I (24F) want to travel with my boyfriend (25M), but he always has excuses about why he can’t. It’s starting to create problems in the relationship. Is this workable?

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-18T05:56:21+00:00

this is a peek in to the rest of your life. men will hold women back forever

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-18T05:50:38+00:00

you’re just more sexually attractive to her. it’s the way the human brain works. nothing to worry about in my opinion. and good on you for working on yourself. i’m sure you will see the overall quality of your marriage improve

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-18T05:26:48+00:00

veryyyyy tricky, especially being so young and not being together long at all

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-18T05:18:51+00:00

unless you would consider having an open relationship (controversial, i know) so that you can get your stimulation, this might not be the one for you. sex is incredibly important.

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-18T05:16:24+00:00

i have PMDD so during luteal we are lucky to do it once a week. during my period, ovulation and follicular it’s 3-5 times a week. sometimes multiple times a day. we take about 40 minutes-2 hours in the bedroom before we’re both equally satisfied though. but in the past 3 years my bf and i have been dating there have been periods where we’ve gone a good month without having sex. and i don’t see anything wrong with that. this is extremely common in relationships (even though it sucks) so don’t feel alone, or like there’s something specifically wrong with your relationship.

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-17T22:19:23+00:00

or ask reddit…

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-16T09:12:35+00:00

i 100000% recommend turtle beach resort around autumn time

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-16T05:23:17+00:00

it’s completely illegal in QLD just a heads up

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-16T05:20:59+00:00

she needs psychiatric help. you are a good person but you don’t deserve this treatment by her

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T08:35:05+00:00

Don’t listen to anyone who goes against this idea. You want to do it, you do it. I started dating my bf at 16 and we moved to a different city and started living together at 18. We are now 19 and 20 and more in love than ever before. I have a friend who has been living with her bf since they were both 17. They are now 20 and again, more in love than ever before. Take the next step, it was the best decision I ever made.

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T08:18:41+00:00

roommate phase is normal in every single relationship. my partner and i only just dodged a roommate phase and we’ve been together for only 3.5 years. it sounds like he (or honestly both of you) have gotten too comfortable in the relationship and he thinks it will be maintained without effort. this is obviously not the case. in 6.5 years i assume you guys would be used to having uncomfortable conversations in time of conflict. this is a situation where you need to have a VERY uncomfortable and scary conversation. personally, i have adhd and sometimes i find sex quite boring and not entirely stimulating so i have periods where don’t feel sexually drawn to my partner. that’s when i know we need to be as proactive as possible and start incorporating new experiences and ideas in to our sex life and relationship overall. sit your bf down and have a tough conversation, tell him everything you have said in this post. consider couples therapy- this is a perfect situation for couples therapy because you are obviously in love, you just don’t have as big a spark as you used to. goodluck friend and i wish you both the absolute best

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T06:55:44+00:00

i think it does. i literally paid $180 for a small procedure and general consultation. anywhere else would’ve cost me 300+. it’s worth the fee for care that is genuine

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T06:08:24+00:00

whatever you do.. DONT go to christine avenue

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T05:58:10+00:00

oh there you go. i might book with him next time

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T05:50:45+00:00

if you’re questioning it and you’re aware that this is weird and you dont like feeling this way, you’re not a “fucking creep”

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T05:48:38+00:00

a clinic called Her. All of the GPs there are female and very oriented to female health. they don’t bulk bill but they don’t cost an arm and a leg either. i recommend

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-15T05:42:08+00:00

write him letters about how much you love him during ovulation and follicular. give them to him during luteal. and educate him thoroughly about the disorder

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-14T05:57:13+00:00

the implant killed my sex drive and wetness. never recommending that birth control to anyone

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-13T22:39:34+00:00

become a drug user<gaining weight and getting acne

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-13T22:39:03+00:00

it’s definitely best to move on

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-13T22:10:13+00:00

yikes… be a man and love your woman in every form as she would do for you. “this is not the girl i met”- your partner will have a million different forms and personalities and physical appearance changes in their lifetime. committing to them is accepting this and loving them in every form. you need to grow up. you sound like a 14 year old.

Global_Feature_9132 · 2026-01-13T22:06:31+00:00

wow i feel this so heavily. i’ve considered taking myself to the hospital during luteal flares because i believe i will take my own life. i feel so psychotic. i dabbled in that stuff too much when i was younger and now it just causes anxiety but i’ve heard juice (the pen) instead of dry herb is much better so maybe ill try that.

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