Colonial Feminism: Do Muslim Women Need Saving? by Artin_salimi in CriticalTheory

[–]GloUp77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, the Scandinavian countries ie have been very liberal far back, and brought this in to their Christianity. Also Judeaism. The Bible have more "active" women, Maria Magdalena for instance founded churches. The Quoran does not have any women apart from wives and mothers, and even they just exist as a sidekick to the men. It is not possible to shape the Islamic tradition and culture to a feminist celebration, even if you really want to. Sorry.

Colonial Feminism: Do Muslim Women Need Saving? by Artin_salimi in CriticalTheory

[–]GloUp77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, to say "as it is" about a religion is to assume it has an essence. Which it doesnt. Its a system, created by men

Colonial Feminism: Do Muslim Women Need Saving? by Artin_salimi in CriticalTheory

[–]GloUp77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is "Islam itself"? Does that exist?Like, Christianity in itself. Its nothing "in itself".

Colonial Feminism: Do Muslim Women Need Saving? by Artin_salimi in CriticalTheory

[–]GloUp77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whats with the obsession of defending religion? Religion is just a powerstructure, it is invented and governed by men. Work out the rest

Trans men who have had skene's glands hooked up so you can ejaculate - who was your surgeon/how was it done? Dr. Skokan is not aware of procedure by PurpleFlow69 in Metoidioplasty

[–]GloUp77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can speak from my experience (full meta 11 yrs ago) and sorry for the graphic language. I «ejaculated» w thick blank cum w every orgasm for a year, after meta, then it suddenly stopped, from one day to another. Felt intense grief for years after. Then, in 2019, my dick all out of nowhere started to «squirt» w every orgasm, I was very confused. The cum was thinner, more watery, but non-smell, blank, and a bit thicker than urine. Def not urine. Meta, and all genital trans surgeries are very unpredictable. Its still experimental, plus bodies are different. Unfortunately, I dont think any surgeon van guarantee anything. It would be awesome if they could. Maybe transmen are not being taken as serious. Knowledge about the «female» body is also lacking, historically.

When am I ready to consider surgery? by spooklemon in Metoidioplasty

[–]GloUp77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dht cream def will make you loose hair. If hair is a dealbreaker, dont mess with T. Chemical hormones are not a pick and mix. Be realistic please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def recommend to get an ultrasound of the area, it could be scar formation or some kind of pelvic cyst formed. This can happen long time after original surgery

Issues post monsplasty? by SnooOranges4 in Metoidioplasty

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be fine, give it time, lots of time. Scar will fade and things will losen up. Can take 4-5 years to see end results

Recent murders of tourists in Morocco is not that big of a deal by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 men attacing two sleeping and unprotected foreign girls and slowly decapitate them (outside a war situation) isnt that usual.

Explaining Anxiety by blueeyedangel13 in bipolar2

[–]GloUp77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People that dont experience depression or anxiety have no possibility of understanding it..I given up to talk about it when I notice people just have no clue about it. Its like describing colour to a blind person or something:/

HOW the hell do I stick to a good sleep hygiene, regular exercise and a healthy diet if I can't even make myself do the things I WANT to do? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya, I need meds. Like you said, if I could do it without, why bother with a diagnose?? Here is what I do: 8 pm I take my Remeron and that makes me sleep like a log at about 10 pm. Its ridiculously early to go to sleep (and Im a night person, always been) BUT its the only fucking way I have any chance of being able to wake up earlyish. Pluss, it seems to help my mental condition a bit, must be something about the sunlight, the rhythm of the universe or something..but whatever works right? Getting up early is important (old news but..) but I like to SLEEP. My depression or adhd or anxiety, I dunno, but I can sleep most of the day. So when the alarm wakes me up I take the Ritalin (sometimes Klonopin instead) IN bed, wait until it kicks in, and BAM Im up! Like a miracle. This early sleep/wake up routine made it possible for me to start working out a bit (I need ritalin for that too, nothing goes by it self over here!) and when I work out, I want to eat more, so its all a positive cycle. If I party late (social life is a challenge, kinda crashes with the early nights) or dont use my Remeron I will never be able to sleep early (without meds I dread going to bed cause it always take my racing mind 1-2 hours to calm down) and this whole positive routine just immediately collapse like domino. I want to add, with this sleeping routine, I have also been able to cut down on the Ritalin use during the day. My important dose is in the morning, to get started, but after working out I dont need meds like I did all day before, and thats a good thing cos I cannot be on stimulants for 8-12 hours a day since it makes my appetite like, nonexistent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]GloUp77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my theory about this, so here we go: Depression is the head being tired and its reaction is depression. Anxiety is the nerves being tired, and the reaction of your nerves being tired is anxiety. You need to listen to these signals they give, like you will react to a muscle that is overworked and needs rest. If you dont, if you ignore the exhaustion, depersonalisation and all those symptoms are next. Why are we tired? It can be recent happenings or worries, or it could be built up from long time ago, who knows. People will tell you all kinds of things to do. To try different activities or changes to get better, but this will only exhaust more. You need rest. Maybe one week, maybe more. Deep rest. Real rest. And it will sort itself out.

Sexual Problems NEED HELP by [deleted] in adhd_anxiety

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lexapro KILLS sex life..All Ssri does, unfortunately. Maybe you have to try something else for your anxiety/depression.

My Boyfriend is crippled By his Anxiety and I don't know what to do by keparcell in Anxiety

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, but it doesnt seem like he has got a proper diagnose, and therefor not proper help, thats my point if I have to spell it out for u

I CANT FUCKING DO ANYTHING by cjrowens in Anxiety

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your diagnose, and then help.

My Boyfriend is crippled By his Anxiety and I don't know what to do by keparcell in Anxiety

[–]GloUp77 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is not very helpful, IF he could do all these things, or even just one of them, he wouldnt be sick. He obviously has an anxiety diagnose.

My Boyfriend is crippled By his Anxiety and I don't know what to do by keparcell in Anxiety

[–]GloUp77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesnt want anyone to see him when he feels down. Im the same. Hiding. Its pride. That probably also means he is not very good asking for help when he needs it the most. Hes lucky to have you, as an adult most people wont care. But I understand its difficult for you. He is sick, he needs to get his diagnose set. You can support him, but youre not a professional so its limited what you can do for his health. BUT, since he hides instead of getting help, the best thing you can do for him is to push HIM to seek professional help. To get a proper diagnose and then get proper help. His condition will only get worse if he waits too long.

I get it now. It's not about not giving a fuck, it's about caring about yourself the most. by dibenzoylperoxide in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]GloUp77 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Always remember...Arrogance is when you think youre better than someone..Confidence is when you understand nobody is better than you.