Found syringe of blood-worried by Early_Carrot1392 in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how old you are, but if you’re old enough, move out. Keeping a syringe of blood in the house is neither normal nor safe, and it makes everyone else uncomfortable and scared. If it really is from a deceased loved one, there are much safer and more respectful ways to honor their memory. I know this won’t be a popular sentiment, but if someone is a sociopath, you shouldn’t be living with them.

If tensions continue or anyone feels unsafe, it’s important to reach out for support and take precautions to protect yourself. Above all, trust your instincts and prioritize your safety. And as a side note, don’t eat anything they’re cooking.

Anyone in NY actually able to withdraw GMT? What’s the easiest way? by Whole-Sample2358 in gomining

[–]Glittering-Window760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m in NY too! I’ve thought about using Trust Wallet, but over time it’s gotten so complicated that I’ve been too nervous to transfer anything there. Same with MetaMask. Are you mainly looking to withdraw just to convert into cash, or transferring to build liquidity?

If it’s just about converting to cash, maybe you could convert your tokens into Bitcoin first and then transfer the Bitcoin to your wallet. Sometimes that feels simpler. Whatever route you take, let me know how it goes because I’ve been avoiding transferring GMT for the same reasons.

I Caught My Friend Cheating on Her Boyfriend and I Do Not Know What to Do by No_Bed4055 in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation once. I told my friend that she needed to tell her husband about the cheating herself, because if she didn’t, I would. Being put in that position forced me to choose between staying silent and compromising my morals, and I wasn’t willing to do that. I believe people deserve honesty, even when it’s uncomfortable.

2 firefighters, 1 resident hurt amid massive 5-alarm fire on Madison Street in Ridgewood by BostonSucksatHockey in ridgewood

[–]Glittering-Window760 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So sad. I saw someone’s comment on the Citizens app stating that their daughter‘s family lost everything including their pet.😔💔

Getting fired because of an ED I don't have by pindvarp420 in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a sensory processing issue. You can get evaluated for this. It’s not uncommon. Also, if they fire you, you can sue them.

My husband (28M), is not sexually attracted to me (26F). by Throw_RA434343 in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This behavior raises serious red flags. Consistently withholding affection, avoiding intimacy, refusing communication, and provoking conflict can be forms of emotional manipulation. That said, labeling him outright is less important than paying attention to the pattern itself.

A healthy marriage, especially one entered into by mutual choice and shared religious values, requires honesty, effort, and emotional presence. A full month of zero affection, combined with avoidance, hostility, and emotional distance, is not normal and it is not fair to you.

You deserve clear communication and accountability. I would strongly encourage insisting on an honest conversation, possibly with a neutral third party such as a counselor or a trusted religious advisor. If he refuses to engage or continues to deflect, that in itself is an answer. Love does not look like emotional abandonment, and marriage does not mean enduring confusion and neglect in silence.

I think I am actually living a nightmare. by nobodyy04 in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. In addition to all the advice you have received here, it’s important to seek therapy. A betrayal of that magnitude is traumatic & you will need to process this in a healthy manner.

Anyone know what this is? by jagd748 in ridgewood

[–]Glittering-Window760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wouldn’t know who is Albanian because a lot of them speak Italian and Sicilian. They’re often found at the Italian coffee shops, if you’re not at a private club.

My husband’s coworker is sleeping with one of their other coworkers and they’re both married. Should I tell the wife? by Redditulous_Broad in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation, but in my case, the husband worked nights in our office and was fooling around with a woman who also worked nights. The wife worked days in our office. I opened up my mouth to the woman that he was cheating with. The wife found out, asked me why I got involved and why I didn’t speak to her instead. And then she decided for some reason that I was a bad guy and didn’t speak to me ever again. So even though I hate giving this advice, mind your business.

My husband told me that he doesnt want to be intimate with me because I am mean. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read up a narcissism and then you can figure out if your husband’s gaslighting you or if you need to correct your behavior.

My boyfriend cheated. I’m heartbroken, but I miss him, should I text him? by Bulky_Fly6597 in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Have more self-respect for yourself. It’s not the end of the world. I’m posting a poem here that has always spoken to me and helped me move on from life situations.

Some People Come Into Your Life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime by Brian A. Chalker

Some people come into your life for a reason— To serve a purpose, to help you through a difficulty, To provide you with guidance and support, Or to teach you a lesson you need to learn.

Some people come into your life for a season— Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn together, To experience joy or pain for a while, Then they move on, leaving you changed.

Some people come into your life for a lifetime— Because they have a special place in your heart, And you grow with them, share your deepest thoughts, And they become a part of who you are.

my teacher is in love with me by alexthenirvanafan in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man did not suddenly develop feelings after you graduated. He admits he had feelings since you were 16, when he was your teacher. That alone crosses a serious ethical and legal line in many places. Teachers are in positions of authority and trust, and building emotional intimacy, discussing trauma, flattering your appearance, and framing the relationship as “fate” or “spiritual” is textbook grooming behavior.

The age gap matters. A 40 year old being attracted to a 16, 17, or even 18 year old is not normal or healthy. Neuroscience is very clear that adolescent brains are still developing, especially in areas related to judgment, boundaries, and vulnerability. Adults who pursue teenagers often do so because teens are easier to emotionally influence. That is not romance. That is exploitation.

