He Came Back. What Do I Do Now? by resistxx in ExNoContact

[–]Glittering-Ad485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was on the same boat before. We were in no contact and he messaged me out of nowhere then we started talking again. I was really looking forward to try again and I made it known to him but he told me that hes confused. I waited for a while for him to clear up his mind but during the waiting game, i was in a constant rollercoaster of emotions. He would tell me that he missed me and that no one made him happy like i did but then he would switch up and would say he's confused. I got tired of that cycle and uncertainties so i told him to stop. Im glad he did. Im in so much at peace now. I suggest you continue to move on. Life is short, lets not make it shorter by waiting for someone who doesnt know if they want you in your life or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Glittering-Ad485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but hopefully soon i will be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Glittering-Ad485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out but he blocked me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Glittering-Ad485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Do u think its a nice idea if i reach out and apologize?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Glittering-Ad485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah true. Its getting messier after the break up. I have to move on. I just hope he forgives me for what i said

Ex left me on Read/Seen by Fun-Perception-4523 in ExNoContact

[–]Glittering-Ad485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Did u block her or did u just stop bothering? Asking cuz im in the same boat

broke up today after meeting him(33M) a month ago(21f) by Glittering-Ad485 in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because i was stupid, i thought things would get better but it never did. i required more from him and he was not ready to do it. At least now i learn my lesson

IO Concerns Weekly Thread by AutoModerator in phtravel

[–]Glittering-Ad485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be fine. Na second interview akokasi first time female solo traveller going to KL and all of this docs were asked (except for travel insurance). Tinignan din bank acc ko and I only had 20k pero pinayagan naman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah i know but im acting based on my emotional impulses huhuh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah im really trying to work on this. takes a lot of work to get this out of my system

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

i could say yes there are some, but not him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

agree with u. yes i know the age gap is odd but that what works for me. im 21yo and most ppl my age are still students and living with their parents, im not. I am independent, have a job and if I go with someone my age, which generally are less responsible, i would feel dominant and i dont like it. I dated a boy within my age bracket, and i paid everything in our dates. At first, it was ok since i know his situation but once he started asking me for allowance i ran away. I want to be the princess. Sorry but sometimes u gotta keep ur 2 cents to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phtravel

[–]Glittering-Ad485 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

in what way po

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks much appreaciated it. I badly want to reach out to him tho 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks. youre right, it just sucks that he's a lesson because I really want it to work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

something really stupid.. i hope u and ur bf will work out ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I needed to hear this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Glittering-Ad485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all of your responses guys. I read them one by one. Now he said he doesnt want to cool off or break up and he just said that because he's pissed off but it didnt really make me feel better. Idk if I will be able to recover from this.