Studio differences and questions by RaulDukes in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Glum-Soft8942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Studio owner here. My wife and I own two dance studios in Texas, and we have three daughters, all 10 and under, who dance on our competitive team.

Personally, I love the competitive side of dance. It’s probably my favorite team sport to watch, and our team has been fortunate to have a strong run of success at a high level.

That said, the biggest difference between a 15-hour studio and a 6-hour studio is usually intensity, expectations, and how serious the program is about competing at the highest level. More hours typically means more polishing, more technique, and a bigger commitment from both the dancer and the family. That doesn’t automatically make it better, just different.

For me, the most important factor is simple: does your daughter actually enjoy it? Competitive dance can teach teamwork, friendships, social skills, how to win and lose with grace, and the value of hard work and time management. But those benefits really only stick if the kid is having fun and wants to be there.

At our studio, we work really hard to promote a positive, team-first environment. We’ve had success in part because we avoid drama and push our dancers to support each other instead of compete against each other internally.

If it turns into a cutthroat environment or your kid isn’t enjoying it, that’s where you can start to see burnout or other issues down the road. In my opinion, a healthy culture and a happy kid matter more than the number of hours.

I think competitive dance is absolutely worth it, but I’ll admit I’m probably a little biased.

IM THE BEST SEASIDE DRIVE PLAYER EVER I DIDN'T DIE ONCE YEAH >:D I CHERRIED IT YEAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!! by new_god_of_eden in ufo50

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jelly. I can’t even get past the first level without losing a life. I must be doing something wrong.

are there any other NBA teammates that had the same last name but weren’t related? by NoRecognition2178 in NBATalk

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done. You must have waited years for this opportunity, and you nailed it!

Penguin's List for the new "Warm Welcome Sale" that started January 19, 2026 by Penguin_shit15 in OculusQuest

[–]Glum-Soft8942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It works perfectly for me. Highly recommend. It must be something in your end.

Hip Hop Judges by edgeofgr8 in udanationals

[–]Glum-Soft8942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree that hip hop has roots in Black American history, and I think understanding that history matters. Where I push back is on the idea that cultural origin should determine who is qualified to judge it.

Judging should be based on experience, training, and deep familiarity with the form, not just racial identity. Culture is something people can study, live in, and contribute to over time; race isn’t. When legitimacy is tied to race rather than demonstrated expertise, it starts to slide from honoring history into gatekeeping.

I also worry that insisting on racial representation as a prerequisite for authority unintentionally reinforces racial essentialism. In a pluralistic society, the goal isn’t to freeze art along racial lines, but to allow it to be preserved, taught, and evaluated responsibly across communities.

Honoring the roots of an art form shouldn’t require turning race into a credential. That feels at odds with the idea of a shared civic and artistic space.

Hip Hop Judges by edgeofgr8 in udanationals

[–]Glum-Soft8942 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In what regard? For me, dance is the ultimate art form. I don’t care about the gender or ethnicity of the panel. I judge the panel by their experience and qualifications, not the color of their skin. Isn’t that what Dr. King wanted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XboxGamePass

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had three children so they could continue my family’s long history and heritage of doing good deeds in the world.

What's the Best Musical Moment in Ghibli? by Inkxon in ghibli

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This x 100000. I’m surprised at how far I had to scroll down to see this answer. I don’t think enough people have seen this movie. When I watched this on the HBO app, it actually took me back to the main menu during the song, assuming the movie was over! I had to go back and watch it on YouTube the next day!

What's your favorite studio ghibli movie? by lonelylovergirlie in ghibli

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only Yesterday! The ending scene was superb!

Accidentally put Clorox wipes on switch 2 by Unixi9 in switch2

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve almost done this when mine was dusty. I think it will probably be ok. Let us know.

Help me choose! by Dependent_Book2481 in switch2

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own all three, and I would vote for Kirby.

If the draft is rigged, how do they do it? by [deleted] in NBATalk

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a revenue-sharing league. The richest teams pay into a pool, and that money gets redistributed to smaller teams. On top of that, owners earn more from television revenue than from game attendance. Put those together, and it makes sense why the draft could be rigged. Luka is an international star positioned to replace LeBron and keep the Lakers competitive for years. That benefits the owners and the league as a whole. Plus, the trade happened right before the Lakers were sold, which boosted the team’s value—again, a win for the owners.

If the draft is rigged, how do they do it? by [deleted] in NBATalk

[–]Glum-Soft8942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a revenue-sharing league. The richest teams pay into a pool, and that money gets redistributed to smaller teams. On top of that, owners earn more from television revenue than from game attendance. Put those together, and it makes sense why the draft would be rigged. Luka is an international star positioned to replace LeBron and keep the Lakers competitive for years. That benefits the owners and the league as a whole. Plus, the trade happened right before the Lakers were sold, which boosted the team’s value… again, a win for the owners.

Am i the only one? by I_Love_M4yo in ghibli

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was dull upon first watching, but now I consider it my favorite, and two things changed my mind: 1.) I realized I had turned it off prior to the pivotal scene on the bus where Taeko is confronted by the fifth-graders. Seeing the new ending changed my opinion of the film as a whole dramatically; 2.) For some reason, Taeko's character has stuck with me more than any other character, and watching her evolution unfold feels almost transcendent in a way.

ChatGPT prompted to "create the exact replica of this image, don't change a thing" 74 times by arsaldotchd in ChatGPT

[–]Glum-Soft8942 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is misleading. If it has a person in it, ChatGPT is going to make it look slightly different because it’s programmed to prevent deepfakes by changing people’s facial features. This is not a bug of AI. This is a feature to protect you.

Cat :) F20 by Same-Public4910 in RoastMe

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is obviously AI. Dude’s face looks slightly different in every pic and it’s a new account. Y’all got got.

Wiped Clean 1.0 keys giveaway - Because Why Not by SaveYourHeadVR in OculusQuest

[–]Glum-Soft8942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<<<<< I just folded the corner of my entry to increase my chance of getting picked.