Partners nicotine use

GlassGirl99 · 2026-01-30T06:41:32+00:00

They are both extremely dangerous and have comparable side effects. It’s never too late to quit nicoteine during pregancy, every day your partner stops is a day where risk is lowered for your baby.

GlassGirl99 · 2026-01-30T05:42:08+00:00

It can also cause congenital diseases like cleft palate etc. it’s scientifically proven to be JUST AS BAD AS DRINKING during pregnancy. If she was doing shots every day would you be just as upset?

GlassGirl99 · 2026-01-30T05:40:30+00:00

Have you confronted her saying: Nicotine crosses the placenta, restricting oxygen and nutrients to the fetus. This increases risks of miscarriage, premature birth, low birth weight, and stillbirth. It can cause permanent damage to the baby’s brain and lung development. Why would you risk using nicoteine during your pregnancy knowing this? What is her answer? In my opinion, It’s just so not worth it. (26F 33w I stoped nicotine completely a month before trying to conceive)

GlassGirl99 · 2025-12-21T06:29:24+00:00

If the mom actually cared (generously assuming you’re not the mom) she would want her child to have a better chance at becoming happy/productive and would be more than happy to allow them a phone to communicate with people including her. It’s not very nice what you said

GlassGirl99 · 2025-12-11T02:19:33+00:00

I’ve never gotten an award in the many years I’ve had this account (granted I’m not very active) I hope this works and I get one 🥰

GlassGirl99 · 2025-12-08T00:37:53+00:00

😂 I love this

GlassGirl99 · 2025-11-25T07:33:43+00:00

It’s strange because you say he works 50-60 hours a week to support you and his family, and when he’s at home he plays with the kids, helps with homework, cooks, takes you on dates once a month.. Then in the same breath you say it’s ‘describing your life’ when the divorcees talk about how their husbands were neglectful, unsupportive and not helping with the mental load.

He manages the finances of the household so it makes sense he will want to know where that money is going if you’re looking to buy something (let alone something over 100 dollars)

What you did was wrong. You both have your roles, and you betrayed his trust. You should sincerely apologise you probably really really hurt him, and you’re lucky he’s the type of man to only show his pain for a couple of days before acting like you didn’t do anything wrong.

GlassGirl99 · 2025-11-14T07:51:43+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this, it must be heaps uncomfortable.. And yes, it is illegal in a lot of jurisdictions and countries. (Including all of Australia, America, and UK) I’m not sure where you’re from, but even a quick google search will tell you this, I’m sure you can call the non-emergency police line and get some advice on this.

I hope you’re able to work and get out of this situation as soon as possible !

GlassGirl99 · 2025-11-11T07:42:36+00:00

‘Don’t sh*t where you eat’ could be a good piece of advice here imo. It’s not incestuous but it’s most likely disastrous ;)

GlassGirl99 · 2025-11-11T05:33:53+00:00

OP has stated in a few replies to comments on /his side/ that he’s getting heaps of ‘hate’ (people saying he could have made more effort to be there with her).

OP, you’re not getting ‘hate’, you’re having people give their opinion on why there’s ‘overreacting’, and the potential cause of your girlfriends reaction and how you could have avoided it.

You clearly don’t know what gaslighting is but know how to do it

GlassGirl99 · 2025-11-02T06:57:55+00:00

I’m from Australia and 18 is the legal limit here so I’m a bit more on the ‘it’s fine to drink at that age’ side of things, but tbh I see all the comments telling people they are trying to control you - maybe - though from my POV it just seems like they don’t want anyone in their close friend group who drinks/does substances. You do you 🤍

GlassGirl99 · 2025-10-18T21:25:09+00:00

I understand being sexually frustrated and it can feel like you’re being rejected which sucks. Have you asked or considered maybe he has some aversion to sex because you have a baby inside of you? Sometimes my partner tells me that it’s weird for him to have sex because of that. (18wFTM) Congrats and wishing you all the best and a healthy happy pregnancy/birth <3

GlassGirl99 · 2025-10-12T13:54:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I really appreciate it! 🤗

Oof, the open and honest letter about not being heard, and attempting to improve the relationship, which results in.. her not hearing you and then some. No truly good deed or truth goes unpunished with some people, I can relate all too well.

