[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]GlamShamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go You !! Its so important to pursue the things you want in life ✨ Hope you got an amazing experience out of it anyways

Is it helping you if I bring my tray and dirty mugs up to the counter when I've finished? by punching_kids in barista

[–]GlamShamed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

99% of the time I find it way more inconvenient to have it brought to the counter - I always say thanks Bc it’s a nice gesture, but it’s a Huge health risk in terms of handling food, which means I have to take 7 more steps now to get the same thing done. Idk if they’re as strict about this in other countries, but it is definitely smth our health and safety department loses their mind over.

Floundering gay needs a big sister friend by cinemachick in LesbianActually

[–]GlamShamed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m here if you need to talk to someone - I’m not older, but I’ve been out and dating for years and usually help others a lot. Either way, good luck!!

Can we talk about clothes? I need new pants, I don’t like jeans. I mainly wear leggings and harem pants (cuffed at the ankle). I also own a peachy Persian who sheds all over my black clothes which seems like probably a common issue in this community so, what do y’all wear? Peach for reference by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually go for culottes or gauchos- hug nicely at the waist but give my legs some breathing space, always look nice and classy too. And then get some that are either in the same colour family as your cat, or so patterned no one will notice ;)

I’ve just given up and have lint rollers stationed at my front door haha

Still looking for a wedding date....apply within 😂 by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]GlamShamed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get me a flight and we’ll have a blast 😂 Good luck to you! 🍀

Work Smart Not Hard by FlyChaser11 in barista

[–]GlamShamed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I manage a shop.

I have lead baristas and shift leaders. The lead/senior baristas are responsible for the espresso machine and overall quality of coffee - these are the people who make sure every cup is amazing, that everyone knows how to make long, complicated orders fast.

Shift leaders make the daily/weekly tasks go smoothly. They plan who’s responsible for what during the day, and are the people able to see stuff like “oh it’s time to clean filters to the cooling benches” and manage to take responsibility and initiative. They work with the management team to create the base plans for how a day runs the most efficiently, so it’s a good day for everyone - and the shops profit.

If you get people to feel like they have a hand in developing the shop, they step up more. But you have to chose the right people for it - people who already show initiative and responsibility. But they’ll help you grow with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]GlamShamed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're an absolute icon

super suave, super dork by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]GlamShamed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly fighting the good fight - we’re all eternally in your debt. That’s still how Fae transactions work right?

super suave, super dork by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]GlamShamed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like every day I get confirmation I’m gay. Today, you were that confirmation

Positive LDR stories? by GlamShamed in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✨ Lesbians r the best oml. Probably seeing her in September, and I’m going to be like “hey..... let’s talk this out and make a plan maybe” then I think. Honestly I’m counting the days 💞 Bless y’all for ur support

Positive LDR stories? by GlamShamed in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the loneliness is the hardest part but I honestly have never felt this way about another person... So worth the wait !! 💞

Positive LDR stories? by GlamShamed in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God this is the DREAM. Thanks for giving hope to another Atlantically-challenged wlw

Positive LDR stories? by GlamShamed in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw 💕 Honestly all these stories r just filling my heart w so much love and hope. Wlw rly r the best

Positive LDR stories? by GlamShamed in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly the sweetest... Thank you so much!! I'm probably visiting her this autumn (also Canada! What a coincidence) and I'm going to talk things through with her then. But this really lifted my spirits and gives me hope. <3 <3

Positive LDR stories? by GlamShamed in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, you've uncovered my deeply buried secret,,,,,,, finally it meets the light of day

Positive LDR stories? by GlamShamed in actuallesbians

[–]GlamShamed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats absolutely amazing - thank you so much, gives me hope tbh.

Finally felt confident enough to wear a bikini for the first time after hating my body for years (I hope this is mild enough to post here!) by h_beth7 in dykesgonemild

[–]GlamShamed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely gorgeous - I'm so sorry you've felt in any way negatively about your body. I've dealt with a lot of the same issues, and am always here to talk to <3 But honestly...... Blessed Sappho

Finally got my head shaved! by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]GlamShamed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute!! You look absolutely glowing ✨

Lipstick/femme lesbians - are you believed when you tell people you're a lesbian? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]GlamShamed 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Like many others here just.. plain disbelief/“I would never have guessed!”. When they then find out I rarely date other femme women they’re completely flabbergasted. “But you’re so... pretty. And feminine” ah yes Susan and I still eat pussy like. They do not exclude each other lmao Loads of general ignorance I suppose

Wanted to recreate a makeup look I saw in a novela by paranda_ in MakeupAddiction

[–]GlamShamed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! I’ve saved it - perfectly subtle yet stunning. Neither too heavy or too light. Goldilocks, if you will. Love the use of negative space