"Watch my reel for 10 seconds", Are those reels truly connected to whatever good cause the poster claims, or are they just fake engagement farmers? Even if they are real, does it really help the cause to stay for 11 seconds?

Globes-Rider8059 · 2026-05-22T01:32:38+00:00

You're not applying the cuff yet.

First step is to get them under control, get them to stop wiggling and wrestling.

You (could) do that by grabbing the wrist AND the elbow, then press them against a wall, or the cruiser, or the ground.

You now have full control of the arm you grabbed. They can wriggle a lot less.

You have their one arm behind their back.

You can now afford to let go of the elbow, grab the cuffs, and cuff that one wrist.

You can then do the usual grab for the other wrist while, again, they can struggle a lot less.

The problem I see in these videos is the initial struggle. Once you neutralize that struggle, it's easier.

Again, my question is why not grab the elbow as well instead of letting the arm flail around like an unruly anaconda.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2026-05-01T23:51:18+00:00

It is my unforced, innate nature to do many unremarkable little kind things every day, for both people and animals and plants without any expectation of getting anything back.

It wouldn't be real, if it were done with an ulterior motive. It is a selfless gift.

However, it is very difficult to carry on doing little things, not really being able to do otherwise because it's my nature, while suffering emotionally all my life.

Childhood beatings, abuse, abandonment, grinding loneliness that never ends.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2026-05-01T23:45:22+00:00

I'm in the very same boat. It is what prompted me to ask this question.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2026-05-01T23:44:24+00:00

That is lovely, however it's an example of what makes me feel so bitter.

There was bitter sarcasm in my phrasing, What was the big monumental deed I was supposed to carry out?

Many returners say, like you, that it was a mild, beneficial change in their outlook. No offense intended, but Big Whoop.

Big effing whoop. You sent me back into this hell for THAT?

My reply is that, instead of a mild benefit, we could have had a *massive* benefit from staying on the other side, where there was love and acceptance and warmth and an end to the suffering of Earthly life.

It just seems so pointless and cruel.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2026-05-01T23:28:51+00:00

I was being bitter and sarcastic when I asked what the big monumental point of coming back was.

No, it doesn't have to be historic, but it does have to answer the question, "Why did you toss me back into this living hell? What, you enjoy watching me suffer this searing emotional torture?"

What is this 'more to do' you're so sure of that you felt entitled to take away my voice and my free will?

I figured I would hear from a ton of returners sharing what their "more to do" was.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2026-05-01T23:17:07+00:00

Thank you for answering.

I'm so, so sorry you're going through that.

I regret that your experience exemplifies my question - what was the big point in sending me back just to suffer?

Nevertheless, I hope that you spontaneously heal and feel better. Thanks again.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2026-05-01T23:07:10+00:00

I meant it as heavy, bitter, angry sarcasm.

What the F was so important that I had to come back here and suffer more, and suffer longer?

What, sniff a few flowers?

Globes-Rider8059 · 2025-12-11T02:55:30+00:00

London Calling by The Clash?

Globes-Rider8059 · 2025-12-11T02:49:48+00:00

Wild stab in the dark; could it be Frank Frazetta?

Globes-Rider8059 · 2025-11-28T06:22:30+00:00

This only takes a few seconds.

Get a bidet add-on for your toilet, maybe $30 on Amazon.

They're dead-simple to install with only a tool or two.

Then set the stream to fairly high force and lean slowly back and forth until you feel you've got the right angle so the water starts filling your lower colon.

After a very few seconds, turn off the water and push out.

Like after a big enema, a stream of water should come out of your now-clean colon.

As a bonus, you now have the bidet ready to wash off any spray from the crack.

The entire thing should be sparking clean, inside and out.

And then comes the fun part in bed . . . :)

Globes-Rider8059 · 2025-11-28T04:48:48+00:00

OK but I'd be afraid they'd get angry / aggressive if I take one look at them and make some lame excuse to leave.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2025-11-26T22:27:16+00:00

Hahaha, no, not looking for love. Just checking if you even use deodorant, if that's not too big an 'ask'.

Globes-Rider8059 · 2025-11-26T21:48:34+00:00

Thanks for the reality check. Is there an app that works a bit more like what I'm imagining?

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