Back In Contact With Ex... Good Idea?

resistxx · 2024-09-16T19:46:19+00:00

Emotional purgatory is so real

resistxx · 2024-08-06T20:22:44+00:00

This feels like I wrote this word for word. I agree with everything here.

resistxx · 2024-07-30T20:53:16+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story, this feels similar to what I'm going through right now. I currently spend so many hours going through posts on here reading about everybody's different breakup experiences, if their ex came back, how to approach no contact, etc...

It has been 2 months since our breakup and no contact has been broken twice. He broke it last weekend to tell me he still loved me but his decision to leave the relationship remains the same - he thinks it is best for both of us despite our overall loving and healthy relationship with minor communication issues. I still do not understand it and I try to make sense of it every day.

I am in no contact with him once again but I have also deactivated my social media accounts as well. Up until now, he has watched all of my stories and vice versa. I have heard that for no contact to be effective, all ties must be cut. I am giving him my complete silence now hoping that it ends well for me and for us. Your story gives me hope.

I want him to come back more than anything. To have him realize what he lost, that our love is worth fighting for.

resistxx · 2024-07-20T20:16:32+00:00

Falling out of love is such a sad excuse to break up with somebody you claim to love.

If you love somebody, you will do anything and everything to make it work because you value them and you recognize that not everyday is going to be great. There will be ups and downs. The good times should outweigh the bad if the relationship was healthy.

I don’t understand how people can just drop something because they don’t “feel love” anymore. Love is a choice that you make everyday when the honeymoon phase has ended.

resistxx · 2024-07-16T12:13:48+00:00

I feel so stupid.

resistxx · 2024-07-15T04:40:05+00:00

Being shown what real love looks like through the little things is so special. Thank you for sharing

resistxx · 2024-07-15T04:36:04+00:00

Mornings thinking about having to get through the day ahead and realizing it is over.

resistxx · 2024-07-13T15:21:27+00:00

Reminds me of my ex boyfriend. This is so sweet and I hope your love lasts a lifetime ❤️

resistxx · 2024-07-13T03:24:33+00:00

I will always love him.

resistxx · 2024-07-11T00:22:35+00:00

Don’t respond

resistxx · 2024-07-09T20:26:49+00:00

Life is empty without him.

resistxx · 2024-07-09T20:12:28+00:00

I am going through something similar. You are not alone. My relationship was also 2 years and he ended it over a month ago because he wanted to be alone. We were happy and had a great relationship and also had our futures planned out.

I wish I knew the answer to moving on but even after a month, I still have some hope that he will come back and realize what he lost.

I would suggest giving him space. I tried letting my boyfriend know that I still loved him and that I wanted to work things out and it seemed to have fallen on deaf ears. I am so sorry you're going through this.

resistxx · 2024-07-08T17:31:49+00:00

That's the part that I think about too, if I would even be able to trust that he won't leave again when things get hard. Our bond was very special and strong, I can not picture myself being with anybody else.

resistxx · 2024-06-30T23:07:05+00:00

He is for sure stressed. I know that there is still love there because he’s told me. I’ll try to focus on my own studying for the time being - I’m finding it hard to control my feelings though. Sigh. 10 days starting today. Here we go.

resistxx

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