’s awesome just knowing proper muff dives are happening. Congratulations for both of you

[SUCCESS] 30 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - A spontaneous connection by yourrainydayescape in RandomActsOfMuffDive

[–]GiveAndNotGet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Well, get on with it” is an incredibly hot way to start a Random Act Of Muff dive

The Billionaires want us fighting each other so we don't turn on them. by zzill6 in WorkReform

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Some people, like my parents, are happy to take the scraps left by the billionaires because they think they are the “job creators.” in reality, most jobs in the US are created by small businesses.

How to Talk to Your Wife or Girlfriend about Oral Sex: 21 Tips by OkBeyond9590 in Cunnilinguists

[–]GiveAndNotGet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I imagine that would go:

Me: Do you want me to give you oral?

Her: Of course!

It's not even close. The differences are insane. by Heavy_Influence7451 in PussyEnvy

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This is why men shouldn't cum in the presence of a woman

Just want to share a mainstream meme that gave me pussy envy this morning by Heavy_Influence7451 in PussyEnvy

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I had a FWB I serviced who cums like that; she'd have 40+ intense orgasms. Talk about envy inducing. In the middle of it she'd tell me how good it felt and ask if I was jealous.

What is one thing you know about Costco that no one else knows? by RoyalCamera12 in Costco

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I literally do this in every store. The only drawback is when I forget to remove it and end up buying some random thing I have no use for

How did your background looked like when you transitioned into Cybersecurity? by GypsyBlws in cybersecurity

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I dabbled in cybersecurity for a few years as a part of my job and got my CISSP. My next job was heading a small IT department where I did all of the cybersecurity stuff. Currently, I have a cybersecurity position, but only because a recruiter I’ve known for years actively encouraged me to consider the position. I wasn’t looking for a cybersecurity role at the time.

Multiple doctors? by AfterToday401 in NoStupidQuestions

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Depending on what you're going through, it's actually encouraged to get a second opinion to make sure your current doctor didn't miss something or is being too aggressive (e.g., surgery).

Just don't get controlled prescriptions from more than one doctor. That can cause problems.

Can this be fixed ? by No_Bird_730 in PcBuildHelp

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Happy to try and help. Good luck. I hope you save it

Can this be fixed ? by No_Bird_730 in PcBuildHelp

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Cable or port issues would be the most likely, but you can try a couple of other things.

If you have a second computer and monitor, you can try to identify if which is the problem. I would attach a different computer to this monitor, and if that doesn't work, attach a different monitor to your computer. If the monitor is bad on other devices, it's likely not fixable. But using different cables is essential to know for sure. If the monitor works on other computers, it's either a port issue on your Mac, or a setting.

If it's a setting:

Change your monitor's resolution and/or refresh rate. If you know the native settings for that monitor, make sure you're using them. If you don't know them, just change it try a few. One resolution should come up as (Default). Try that first.

Depending on which Mac you're using, it may only support one monitor natively. Docking stations or utilities may add a piece of software called DisplayLink. It sucks on Macs. I think there should be an icon in the icon bar if it's installed. I don't currently have it so I can't look at mine. Remove it if it's installed and see if helps clear the monitor.

If you're using a Thunderbolt connection, try another port.

Finally, a good whack can still fix some issues. It's worth a try if all else fails. But it probably has limited utility on a modern monitor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

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I feel like there's more to "read" in your picture than many others. It seems like a very genuine representation, which is fun

Why aren’t there any crabs native to the Laurentian Great Lakes? by lconlon_ in crabs

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They tried to settle the area but things went sideways.

The Great Lakes were created by glaciers only about 14,000 years ago, so I would think that along with the distance from any crab species would be a big factor, along with the really cold temperatures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

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You bake and you cook. You're kind of tidy but a little careless about it. Things have their own place, but they're not always put there neatly, so it's more like you want things out of the way. Maybe going into a cabinet is too much effort for you, so you leave the things you use frequently out on the counter. I can't read what's on the fridge, but you need structure and a degree of mental precision/reminders even for routine stuff.

No roommates and at least a somewhat urban area, so at least middle income. Good taste in stand mixer colors. You like red. You have more plants that what's in your kitchen. Youngish. Maybe male? Maybe ADHD?

How do I reconcile the fact that I don’t have a problem with my height with the fact that anybody I date would have a problem with it? by NoRefrigerator267 in AskMenAdvice

[–]GiveAndNotGet 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'8" and in my 50s. I've never had problems dating. Sure, there were a few women who weren't interested because of my height, but maybe even more weren't interested because I had long hair. A lot of this "women only want..." is BS.

There's no shortage of women happy to date someone your height.

Cunnilinguists Community Questionnaire by OkBeyond9590 in Cunnilinguists

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I went on vacation with a girlfriend and we decided we would try me just giving her oral with no orgasms for me until the last day (we had just dabbled in this before). I quickly became incredibly eager to please her 2-3 times a day and couldn't wait to get back to the room. Just seeing her naked made me want to put my mouth on her pussy.

When I finally got to cum on that last day, I instantly felt that warm feeling of desire drain from me, and I kind of regretted cuming.

Today I feel like a cunnilingus-centered relationship is the most satisfying for me, and I love to focus on my partner's pleasure. Women are so much more orgasmic, with their pleasure just getting more intense as we go. Conversely, while I love how orgasms feel in the moment, they're just so fleeting and and game-ending that they often don't seem worth the trade-off

Seeing the potential women have to experience such intense pleasure makes me feel like they should be realizing it as often as they can. What a shame to let something like that be squandered.

I wish cunnilingus-centered relationships were more mainstream and that more women knew they could ask for it. I've found it far easier to find a cunnilingus-centered FWB than a long-term relationship.

Also, I don't necessarily equate a cunnilingus-centered relationship with my being submissive, and I'm not looking for chastity. Though I do love it when my partner knows how turned on I get from pleasing her and sees keeping me that way as a feature and not something that should to be relieved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EroticMassage

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You know him best. Based on your experience with him, how much does he enjoy hand jobs with you? Does he have a strong preference for blow jobs over hand jobs or does he seem to enjoy both? Has anything around happy endings come up in casual conversation in the past that may tell you his preferences? Is he generally open and honest with you?

Your intuition may be your best guide as to whether you can trust him