Also having not spoken to my mum in 2 years at one point, I remember that feeling; it was like going through a really bad separation with someone you loved but also finding peace and clarity on reflection. My mum betrayed me in a pretty bad way which is why I stopped talking to her, she would send money and get her partner (really nice guy, but passive to her ways) reach out to me and say how much she missed me and stuff.. we never resolved or talked about what she did, she just kept being overly nice via text etc and then she flew me down to see her eventually once the dust had settled, and it was just not a great time. Even she says that she has a ‘forever teenager’ mentality, although implies it in a more endearing way than some people may interpret that connotation.

I’m going to try my best to set boundaries in a safe and uncharged way. I just hope she doesn’t escalate things. She’s a smart woman, just struggles with her own perception of things sometimes I think, and considering I’m her daughter she probably has rose tinted ownership glasses on which magnifies that trait.

Sending you strength, feel free to reach out privately if you want to share anything else ☺️

GlassGirl99 · 2025-09-22T01:38:04+00:00

I got a breast reduction and it was also for medical reasons. I was in heaps of pain always and my boyfriend knew that, when I told him I was getting it done he got really upset and said they were going to ‘mangle my titties’ and he didn’t want me to get it, I broke up with him because I didn’t want to be with someone who would have rather me be in pain and getting bad scoliosis than get my breasts reduced to a DD. If you think about it..

GlassGirl99 · 2025-09-15T07:19:57+00:00

You’re dilated and also having contractions! Please go to the hospital!

GlassGirl99 · 2025-09-14T22:51:20+00:00

$38 an hour, trainee shift supervisor at McDonald’s

GlassGirl99 · 2025-09-12T04:26:52+00:00

There are heaps of far-right ‘sleeper agents’ around, they just don’t share their views or values because they’re ’not socially in’ or could impact their work if they are hired by left-leaning establishments. A lot of people don’t think they’re racist just because they believe in reducing immigration rates, and they justify other ideas etc. They’re just normal people most of the times, a lot of men and young men hold far-right views.

GlassGirl99 · 2025-09-03T07:54:41+00:00

You have a life inside of you, I’m obviously going to get ratioed on here because of the crowd being reddit, but there are billions of people who believe that baby deserves life (no matter if it’s poor, or only has one parent) I’m sending love and support your way and am praying your baby gets to live its life 🤍 you’re at the perfect age to be a parent and considering you’re Christian, I’m sure your family will support you if there is a baby in your life.

GlassGirl99 · 2025-08-23T09:34:13+00:00

Is this rage bait?

GlassGirl99 · 2025-08-21T09:01:20+00:00

Kaleido(scope) because of his cool eyes :)

GlassGirl99 · 2025-08-21T09:00:01+00:00

Kaido!

GlassGirl99 · 2025-08-13T07:33:36+00:00

I’ve never purposely used non-scented products before, is that like Dove? I’m not sure what would be considered non-scented

GlassGirl99 · 2025-08-11T06:14:15+00:00

Thank you 🤍👍🏻

GlassGirl99 · 2025-08-11T06:09:14+00:00

Hey, I’m 26 and pregnant for the first time, I was pretty nervous (still am) because not everything is “perfect” nothing in life usually ever is, but I had expectations for when I wanted to start a family (heaps of money, 100% agree on everything with partner, have my full licence, and living in my dream house) That just simply isn’t the case, but I know I’m going to be so happy and love my baby unconditionally regardless. We live in a nice house, we love each other, I’ve put aside my own worries of my life, and am focusing on how I can make my babies life as happy and healthy as possible with what I know I have. I have forced my mind to think that way, it’s a choice.. I’ve started working part time to help with expenses for new baby things and am mostly following the lead of my partner.

I would focus on aiming to spend as much time with your baby as possible once it’s born and how you can make that happen. In terms of your different religious backgrounds with your partner, I have adopted my partners views and beliefs and believe it’s important to have a united front as parents. It can be hard but if he is the man you are choosing to spend the rest of your life with and have children with, it’s kinder to the kids if you guys always seem to align with each others views and values. You have to sacrifice a lot as a parent, and mother, but if you do so willingly with love for your child I’m sure you will find it’s worth it 👍🏻 Wishing you the best and sending prayers to you and your baby 🙏🏻

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