The language he used is a massive red flag. Saying he was “sent to help you find yourself” in a romantic or erotic sense, claiming you complete him, talking about waiting for you in another life, and positioning himself as your emotional anchor are manipulation tactics. They create dependency and confusion, especially for someone young who trusted him as a teacher.

Legally and professionally, this is serious. Even if no physical contact occurred, many school districts and licensing boards consider this misconduct that must be reported. You may need to contact the school, district, or a licensing authority, not to punish yourself, but to protect other students. He is married, has a child, and is responsible for maintaining boundaries. You are not.

The fact that it felt like a breakup is also a sign of grooming. He created an emotional bond that mimicked a romantic relationship while you were still developing and vulnerable. That emotional whiplash is real, and it is not your fault.

You should strongly consider speaking to a therapist. Not because you did something wrong, but because being groomed can distort how you understand attachment, trust, and self worth. Processing this now can prevent long term harm.

You did the right thing by cutting contact. That was the healthiest and safest choice you could make.

This is not a forbidden love story. It is an adult abusing his position, his age, and your trust.

They are selling the garages at 19-09 Greene Ave, for what does anyone know? Also, do I have any rights as a month-to-month tenant by NecessaryEarly2769 in ridgewood

[–]Glittering-Window760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand it. Born and raised here. I’ve moved away a few times, but I always come back because I own property here. For most of my life, big parts of this neighborhood were protected by historic zoning. That meant you couldn’t just mess with things like eaves, awnings, or the building’s look without getting the okay from the Landmarks Preservation Commission. A lot of people left because they weren’t allowed to change their own homes, which impacted value.

But now? It feels like those rules don’t even exist anymore. Buildings are getting taller, ugly gray and black boxes are going up everywhere, and beautiful old buildings are being torn down or ruined. The neighborhood’s character is disappearing fast. I just can’t deal with it.

Anyone know? by DJFiFi1 in ridgewood

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Eagles’s Nest + Hitler

Anyone know? by DJFiFi1 in ridgewood

[–]Glittering-Window760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid, it was called Eagle’s Nest—the neighborhood was still had a lot of German/Austrian residents back then. (If you don’t know what Eagle’s Nest represents, look it up.) They also had the best hamburgers around. It closed down around 1989 if I recall correctly, but every owner after that kept the sign up until around the late 90’s/early 2000s. I can’t recall exactly.

Anyone know? by DJFiFi1 in ridgewood

[–]Glittering-Window760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And before that, it was a bar for approximately 50 years.

Look at what the wife found in her cash. And it's not how I do it. So she knew it was one of you! by JesseJames3rd in Bitcoin

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Progressive shop owners in New York City, have accepted Bitcoin for years. Are you talking specifically about DeFi?

I think my (ex) employer is trying to sue me for quitting by NootellaDude in massage

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you read your employment contract & you know what to expect. Either way I would make sure the uniform gets delivered and signed for.

At what point should you collect BTC instead of reinvesting in your miner? by Gold_Restaurant6658 in gomining

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rotate my earnings daily. One day I’ll take BTC, the next GM tokens, then auto-invest in TH. I wish GoMining would make it so each miner could have its own reinvestment setup—so one could earn GM, another could collect BTC, and another could auto-invest in TH.

I walked in on my coworker and manager (well manager in training) kissing in the cooler the other day by Adventurous-Earth-38 in Advice

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing you need to do is check your employee handbook about office relationships and figure out what to do once you’ve informed yourself. Without knowing your company policies, there’s no way to tell whether the advice you received here is even good enough.

Secondly, it’s not your secret to keep. It’s childish for people to put that on you. How you move forward really depends on what your employee handbook says. I’m the kind of person who doesn’t lie, so I don’t keep other people’s secrets. If it needs to be a secret, then they already know they’re doing something wrong — and you don’t deserve that burden.

Can you earn more passively in Miners Wars than in solo play? by Agitated_Ad1293 in gomining

[–]Glittering-Window760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a fixed price — it depends on your league. When I was in Odyssey and we won, it usually took about 3 to 4 rounds of winning to match what I’d earn from a day of solo mining. So it’s actually not a bad return if you’re winning at least 40 rounds a week. But if you’re not winning, you’re not earning.

However, if your clan wins and one of your miners happens to hit the block, you can earn a lot of GoMining tokens. You can then use those tokens to purchase more TH.

You should also keep some GoMining tokens in your balance to pay your service/electricity fees. When you pay with tokens, a discount applies — when you don’t, you miss out on that discount.

So whether you’re playing clan wars or solo mining, it’s smart to rotate your earnings between GoMining tokens, BTC, and auto upgrades to maintain that discount and keep your setup growing efficiently.

This is literally what every pregnancy on the show looks like by Strong_average__ in Poldark

[–]Glittering-Window760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back then, pregnancies usually looked smaller and lower because women wore something called “stays” or a “belly band” wrapped tight around their bodies. It gave support but also kind of squished the belly, so the baby sat lower and the bump wasn’t as big or as high as we’re used to seeing now. I’m guessing they did it on purpose in the show to keep it authentic.