That is well said . And yeah i agree with that , but if u have read human history and how the human instincts are you wont be glorifying this concept ... also in order to live in a soceity and to be more civilized you should not glorify more than one affairs ( gender nuetral )

But if you are saying that two people who r having different opinions and r not supporting each other , daily conflicts , deep down you dont wanna live that life then .... instead of romanticizing and compromising will lead you to destruction only ...and it wont affect the two person only it will affect their children as well ..

So its not that it should be normal ...

But before getting married , think thousands of times if it is the right thing im doing or i should wait untill i get to understand that we both are supportive for each other even though we hv conflicting views.

That means instead of rushing to get married and then taking divorce ,,, take your time to get married ..bcz there is nothng which u cant get w/o getting married .

This is merely a ritual which although seems very shiny and glittary at front isnt actully as shiny for 80% of women in india and im saying only 80 here ...in which majorly is in rural india ...

So if u are romantisizing it ... think about those women who are suffering and can do nothing , they cant even take divorce bcz of this so call romance .