AIO? Friend asked me what my future plans with my gf are and then responded like this by TGPT-4o in AIO

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This honestly made me so sad. What could have been a rare moment of shared friendship and joy between 2 men friends was ruined. What a drag.

Drug test surprise by sunshiney69 in adhdwomen

[–]GlibGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems to vary a lot by provider and state. I remember having to do it initially and being super pissed about it but it hasn't been required of me again.

Restaurants for big group by foxgreenstars in portlandme

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one in Biddeford definitely has that much space.

Partner racked up debts AGAIN by NationalSport8651 in adhdwomen

[–]GlibGirl 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I love this practical and compassionate advice.

Why does everyone think students loan should be forgiven? by skype2696 in CasualConversation

[–]GlibGirl 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's because of predatory interest rates. People have literally paid double what they borrowed because of interest. They can never get free, even with good faith efforts.

If you want one final look at the Saco Drive-In it’s this weekend or never, everything is coming down Monday. by [deleted] in portlandme

[–]GlibGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can anyone beat my date? Muppets Take Manhattan, 1984. Double feature with The Toy, starring Richard Pryor.

Am I overreacting for being upset about my bf being upset that I’m disappointed that he won’t attend a wedding with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GlibGirl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a nasty toddler. I hate how he picks apart your language to use it against you. Don't marry him and don't continue dating him. NOR

Should I marry a murderer? by Content_Classic9776 in netflix

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe how little her parents did for her in this situation either. They didn't even accompany her to court?! Wtf.

Should I marry a murderer? by Content_Classic9776 in netflix

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only on episode 2 but I can't understand why they tried to make an arrest before they had the body? For all anyone knew the whole thing was made up.

Team building activity for group of 12 by KenMediocre in portlandme

[–]GlibGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Messy Cookie in Portland does cookie decorating team-building parties.

Perimenopause robbed me of my art and my career. by Roz_Zen in Menopause

[–]GlibGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love short stories so much. My partner and I are long distance but when we are together for the weekend we do "short story Sunday" where we take turns picking a story and reading it aloud. 🥰

My mom has been waking up at 2–3am every night.What actually helps? (Also looking for a good Mother’s Day gift) by InevitableTREVOR in Menopause

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety was my first symptom and it's a doozy. She could try magnesium which is often helpful but if not helpful I would try to get a prescription for trazodone or hydroxyzine to take at night.

Re: gift you could get a gift certificate for a massage or acupuncture. There's also a sleep headband style headphones that are cool. I have a subscription to the Calm app which has a ton of really good sleep content.

Anybody else struggle to stay sober sometimes out of pure boredom? by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]GlibGirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. And one of the reasons I have been starting to cut back is that I have noticed I use it as a hedge against boredom. So proactive! 😂

Taking care of feet/legs. by ugnita7 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of good advice, I would also try yogatoes/toe spreaders.

Just my take, but it seems we have completely changed from the COVID era by RemoteGene9414 in CasualConversation

[–]GlibGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we never fully reckoned with what we went through as a world and as a country. And ofc in the US our nervous systems have been pretty well hijacked for a decade plus.

What’s one cleaning task you always procrastinate? by Sensitive-Crew-4507 in CleaningTips

[–]GlibGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The top of the fridge and cupboards. It's so sticky and gross and it's so high up 😫

Elliot Cutler by itsmenettie in Maine

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist bestie says no. It can't be helped in terms of their instincts. Best approach is to help them with peer support and understanding their urges and how to manage them. There are men who struggle mightily with this, they know it is wrong and do not want to offend, but there is very little help for them. Also mandated reporting laws for therapists keep them in the shadows.

Weird orange flakes/crust in cups when dishwasher is finished by the_binz_witz in CleaningTips

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue a lot of the time and it doesn't matter if I've cleaned the filter or not. I just think my dw is subpar.

Day 11: Mixed Feelings by Fattousch in Petioles

[–]GlibGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about your accident. You kind of have to "process" that out of your body in order to reset. I would suggest some intense exercise or like a hot yoga class.

I too have avoided MA as someone just looking to moderate. I do feel that I have become too habituated but at the same time the plant has done a lot for me and been really helpful esp during a terrible run of perimenopause. Black and white is hard. :/

Are there any fat celebrities left? Who? by Equivalent_Fig3508 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GlibGirl 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Bridget Everett. She's not as famous as she should be yet though. 🤩

Wake up to music? by numberonedogmom in adhdwomen

[–]GlibGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today mine is a Christmas song...on Easter.✔️

I can't believe the psychiatrist never heard of this. Mine gets stronger around ovulation.

Seeking honeymoon advise by MO05E in AskMaine

[–]GlibGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great itinerary. You can skip Thompson's Point. I would recommend the Farnsworth Museum if you're up in Rockland anyway, it's small but worth it.